This is a Destiny Reading for one of my Twitter Friends. I come from some gypsy lineage (tiny bit of Mongolian blood from my mother's side) with a knack for Tarot Reading, etc... I didn't pay a lot of attention to it until my children were losing focus on the meaning of life in their pre-teen and teen years :). I often had a house full of young girls who only worried about which boy liked them this week, so I started doing Destiny Readings. It created a major transformation among the young women, my daughters and their friends, to think they had a personal real Destiny to fulfill. Their self image was no longer about who liked them...how they acted...what they wore...what they looked like...
It's a combination of Chinese Astrology, Tarot, Birthday Analysis and Destiny Era charts...all rolled into one. A bit of intuition/talent blends them together into one basic "Destiny" and primary purpose. I do believe there is one big thing we come here to "complete". And if you don't look for it...you will leave this earth without having done it and will keep coming back until the job is done. Of course I am also very grounded in the Catholic Faith and Judaeo/Christian teachings. I don't view any one way as the ONLY way, and I roll everything into one until it blends into a world of great compassion and understanding.
It's never a bad thing to FOCUS on something, so whether you believe that THIS is truly your Destiny...it really doesn't matter. Improving focus on accomplishment is always a good thing.
The Destiny of this person is so very different from my own, that it has taken me a bit of time to blend into a primary purpose. Your purpose is usually the OPPOSITE of what you do naturally and comfortably, day in and day out. You may have heard the saying "What you RESIST...PERSISTS." If you are an introvert, as example, your Destiny is likely about interaction outside of your personal world. If you are an extrovert, then the reverse is likely true.
Sad to say that while generally speaking for this person, Spring and Summer are normally the best times to progress toward her ultimate destiny (vs. Fall and Winter), 2009 is the WORST year since 1997, and will not get a lot better until 2011 and 2012. On the bright side, that imposes less urgency to change in the near future :)
It is not surprising that her WORK has nothing at all to do with her destiny. Her work encompasses a wide territory and many people on a daily basis. Her Destiny is VERY PERSONAL. She is here to work on herself. She is not here to invent or create something for others, She is here to find contentment with her inner self.
In this Year of the Ox, that will be an exceptional struggle. She will be pulled to areas that create self doubt and to some extent, even self loathing. For some that could create a year of great personal advancement IF they fight through it...but this person is not likely going to fight through it, so she needs to do a few things in 2009:
1) Surround yourself with people who truly like you for Who You Are.
2) Avoid people who put you down in any way shape or form...just move away from them, hang up on them, refuse to engage with them, tune them out and nod if you must and get away from them as soon as humanly possible.
3) Declutter the area you spend most of your time in. Remove anything that does not make you smile and add things that do make you smile, and keep them there and in the same place for a full year. Don't keep changing your space. Make it most comfortable and leave it alone until your birthday in 2010.
4) Expect the tendency to undervalue yourself to be the strongest this year...and fight it by ignoring it. Anytime you feel you didn't do "good enough", take a walk or better yet, indulge in an "escapist" activity like an uplifting movie that refocuses your thoughts. Don't try to reverse the feeling by "doing" (which is your natural tendency)...move away from it.
YOUR PRIMARY AND ULTIMATE DESTINY is to disassociate your feelings of self worth from your work. But that is difficult because you are work driven, and the more you stay in the driver's seat and refuse to be a passenger of life, the worse it gets.
YOUR PRIMARY TALENTS ARE NOT IN THE AREA OF FINANCE. Understand that you are not meant to be good at that which you are not good at, and don't perceive those things as "your weaknesses". Of the many things you can be good it...you are not meant to be good at all of them for a reason.
You feel a strong sense of needing to do something important for others...but the reality is, you are meant to be content with yourself. All the other things will COME to you, when you find yourself, contentment with yourself, maximum self esteem...all the things you seek you will actually drive away, until you come to a full understanding of your self and know that ultimately it is not what you DO, but Who You Are, that is most important.
To Thine Own Self Be True...the rest will fall into place once you ALWAYS honor only yourself. Your sense of duty, ethics and fairness, which are very strong...will cause you to think this cannot be true...but it is also why it IS true.
Oddly, many on your Kharmic Path will try to fulfill their need to improve self-worth with "the need to be needed" by many, and at all times. To make the most progress, make sure your non-work times of which there are few, are filled with non-work people and non-work activities. On the bright side, becasue you don't indulge in pleasures enough...when you do...the pleasure from the activity is magnified.
If there was ever a year to balance work with relaxation...this is it! If you don't...you will be much worse for the wear by the first new moon of 2010.
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