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Avoid Turning Into A Microscope With Others
So often with relationships as they develop along we go from the big picture about knowing someone, kind of looking at them from a distance say like with a telescope, to ZEROING IN on them with all their fine details shifting to another kind of viewing instrument. With all our relationships I would caution us to go slow with this other approach and
Avoid Turning Into A Microscope With Others.
All of us are flawed in some way from our development and what individual path we have traveled. Quite normally our behaviors and actions, at least some of them will eventually be contrary to what another wants out of us. But whereas that telescope viewing of us reminded people of all the good in us, and they counted us as "blessings", the microscope view MAGNIFIES those flaws, and they nit pick us apart, as "no good." It is a huge error in not being "somewhat tolerant" of others, giving them a degree of acceptance as just being human. We also should show some patience with others and not walk off in a huff at the least bit of discomfort that we don't like their ways. Who knows? We might adapt and change ... more

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