I am sure that by reading the title of this blog- many agents with any experience with doing business with a family member cringed!
Today was day 1 of moving my dad and step mom into their new home.
The home that is the EXACT opposite of what they told their Realtor (me) they wanted. As well as the EXACT opposite of what their son (me) tole them they should be buying at their age and health.
Listing their home was no problem, house hunting was only mildly frustrating. Once we got an offer on their home- that is when the "fun" began.
The offer was a good enough offer to consider the price. But the possession time offered was only 14 days after closing- and we hadn't found them a home to make an offer on yet. After some tough negotiations on ridiculous issues in the purchase agreement, we came to an amicable agreement with our buyers. But we were still left with having to quickly find my folks a home that would allow for less than 14 days possession.
This all would have been stressful with a normal client. But being my dad and step-mom I felt the extra pressure to make sure this didn't get screwed up!
The fact that they felt very comfortable calling me at 10pm or 7am with questions that I have answered 4 or 5 times, or just to vent because they are stressed out about everything working out- made things even more interesting.
Needless to say, it all worked out.
They do have a beautiful home, sold their previous home at a good price in a short time- in a tough market, and got my moving services for the past 12 hours and probably at least that much more over the next few days.
I have been stressed out for almost 30 days straight, wanting to make sure my folks can be happy with the fact that they had no choice in the Realtor they hired.
But it was an experience that I hadn't previously gone through. I have learned tons about dealing with "difficult clients", and about how to guesstimate how many trailer loads it takes to move the belongings from a 1400 Square Foot ranch on 1 acre to a 127 year old 1800 Sqaure Foot Italianate Style home in the city!
I am sure my experience could have been much worse. I would love to hear about some other agents' experiences in doing business with family members!