YES I DID! October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month! Ironically I was diagnosed with breast cancer October of 2004. But first let me go back in time- I had participated in the American Cancer Society's Relay for Life event in Tracy in honor of some friends & family who survived cancer. Little did I know that in the following months I would be diagnosed with breast cancer, and be back the next year as a cancer survivor myself.
The thing that bothered me the most was that my broker's wife (who I used to play softball with) had died of breast cancer the month before (Sept 2004) I was diagnosed in Oct of 2004. I was still getting over the grief of her death. She was only 42 yrs old. I never thought, "Why me? I thought, "Why now?" My husband and I were planning our retirement - there's so much more that we want to do."
I had been so busy with our Real Estate business that I postponed my mammogram checkups for 2 1/2 years, so when my broker's wife (Cecilia) died of breast cancer I knew I couldn't put it off any longer. When my doctor asked me to come back for additional testing, "I intuitively felt that something was wrong. It's what I call woman's intuition." It wasn't a lump, it was a calcification. I would not of found it in a self exam. It was confirmed that I had cancer. It was devastating. It's not just knowing your days are numbered. God knows all our days are numbered. It's knowing that it could be over a lot sooner than you want it to be. I didn't feel like I had done enough for God, my family, etc....
My husband and I have spent alot of time and training as Ninja realtors, (if you don't know what that is I will post another blog about it) so we quickly realized that we needed to change our thoughts to change our reality. First I have to give credit to my lord and saviour Jesus Christ. Second we have a strong family and network of friends that helped me through some of my darkest hours. It meant so much to me that friends and acquaintances called me with their stories.
From the time I was diagnosed I continued to work selling homes. I had to go to Florida for a week for a real estate conference. Which I ended up taking a friend with me because we were so busy my husband had to stay home and take care of our clients while I was gone to the conference. My surgery was scheduled for December 03, 2004 it so happened that I had to show a listing I had in Antioch at 7:00pm the night before. It takes me 45 - 50 minutes to drive there from Tracy- Manteca. Yes I sold the home. Praise God.
I thought I would of been back to work by Christmas. Boy did I get a shock. That surgery took so much out of me I would get tired real fast and easy. I didn't get back to work until January and by February I was diagnosed with Skin cancer. I ended up having that surgery the same month. I had to recouperate from that. It was pretty hard since it was on my shoulder and I couldn't move my arm while it healed.
I had several scriptures that I read daily! "My grace is sufficient for you, for my strength is made perfect in weakness." (2 corinthians 12:9)
This December I will be cancer free for 3 yrs. Yeah!
Remember to support Breast Cancer Awareness Month and the American Cancer Society.