Have you ever been walking down the street or in the grocery store and you see a person or friend that you haven't seen in years walking along? Many of us may think, man it would be gret to talk with that person, but I don't want it to be awkward. Instead of giving into this thought and missing out on an opportunity to re-establish a relationship, engage this person and follow these tips to avoid awkward conversations with these people.
1- Be excited and animated - it is hard not to match excitement. When you are excited to see this person, they will most likely give the same reaction. Good examples of excitement are women. Most women I see will show so much excitement when they see someone they know even if it has only been a day since they last saw them.
2- Be sincere- this is crucial and the easiest way to avoid awkwardness. It is easy to spot a phony who is only talking to you because they were in 10th grade English class with you 10 years previous. Don't be the phony person. Engage your friend in active conversation. Ask them how they are doing, if you struggle with questions follow the 3 best things to ask about, Health, Wealth, and Family. These 3 things will create a strong conversation and most of the time the person will want to know about you.
3- End well - make sure to end on a good note. Many times these conversations, if you aren't sincere, will end abruptly and awkwardly. Don't cut somebody off mid sentence but plan for an exit sentence. A good one might be, I really enjoyed talking with you, what is your email address so that we can keep in touch.
Follow these simple rules and you will no longer have awkward conversations and most importantly you will create more lasting friendships