REMEMBER THE TRASH COMPACTOR - 05/31/12 03:20 PM
Kitchens remain a priority when selling or buying a home and how they are designed and function plays into the dynamics of the transaction. Some kitchens need remodeling and some have had some work done on them. All time and money well spent. Adding to the kitchen to make it more attractive is a good idea...Enter the trash compactor
NOTHING LIKE IT
It was a handsome piece of machinery introduced in new housing. It looked good and had good marketing materials too. No muss or fuss, just throw you garbage in the unit, close it up and push the button and … (4 comments)

A HAPPY ENDING! - 05/31/12 08:04 AM
Alan...I join you in this happy occasion
This is what it is all about...The call to buy and set up a future goes out to everyone who lives in America and wants to activate the American dream...Anyone can do what they set their hearts to doing especially when you have the freedom to do so. My word to the happy couple below....Borrow not against your home....pay it off as quickly as you can and enjoy life in balance sipping it like fine wine....no gulping
Via Alan in Austin Kirkpatrick (Austin Texas Homes):
Justin and Anissa worked for over a year to make their … (3 comments)

WHY OH WHY DELILAH - 05/30/12 10:25 AM
I wasn't thinking of Tom Jones or Samson...I just needed a title for a quick post...Now that you are here, what should we explore? Life is always a good subject and we all have enough of that in common. Love is something we never learn enough about but all have participated in with lotsa stories to go around too
HOW ABOUT THIS
How about what we do for a living? Now there is an interesting subject. They used to ask that question first on all the old game shows. The emcee would ask.."and what do you do for a living' and … (11 comments)

WHO ARE THESE PEOPLE IN ALL THESE PHOTOS - 05/30/12 07:22 AM
You see them everywhere you go. They are even in magazines, posters, pictures, and in fancy frames. I am referring to people who pose professionally and for promotional purposes for Real Estate purchase or sales. I mean they are supposed to represent the cleanest, must cooperative qualified people on the face of the planet.
ITS SO PERFECT IT GRABS YOUR ATTENTION
Perfect hair, smiles, postures, teeth white, clothes tailored and worn, children well behaved, lawns manicured in the back ground with a picket fence and of course a for sale sign or SOLD sign in the back ground with a perfect … (10 comments)

BEAUTIFUL OCEAN VIEW JUST A TIPPY TOE AWAY - 05/29/12 05:37 PM
As Real Estate professionals, we are held to higher standards using ethics as our flag waiving high in the sky for all to see. One of our standards is truth in advertising etc which remains a very important part of our business. To use tricks, deception, manipulation or imply something false or unreal is not allowed. All agents agree to this
OCEAN VIEW PROPERTY
I remember visiting a nice home for viewing that had advertised ocean view. That is all I was interested in. So I go the subject property and like many homes situated at or around the beach areas, I … (4 comments)

IN SEEKING CUPID DON'T BE STUPID SPEAKS TO EVERYONE - 05/29/12 11:03 AM
The two greatest dynamics that visit with mankind and cannot be ignored are 1. Everyone wants to be loved and 2. No one wants to be alone. However, how we go about this is the cause of so much unnecessary woe. WHY? Instead of following the dictates of our hearts, we let our mind and emotions interfere. The results are mixed and lack endurance
THE HEART IS THE MATTER
Bringing the heart into any matter is bringing the core and the being. This quality dynamic does not disappoint and where people fail is that they don't know their own hearts. Don't … (0 comments)

HONESTY SELLS EVERYTHING STARTING WITH YOU - 05/28/12 12:47 PM
People buy or don't buy from people first is a rule that makes it rounds. We do look and listen to the face that is pitching product. We do research and look for articles, blogs, comments and posts so that we get insights to the persons thinking. In Real Estate, you get one big fat chance to do it right...Picking your agent and making it work is the right first step of many steps
AGENTS DON'T KNOW EVERYTHING
We don't know everything. No one knows everything. Some people know more than others on certain subjects this we all know. A good … (7 comments)

THANK YOU GOOD WAY TO GO THROUGH LIFE - 05/28/12 07:37 AM
With gratitude for everything. Where do you start this thankful journey? Right under your own nose and in your own backyard. From there, it gets easier to appreciate anything wherever you go. There is the small or micro picture of life and then the grand or macro version. On the larger scale, people I don't even know protected my right to freely come and go
THERE IS SO MUCH
To wander through life on this planet with gratitude on point can never be disappointing WHY? There is just too much to be thankful for. No one owes us anything. We are … (10 comments)

INFIGHTING AMONGST THE HEIRS EVERYONE SUFFERS - 05/28/12 06:44 AM
A few years ago, I saw a senior medical facility that could be converted into condos. There were many problems to over come and in time, they would all be addressed accordingly. One main issue was adjacent to this property was a medium size piece of land that would be perfect for complying with the parking per unit requirements of the conversion
CONVERTED WE HAVE POTENTIAL
The people who owned the existing facility were available, flexible and wanting to do a deal. But they wanted to sell the property AS-IS which unfortunately has no real value that can offer a good return on investment. … (4 comments)

ACTIVERAIN IPO INITIAL POST OFFERING - 05/27/12 07:22 AM
That's right. YOU CAN GO PUBLIC right now here on ACTIVERAIN at anytime you want. Just pick a subject or share a product and create a post. Put some reasonable effort into it and VOILA!....you have your own personal ACTIVERAIN IPO. Of course you retain all the shares and the rights to the post and its contents. But, many can visit and comment
HOW TO RAISE YOUR POST STOCK VALUE
Many people are not aware of a few good pluses too. First, commenters can add to the value of of a post. They can expand, piggyback or bring contrast and even introduce … (9 comments)

UNITED STATES OF AMERICA OH BEAUTIFUL - 05/26/12 07:34 AM
All these states coming together each one offering its best foot forward and together becoming greater than one can imagine. Different Americans call the different states home each one for their own reasoning too. Then there is another plus as well. The freedom to come and go and pursue the quality of life...liberty and the dose of happiness even unto your fill of it anywhere you want to
NO PLACE LIKE HOME...WHEREVER HOME IS
Every person claims a state and a place within it for themselves and speaks of it with pride and strong memory plus rich foundation. It is where they either … (7 comments)

THE VALUE OF WELL BEING - 05/25/12 09:17 AM
We take it for granted when we have it. We pay it no mind. Yet, when things become over whelming or fail to deliver the expected results, the lack of well-being causes us to appreciate it even more. It even becomes more obvious when things take a turn for the worse too. Haven't you ever wished you never started or gotten into something that brought you disharmony?
WHAT PRICE IS WELL-BEING?
What price do you pay for well-being? It is not just a physical experience either. Mental, emotional, psychological and spiritual harmony is necessary for the proper balance within a human being. When … (5 comments)

I absolutely can not live without my ... - 05/25/12 07:15 AM
Frank takes a slice of every-ones life and names a single most significant item that all of us have and use and give its rightful due and respect...There are many things that fit this description, but his choice has got to be up there...and I admit freely I use it daily almost all my entire life
Thank you Frank and special mention to Karen too
Via Frank & Karen Baker ® Sunset Beach N/C Brunswick County N/C & Horry County S/C (910.612.1931 www.sunsetbeachandbeyond.com):
Well, she did it again. After 37 years you would think I would be wise to the tricks and ruses … (4 comments)

BLOGGING IS LIKE HAVING A CONVERSATION - 05/24/12 07:42 AM
We put to much emphasis into the blogging etiquette using fear or inexperience to guide us. If you can talk, then you can blog. I will never forget the public speaking tip I received one day and have drawn from immensely until I didn't need it anymore. Always imagine or actually address yourself to someone in your audience that reminds you of someone you like and feel comfortable about
HERE REX...HERE BOY
If it is your dog or cat or even horse, then get on with in but do up the intelligence factor. Seriously, for me it would be a good … (6 comments)

I RELY ON GLASSES TO HAVE TO SEE - 05/23/12 01:59 PM
I took off my glasses to rub my eyes and lay-ed them down. I looked at them. A bunch of glass and metal designed in such a way that it aides my eyes in their duties enabling me to see better. I specifically wear tri-focals which are something else. In essence, the eye needs assistance in seeing far away, up close and then in normal situations. I have been wearing glasses since I was a kid
KIDS HURT KIDS
From about ten on, I needed them. It is not easy going through life wearing glasses as a kid. When you are … (7 comments)

RAISING RENTS A SUBJECT THAT NOBODY REALLY LIKES - 05/23/12 10:47 AM
If you own income property, the amount of rent collected has a direct bearing on the value of the entire property. Many buyers/investors look for properties that are renting under market to see the potentials if purchased. For those that rent apartment and homes and want to be charge a fair or a premium price, raising the rent may look easy but have consequences
LANDLORD THINKING
The owner wants either maximum return or fair return. That depends on the owner and his cap rate or return on investment strategy. This is different for everyone. Landlords that try to optimize their investment … (35 comments)

IF YOU LIKE THE MILK BUY THE COW REAL ESTATE AGENTS - 05/22/12 03:01 PM
We are not selling milk. We are selling Real Estate services. Weare  licensed agents who love this business and everything about it and want you to prosper. We can help you either get in or get out safely of any Real Estate transaction successfully. Doctors are committed to your health, attorneys to your legal well being, police to your safety and Real Estate agents to your successful investing
GOING ONLINE
We have web sites that allow you to sample our thinking and become aware of our results and expertise. An Internet search will turn up much about us when activated. Many … (4 comments)

YOU HAVE RIGHTS AND THIS MAN WILL INSURE THAT - 05/22/12 11:53 AM
People have rights that they don't even know about. Everywhere you go, chances are that something or somebody has either intentionally or unintentionally stepped on your little portion of the Constitution OR local rights afforded you in this land of opportunity we call America. Now, you can get help...good reliable counsel
CALL NOW AND TELL THIS MAN WHAT HAPPENED
Well good news for anyone living in California. Joshua D. Naggar, a prominent and successful attorney has made himself literally available to the public and especially to those that actually need assistance and cant afford it. Not every case can be mitigated or … (2 comments)

INTERNET TRAPS DESIGNED TO GET YOU GOOD - 05/22/12 10:20 AM
The traps in the Internet world abound and attack when you are at your most innocent frame of mind. A few cleverly disguised emails made their way toward me. No matter how many you block using your anti-virus soft-wares, new ones come in. They are relentlessly fishing for mischief and we have only one defense against them. PAUSE...Just PAUSE before you interact
STOP...LOOK and then CHOOSE
Give some time for your common sense and intuition to kick in. Refuse to let your ego or emotions go on point and make decisions. Discipline your self to Stop, look and then choose.....
Here are some of the … (12 comments)

Real Estate Q&A: What is Earnest Money? - 05/22/12 07:55 AM
Real Estate professional Donna shines a light on one of the most important parts of a Real Estate contract i.e. the earnest money deposit. When someone puts there money where their mouth is, then we have the makings of a good Real Estate transaction. Please reference the post and enjoy
Via Donna Foerster, Metro Denver Real Estate Agent (Rocky Mountain Real Estate Advisors):
Real Estate Q&A: What is Earnest Money?
 
The seller asks the buyer for Earnest Money to demonstrate a serious intent to purchase the property.  Earnest Money is typically 1% of the purchase price, however in homes priced over $500,000 … (5 comments)

ALL ABOARD THE REAL ESTATE TRAIN - 05/22/12 07:22 AM
Real Estate is like a train that never stops and knowing how to get on or off is important...A good agent plays conductor and should be listened to if you want to have a good boarding or dis-embark. It looks easy to get on and off and many do, but one slip and you could get injured for life. Its not worth it.
DILIGENCE
When wanting to ride the Real Estate train, if booking a trip, then you need to know things. Where is your seating? Does it have a view? Does it iinclude meals or is it close to the dining … (0 comments)

TALKING TO ANIMALS ABOUT WHAT I COULDNT TELL YOU - 05/21/12 03:11 PM
I visited a farm recently and tested this completely using chickens as my first subjects. I started making above average chicken noises and everyone of them stopped, stared, and then the responses came in. When I turned it up, it got even more interesting and they even moved toward me.
I AM CLUCKING AND NEIGHING
I don't know what I was saying, but they liked it a lot. The head rooster was stand offish and curious. In the next stall were horses and when they heard all the noise, they started their own. I responded and they got agitated. Apparently they … (5 comments)

MILITARY POST TRAUMATIC STRESS SYNDROME - 05/21/12 02:54 PM
I once met a retired experienced, specialist who just got out of the military in Long Beach Ca. We were having a friendly meaningful conversation when I noticed him staring at me while we were talking. I asked if he was. He refused to answer. I pleaded with him again to please confirm that you were staring. He said yes. I tip-toed further and said...please, I am a man who likes to ask questions for a reason. Would you honor me with a response here if you can
GO AHEAD AND ASK
He said go ahead and I asked him...what were you … (2 comments)

THE MESSAGE VERSUS THE MESSENGER - 05/21/12 02:28 PM
How often do we all take the bait...the low hanging fruit and succumb to the temptation of the moment. The result? The messenger has been shot or taken hostage. The message goes unheeded. If we can reverse this or even better just observe it all, change would make its way to whatever is going on. The first change would be on how we handle the situation at hand
MESSAGE COMING IN
Thirty years ago, I once turned away an all cash buyer because they didn't look, sound, or act like one. What made it worse is they didn't speak good English and … (2 comments)

NOT EVERYONE CAN EAT HEARTY IN REAL ESTATE - 05/20/12 08:39 AM
I passed on a listing for a commercial piece of property that had good promise and that I knew so much about. Piece of cake if I was to take it on. However, three other hands showed up wanting a slice of the commission pie (no details needed) which made the end results questionable payment for my business model and efforts. I called a not so busy friend of mine and offered it to him
THANKS BUT NO THANKS
He was happy until I told him that three others want to be a part of the final results $$$$. He called me back after … (15 comments)

BLOGGING EVEN IF IT HURTS ACTIVERAIN OR SHINE - 05/19/12 07:04 AM
I managed to sprain my wrist pretty badly a few days a go and wouldn't you know it, the pain kicks in when I type. Here is where you assess how much you love what you are doing. Well I have put it to the personal test. I am still blogging, posting and commenting as well as doing re-writes on two books scheduled for release soon. The pleasures outweigh the pain
LIFE GOES ON
You get the throbbing when you use it and when you don't. The way I figure it is I might as well press on in all humility … (15 comments)

Can An E-Mail Become A Binding Agreement To A Contract - 05/17/12 06:45 AM
Martha, a fellow professional raises an excellent awareness point...things that we do and say can end up working against you. Remember, we have freedoms in this country but others have learned to take what you say and do and use it...Those in the business should constantly be aware of what they say and how they say it in the event it comes back when you least expect it...
Thank you Martha for a good post
Via Martha Brown Homes & News Around Annapolis (Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc):
Can An E-Mail Become A Binding Agreement To A Contract? So today while reading … (7 comments)

WHO WHAT WHERE WHEN AND WHY PLUS HOW - 05/16/12 11:40 AM
That is the formula that reporters use when looking for a story to explore and then publish. It is also the format I used multiple times in college to write essays and reports that got me high grades. It never fails to stimulate the author and to help to get the juices flowing for any presentation
ON POSTS
Whatever you are presenting should have more of a tell to it than a sell. It should be informative, easy to track and follow too. It is no different than writing an essay. When creating a paper or presentation, an opening statement is required … (15 comments)

WHY DO I NEED A PRE-APPROVAL LETTER? - 05/15/12 06:56 AM
Realtor Conrad...way to go
This subject is relevant and reminds me of someone trying to go shopping without the ability to pay for an item...You need cash, check or credit card to transact in the retail sector. When purchasing a home, the ability of a buyer to perform is question # 1 in this Real Estate market. It must be answered correctly or everyone's time is being wasted...good post here
Via Webster, Ma Conrad Allen, Realtor (Re/Max Professional Asociates):
You can't make an offer without one.  The seller needs to know that you are financially qualified to purchase the property.  The real problem … (10 comments)

SHOULD I BUY A FORECLOSED OR AUCTIONED HOME FAQ & POST #10 - 05/14/12 07:02 AM
People have a belief that when it comes to Real Estate transacting, they need to find a steal or a deal to make it a success. Sure, when those dynamics present themselves, many jump on that occasion. Keep in mind there are people who invest that do this all the time and they are the ones that usually get the so called bargains first
STEALS & DEALS?
So everyone else turns to an auction or a foreclosure thinking they too will get a steal or a deal. NOT SO. In fact, be very careful here. Not everything that glitters is gold. … (7 comments)

WHEN IS THE BEST TIME TO PURCHASE OR SELL FAQ & POST #9 - 05/14/12 06:58 AM
The simple down to earth answer is coming. Are you ready? the best time to sell or buy is when you are good and ready to do so. It is a personal and subjective thing and far from being a impulse. The stakes are too big to go shopping at these prices and not be sure of what or why you are doing so. So the best time is when you have said, I am ready to proceed
TAKING A CLOSER LOOK
Then, great things will happen. Now we will take a closer look at what we are doing because we … (2 comments)

CAN I CHANGE MY MIND AND NOT BUY A HOME FAQ & POST #8 - 05/14/12 06:53 AM
It is the largest transaction you will undertake in your lifetime. It is fraught with small print, legalese, Real Estate speak, risk and adventure. The upsides are all there and make sense. But should one decide to change their mind in the middle of a transaction, they may but with a few careful caveats presented before hand
YOU HAVE TO READ BEFORE YOU SIGN
Much important time has to be spent before hand reading over and understanding all the relevant documents one is expected to sign and honor. Especially important is where you have to put monies up that are non-refundable.
… (0 comments)

WHERE DO I INTERVIEW FOR AN AGENT FAQ & POST #7 - 05/14/12 06:49 AM
This is a very important step when considering entering into the Real Estate arena. You want to form a team and then that team has to go to work. Picking-the right team leader is very important because that person will be on point and will be the glue that holds it all together going in or getting out of the transaction successfully
SHOP ON ACTIVERAIN
ActiveRain is a very good place to shop for a Real Estate agent. This Internet site is accessed by millions of people and has hundreds of thousands of member-ed Real Estate professionals all-across the United states and … (0 comments)

WHO DOES THE REPAIRS FAQ & POST #6 - 05/14/12 06:42 AM
There are disclosure laws that are very strict in Real Estate because if a repair problem or another issue that affects value comes up after the fact, you have a potential lawsuit on your hands. Plus, your personal Real Estate agent that represents you in a fiduciary relationship which is a sacred and intimate coming together, well they want you to have a successful transaction
TAKE A LOOK SEE
Of course you and the agent will walk through the property and note things accordingly. However, for a small fee, a professional inspector can be hired and this is a very good … (2 comments)

HOW MUCH SHOULD I OFFER FAQ & POST #5 - 05/14/12 06:36 AM
A very good subject and it is an important one to visit with. Getting educated on this ahead of time is the best way to approach it. From there, you can concentrate on getting your offers worth. Let me point out by saying that sellers don't have an exact science on setting a sale price. They have guidelines and those usually slant those in their favor. This is understandable
WHAT IS IT WORTH?
What you want to do is to make sure you get our monies worth and that you are paying fair market value. A good rule to test this is to … (2 comments)

WHAT AREA SHOULD I BUY IN FAQ & POST #4 - 05/14/12 06:31 AM
Who has not heard of the word...LOCATION when it comes to Real Estate? It dominates the subject matter and attracts and repels many who are looking for their home or investment to be. If a house is to become your home, then it has to fit your personal needs and requirements
SCHOOLING MAY BE IMPORTANT
For instance, if you have a family or plan on starting one, schools play into your decision making process as a main point. Not far from that is shopping be close at hand and of course access to the freeway too
COMMUNITIES
Buying in a area … (0 comments)

SHOULD I BUY A HOUSE WITH A POOL? FAQ & POST #3 - 05/14/12 06:26 AM
A pool is your own personal ocean or lake to visit with whenever you feel like it. It can round out the weekends, provide some good recreation and health benefits too. There is something about water and human beings that is so soothing and relaxing. Just look how many people flock to the beaches, lakes and waterways for vacation.
BACKYARD OASIS
Having one in your back yard is a decent thing to do. The upside is exactly as represented and imagined. You will not be disappointed. However, lets round out this with the downside of having a pool home
$$$$
There … (0 comments)

WHY SHOULD I USE YOU FOR AN AGENT? FAQ & POST #2 - 05/14/12 06:20 AM
You don't have to use me for an agent, but I highly recommend that you do. I have gathered quite a bit of information and experience that I am just bursting at the seams to share with anyone who wants to do a little Real Estate transacting. To me, helping someone with such an enormous life changing event is a privilege and an honor
FIRST....WE Q & A EACH OTHER
Be prepared that we will form a team and I will need and require your participation in what we are doing. I will be on point and take lead, but I need … (0 comments)

WHY SHOULD I BUY A HOME RIGHT NOW FAQ & POST #1 - 05/14/12 06:07 AM
Because your wife said so...? is my first answer. That is what happened to me more than once. Seriously, if interest rates together with lots of inventory plus fair market values all over the place doesn't lure you in then perhaps owning is not for you. The concept of staying in one place and enjoying the benefits of it attracts everyone
EQUITY..OH... EQUITY
When you own, you establish equity instantly and over time and that constant paying down of you home loan causes your piggy bank to swell up like a fat hog ready for the slaughter. Except in this case … (2 comments)

I FOUND A GOOD TENANT and HELPED THEM MOVE IN - 05/13/12 09:49 AM
I just finished refurbishing a unit working with the owner and I must say it turned out rather nice. In addition, it is located in a beautiful neighborhood and if that isn't enough, I live next door to it. Now comes the task of renting it out to the right people. Got a lot of response from party people, college kids, unemployed but hopefuls, retirees, and one very qualified lady who needs a place in 3 months..
PERFECT FIT
Then, a very good tenant prospect came along and the so did the chemistry of the deal and it shaped up and formed into … (8 comments)

Hummingbirds ……Buzzing in My Yard Finally - 05/12/12 11:31 AM
Kristin points out the simple pleasure of inviting guests to the house...In this case HUMMINGBIRDS....Stop and think about it. These pleasant creatures do nothing but good as they go about their daily business. Do you know of anyone that hates HUMMINGBIRDS? Enjoy this post
Via Kristin Hamilton CDPE, SFR, CHS Realtor Redlands/ Loma Linda Homes for Sale, CA (Keller Williams Realty):
Hummingbirds ……Buzzing in My Yard Finally

I am a real advocate for hanging bird feeders in your yard; the more the better but have never had a hummingbird feeder until last week. I hung it up and not one hummingbird. I hung … (9 comments)

Buying a House After a Bankruptcy - 05/11/12 09:00 AM
I thought this worthy to re-blog because people need to know that life after bankruptcy is very doable. Knowledge is power and the truth does set people free. Let the mortgage experts give you quality input here and may your next step be a productive one...
Via The Mortgage Experts at America's Mortgage:
Can someone get a mortgage after a bankruptcy? Yes they can! And they only have to wait 2 years from the date that the bankruptcy was discharged. The most important thing is that they "re-establish credit" after the bankruptcy. That means no late payments of any kind (including collection accounts) for the … (2 comments)

CHIPPED IN TO MAKE IT HAPPEN GOT MY MONEY BACK NO PROBLEM - 05/10/12 01:56 PM
Many years ago, I was partnered with two very creative people who were good at buying land, developing it and then selling the product. It was lucrative and my two partners were seasoned and one was second generation. We became aware of a potential six home site in a prime area that was just sitting. We inquired and went to work to see what we could be done
LITIGATION WOULDN'T YOU KNOW IT
The current owner was in litigation with three (3) other attorneys and that is why this property just sat and sat. I contacted the current owner and he was … (48 comments)

REAL ESTATE CONSUMER FAQ WORKS FOR YOU - 05/10/12 09:11 AM
Where does one begin when approaching the vast sea of Real Estate? It is intimidating to say the least... large purchases, small print and life changing events stir people up on their most private levels. FAQ's help people to take a first step by priming the awareness pump. From there, it is best to go live with a seasoned Real Estate agent for a finer focused look
TEN CONSUMER FAQ'S
Q: Why do I need to buy anything?
A: You don't need to but you will wish you did as time reveals to everyone what they should have, could have done. owning … (0 comments)

THE RULES OF ENGAGEMENT - 05/10/12 07:17 AM
The nature of activity, organization or game is defined by the rules. That is what gives and supports the identity or business model of the activity. Vary from this and you are no longer on track or on the same page. Certain acts require precision and verbatim so as to keep the outcome predicable. Failure on some levels can be cause damages
THE OFFICERS OF THE LAW
The police have the power to temporarily suspend your constitutional rights. They can with cause and procedure conduct an investigation and decide whether to proceed or stand down depending on you and the circumstances. … (7 comments)

I HEARD IT THROUGH THE GRAPEVINE - 05/09/12 01:36 PM
The Internet has surpassed scuttlebutt, rumors, soap operas, rumor mills, word on the streets, buzz, and everything else that makes a statement or gives information. It is now the "go to" source for everything and there is good and bad to that. The bad is that the Internet has an excellent memory and never forgets what was said. The good is you now can create your own story or memory to leave with others
CONTROLLING THE BUZZ
For years Hollywood controlled everything you would hear about it. They would carefully release data the way they wanted it slanting in the direction that benefited … (6 comments)

ASK NOT WHAT YOU CAN DO FOR ME ASK ME WHAT I CAN DO FOR YOU - 05/09/12 10:09 AM
I am a full service Real Estate agent. I like to serve and Real Estate remains a fascinating business to practice serving in. You may be passing through and buyers and sellers come and go, but I and millions like me stay... being ready, willing and able to assist a client in the transacting of Real Estate
MEDIA HYPE
In Real Estate, it is important to be clear what you are doing and why. I often run into people who buy into the media hype and are not informed about this subject or are mis-informed.
STEALS & DEALS
For years, people … (5 comments)

LAWYERS GIVE FACTS DOCTORS GIVE SYMPATHY REAL ESTATE AGENTS GIVE - 05/09/12 07:40 AM
Everything they got. It is called fiduciary by word and lots of things when in action. The word fiduciary comes alive and causes a secure bond between the agent and the principal. This bond goes to work immediately and the risk from dealing in a sizable transaction is reduced or eliminated. Once the client and the agent merge then successful transacting is not far behind
THEY KNOW TEETH...I KNOW REAL ESTATE
I received a call from a dentists office the other day. The staff who is loyal to their doctor wanted to look into purchasing a property zoned commercially for the doctor to set-up in. This … (3 comments)

TO POST OR NOT TO POST - 05/08/12 04:28 PM
Some people are very passionate on certain subjects. What do you do when you got the urge to share, but are afraid to take the risk? I mean if you have a passion, it should be shared. Of course I am talking about permissible things here. The hesitation to post or launch is not a good use of your time. I am going to make a risk statement and tell you when in doubt....post
BLOG ON A LOG
That's right! I chose a side. There are things that come up in a persons life time that require a choice or the … (14 comments)

KIDS WHO BULLY OTHER KIDS NEED COMMEPUPPANCE part 5 - 05/08/12 02:49 PM
When your kid is being bullied and you go to do something about it, you will run into the systems that are ineffective and cannot help you. That is just the way it is for now but doesn't have to be. The authorities, the police and the school will try to cause you to doubt what you know to be right in your heart making you out to be the problem instead of the bully picking your kid...
MANDATORY ATTENDANCE MAKES YOU LIABLE NO QUESTION ABOUT IT
Here is the obvious mandate. If you require mandatory attendance to educate kids in school, … (4 comments)

KIDS WHO BULLY OTHER KIDS NEED COMMEPUPPANCE part 4 - 05/08/12 02:49 PM
I am summarizing the dynamics of being bullied while in school and not being able to concentrate on learning but instead fearing for your own life. In my daughters situation, she held in her urine until she got home because she was scared to use the bathrooms. WHY? In part 3, I describe taking her with me to the school campus and finding the bully in question
YOU! YEA YOU!.......COME WITH ME RIGHT NOW
I am yelling across the campus...you come with me right now to the principals office. The bully's response..You go to hell, screw you and every filthy fowl … (0 comments)

KIDS WHO BULLY OTHER KIDS NEED COMMEPUPPANCE part 3 - 05/08/12 02:48 PM
In parts 1 and 2, a haunting continuing problem of kids getting mentally, emotionally, and psychologically abused while attending school for no reason whatsoever except going to school. To a kid who is being intimidated, it is like a soldier going off to war not knowing what will happen or how they will deal with it. But at least the soldier gets training to survive. Kids who get abused are on their own
THE ONE WHO IS PICKED ON BECOMES SCARED AND LONELY
Other kids who are your friends wont get involved but watch helplessly as you get picked on. WHY? … (0 comments)

KIDS WHO BULLY OTHER KIDS NEED COMMEPUPPANCE part 2 - 05/08/12 02:47 PM
In part 1, I introduce you to not only a current day horror loose in the schools upon weaker kids, but I also will bring out of you your own horror stories of when you where picked on and wished you were dead or out of school. On being dead, today that option is becoming more and more attractive as the picked on kid gives up hope and slowly goes insane. Then, the relief of death
THEY SAY ITS YOU AND YOU KNOW ITS THEM
When you go to report this injustice, this literal assault on your kid who was minding … (0 comments)

KIDS WHO BULLY OTHER KIDS NEED COMMEPUPPANCE part 1 - 05/08/12 02:45 PM
I saw this move Bully regarding the intimidating of children by children at school. It is rampant and goes on in the schools, buses, playgrounds,  and small public gatherings. The person being bullied is hoping it will go away and tries their hardest to ride it out. They really don't know what to do. Meanwhile, if they do speak up, they have to bear the repercussions of that too. Let me explain
THE SYSTEM ITSELF IS IN TROUBLE
First of all, don't count on a third party especially a public institution for remedy, justice, fairness or results. The current systems across … (2 comments)

OH THAT SUBJECT AGAIN - 05/07/12 07:13 AM
I often come across posts for the same subject here on ActiveRain. With tens of thousands of agents sharing, it is most likely that this will happen more often than not. What I do find odd is people comments stating they already done this post or read someone else and at the same time failing to appreciate the post in question
I CAN RELATE
People write about their experiences and often those situations is what we all have in common. Take seller pricing for instance. Who hasn't met a seller who is not sure about their pricing or being unrealistic as … (13 comments)

REAL ESTATE PERFUMES THAT SMELL ACCORDINGLY - 05/06/12 11:57 AM
Specially prepared Real Estate perfumes for all occasions and people who dabble in Real Estate Transacting. They are designed to compliment any deal but can also out a bad player or cause a good player to stink. Remember, with perfumes, they are supposed to accent not disguise or cover up. Lets explore some of these smell-good products
 
1. Lazy Agent...this is an interesting perfume as it calls attention to what must get done and increases its potency with activity
2. Escrow Closeness...very pleasant accent to be sprayed lightly as a reminder that success is in the air and approaching us
3. … (5 comments)

THE MAN WHO CUPPED MY EAR - 05/06/12 06:35 AM
 I worked for a old Jewish man for 12 years who had experienced the depression and two world wars. He came out of it all a very wealthy man.  I learned things from him that were not written in books. Relevant down to earth things that many were even strange when I heard them. They all held up over time
ONE DAY...YOU WILL KNOW
He told me constantly that one day I would thank him. Of course, I would respond incorrectly to that statement not knowing what it meant. He knew and he planted those seeds for me to discover at a later time. I … (8 comments)

TEN CENTS OR TEN MILLION WE ALL DIE POOR - 05/05/12 03:32 PM
Trying to prove otherwise is folly. Look, the Pharaohs of old gave this subject a lot of time and attention. Somehow they concluded that there is another world you go to after you leave here and that you can set your self up for it from here. So, they replicated in their tombs on earth for a lifestyle that they wanted in the other world....hmm
THESE GUYS ARE RUNNING A COUNTRY?
Please note that they were considered Gods and all-powerful rulers for their time. But I find their thinking process defective. First, lets finish the story. They died, were buried and then years went by … (6 comments)

MOST VALUABLE TOOL PERSONAL AND PROFESSIONAL TEXTING VIA SMART PHONES - 05/05/12 08:22 AM
We all agree that communications run the world. Effective communications bring results to the table. Today, we are on the brink of taking ALL our communications tools and combining them into a single unit that comes under the command of a single user. That object has to be the cell phone. It cannot be equaled for what it brings to the table
 TEXTING 123 TEXTING
For instant rapid communications, TEXTING cannot be matched at this time. The original prototype of this communications device and it application came from the beeper. You were beeped and that meant getting to a phone right away. Remember? Some … (17 comments)

CREATE YOUR OWN REFERENCES - 05/05/12 06:49 AM
I got a call from a fellow property management professional asking me if I could verify and refer an old tenant that used to rent from me back in 2006-2009. Sure...go ahead sez I and he submits the name. I am a moment person and having to access mental files that go back years is not my forte. He offered to fax me data and I said, no just answer a few questions
KEEP TO THE RULES
I always tell people that if they abide by the rules, they can always use me as a reference. These people took me up … (4 comments)

MY POST WENT POOF - 05/04/12 10:31 AM
I just upgraded all my technology so that I can run at premium. New laptop, software, cell phone and wireless printer is now all working for me. On the new software and laptop, I had to get used to new commands and features as well as what the keyboard now does. Twice in the last month, when I am ready to launch a post, my pinkie reaches out and hits or taps something and
POOF...MY POST IS GONE..!
That's right, the Mona Lisa fell off the artist stand. A 5th century MING vase shattered. My post, my efforts and what could … (6 comments)

WEAPONS OF MASS DESTRUCTION NOT FOUND IN REAL ESTATE - 05/03/12 11:18 AM
There is no threat, no forces coming against you in regards to moving forward with your Real Estate transaction. Now is the time to invade and employ purchasing tactics. Obstacles such as high interest rates, over priced homes and lack of inventory have been over come...
BUYING IS THE RIGHT THING
Slowly and all around the country, people are coming into an awareness that buying a home is the right thing to do. That also includes people who lost their homes just a few short years ago. Now, they are able to re-participate in the home buying process and once again … (4 comments)

SPEAKING UP IN PUBLIC BUT KNOW WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT - 05/03/12 08:00 AM
 I seen her way before we met. I was my usual pleasant self out and about doing business greeting and meeting and in a jolly mood. I see a waddling woman approaching me who is obviously going to have a baby and I wish her congratulations. She wanted to know what I was talking about. I thought, oh, she must like the attention and went all out. FOR THE BABY!
I AM THINKING...IT MUST BE HER FIRST
I heartily congratulated this woman on her pregnancy. She became upset, then emotional and then angry and then started crying. All this is in a public … (4 comments)

FREE ACTIVERAIN OR PAID ACTIVEFAME and ACTIVEGAIN - 05/02/12 06:40 AM
 I thought this worthy of a post. It brought back memories of when I signed up for ActiveRain. When I got to the part where it was free, I was impressed at how much you get for free. When I discovered that for a minor sum you can get ACTIVEFAME and ACTIVEGAIN, it was too good to pass up. One of the best decisions and values out there in Cyberspace...ACTIVERAIN
 
 
I copied and pasted (please dont tell Lenn Harley or Carla Muss Jacobs) the below from an email sent to me that I thought was most worthy to repeat considering … (3 comments)

DOG KISSES WOMAN ON ACTIVERAIN COMMENTER REFUSES TO VISIT HER BLOG - 05/01/12 04:46 PM
I am enjoying ActiveRain. I came across an old comment someone made over 2 years ago on one of my posts that got me laughing. A mature Real Estate agent made a comment as follows and I quote "Way back I hated a picture of an agent who was kissing her dog....smack....right on the lips. I refused to go to her blog anymore. Don't know if she's still on". unquote
MM-MM...WHAT SHOULD I POST ABOUT?
Now I am not sure in what direction to take this post. For instance, shall I raise the issue of a human kissing a dog (on the … (14 comments)

MI CASA SU CASA IF PRICED RIGHT - 05/01/12 01:27 PM
It will always come down to pricing when selling a home. You see people like move-in ready type situations and will pay for it. Offering something less than that and people squawk about the price. You cant have repairs needed and a high price and expect the other person to just accept that. It is not realistic.
GIVE PEOPLE VALUE
 New car, new furniture and new homes are sold on the newness premise and a value is assessed to it. Then, all that remains is that the product do what it was represented to do. People want value for their money. That's … (0 comments)

STABLE PRICES SAYS BUY REAL ESTATE NOW - 05/01/12 09:48 AM
Homes that were once mortgaged and valued (real or otherwise) at one price have fallen to 60% of that price in today's market place and in pockets through out the United States. Prior to that, everyone wondered how anyone just starting out could even afford to participate. Now add low interest rates, lots of inventory and we have the ingredients for a new cycle
BUY LOW...... SELL HIGH
There is absolutely no better place to park money right now than Real Estate. Whether it is for a long term home investment or for a rental, the invitation to do it now is … (0 comments)