"The Lovely Wife's Crap-A-Rama"

My Afternoon With Nikesh. Roar.

Tue, 17 Jan 2012 09:14:43 -0800

As many of you already know, I've been having issues with Active Rain and its' new management. In November, when Jonathan Washburn sold his stock in AR to Market Leader, my stock also had to be sold. I was not a happy camper about that. As a matter of fact I was heart broken, pissed off and concerned that being told I had to cash out was a prelude of things to come as far as AR goes. Honestly, I thought the end of AR, as we know it, was near. I felt that Broker Bryant and myself, caught in the fall out as it were, had been "left out to hang", and had become disposal, for loss of a better word. Nothing Nikesh (AR's CEO) said, openly the way he did , (see comments if you click over to that), made any difference to me at all. When all was done, and said, I simply sulked away from AR to lick my wounds and concentrate on making holiday magic for my family.

Recently, with the holidays behind us, I was sent all the paperwork we needed to sign to cash out with AR. (Wait. Before I continue, you need to know we're not talking an enormous amount of money here. Nor did I own huge shares of stock. Not so. It was a very small investment, as investments go.) Receiving this paperwork brought back all the frustration I had felt in November. I put up a status update on FaceBook that led to a lengthy discussion about AR, good and bad. I also engaged Nikesh openly. He and I went back and forth, and back and forth, one more time. And then it happened, Nikesh said something that finally made sense to me, so I picked up the phone and called him, which I had refused to do many times as he had requested. I had declined calling him because I was convinced I'd be talking to a "Corporate Suit". I had no desire to do that.

After spending an hour on the phone with Niki, it turns out, he's not anything like I had perceived him to be. He's actually very funny, kind, sensitive to the Real Estate profession, and empathetic about the feelings and concerns I expressed to him. I was totally surprised by my conversation with him, and indeed impressed. He honestly cares about AR, its' employees and its' membership. We talked extensively about the platform and its' future. I found him to be sincere in his desire to push AR forward, and to help it keep up with technology as it (technology) changes at the speed of light. That's no easy task but, I believe he will succeed with this goal. It's just the way he's wired. He has grown to truly love AR the way we all do. Its' future means so much to him that he and I were able to hash through my feelings, concerns and disappointments. I believe if there was anything Niki could do to make us whole on our investment, he would, and wouldn't give it a second thought. As our conversation unfolded I realized it couldn't be done. I was asking Niki for the impossible.

I wish I could disclose more to all of you but, that's a no can do. I've not signed an NDA but I've given my word, as a lady, that much of what was discussed will remain private. What I can say is that as time progresses you will see changes that will benefit the Community as a whole. It's a wonderful feeling to know that something you helped to create with your time, your love and a little bit of your money, will not just disappear or change so much that it loses its' original vision. Years from now AR will still be here doing all the things it does best. The things we've all grown to love about this Community.

So with all of that said, I'd like to finish this post with a public apology to Niki, WidowMaker (Bob Stewart) and Kerrie. I've been difficult to deal with for I felt I was being deceived and placated in all of this. That's the furthest thing from the reality of it. Niki, Bob and Kerrie have done all they can to make things right with me but, sometimes my passion for AR over rides my common sense. I ask that all of you refrain from letting your emotions over ride what's really best for AR and its' members. That's exactly what I did, and having to muddle through that, sucked. Don't do as I did, give Niki and everyone at AR HeadQuarters the benefit of the doubt. They really are not out to harm you, steal from you or make things hard for you. Again, furthest thing from the reality of it. Roar :)

P.S. For all you Newer Members who have no idea who I am, I am AR's first Mother. All these years later now makes me AR's aging Grand Mother. Hope that clarifies things for you.

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I Want You! Roar!

Mon, 15 Aug 2011 16:48:42 -0700

BE WARNED THIS IS A PUBLIC POST. MY FIRST IN FIVE YEARS.

JUST SAYING BECAUSE YOU'RE USED TO ME POSTING MEMBERS ONLY, ONLY.

As many of you know, in <January of 2010> I was diagnosed with Melanoma. Since that time, I've learned a great deal about myself, and about skin cancer in general. I've become a bit of a skin cancer pro, which leads me to my next sentence. Not only have I become a pro, I'm trying to become pro-active in doing what I can to raise awareness about skin cancer. For reasons I don't quite understand skin cancer sits very low on the awareness list. I'm thinking that because other cancers take more lives, skin cancer is not really a priority until it happens to you. I also believe that the general populace is NOT ready to give up their sun kissed skin. In spite of everything we know about Melanoma, Basil Cell Carcinoma and skin cancer in general, people still type, or say, things like:

I feel asleep in the sun.

I accidentally got sun burned.

I forgot to wear sun screen.

I was on vacation.

I was working on my tan.

Silly me, it was cloudy outside.

I'm not really sun burned. This is how I get tan.

I had one too many beers and spaced out.

It was a nude beach, I had no choice.

I didn't know that sun screen washes off in the water.

Does all of that sound familiar? Thought so. I've used a few of them myself in, what seems to be, a different lifetime. Every excuse I have ever thrown out there seems so stupid now. I mean really, the idea that skin cancer couldn't happen to me was a special kind of stupid. Stupid. Stupid. Did I mention Stupid?

Before I digress let me get back on point, and I do have a point. I want you. I want your family. I want your friends. I want your help. So what exactly is it that I want? I want everyone who reads this post both here, and out in cyberspace, to assist me in sharing the real life experiences that I've been posting on a public Face Book page. That's right. I've taken my skin cancer public - photos, videos and all. Every treatment, every surgery, all of it. It's all out there on the Face Book page with my sole intent being to raise awareness with nothing more than my willingness to be candid and open about my experiences thus far. It's a brave new world we live in. Time for a brave new way of doing things. I'm not sponsoring anything nor am I selling anything.

The page on Face Book is a test run for me. If it looks as if I can actually make a difference, on a human to human level on a bigger scale, I'll be taking The Lovely Wife dot com out of her parking spot and using it in way that benefits those who need help, or wish to be keep informed about such an important topic by someone who's there, and has been there. But, before I do anything I really need to know that the energy it takes to keep abreast of such a project will not be lost on a society that has become so stuck on their tans they can't bring themselves to like a skin cancer page, listen, or even face the reality of what they're doing to their bodies. For me, time is of the essence.

Now, before you pop over to check out <Skin Cancer. Wage Your War> you need to know that it contains extremely graphic images of skin cancer. So graphic, in fact, that I put an age restriction on the page. The images are not for little eyes, the faint of heart or persons who are easily made queasy by all things graphic. So, please, don't come back here and say I didn't warn you. My response to that will be along the lines of ---> Maybe you shouldn't be speed reading a post that has the word cancer in it. I even put that in bold so you wouldn't miss it <--- Okay. I'm done. You can laugh about that nude beach thing now, I know you've been holding that in. Roar :)

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It is possible to find me out there. I make no guarantees to my whereabouts at any given moment though.

TLW's World Famous Rabbit Stew...ROAR :)

Fri, 01 Aug 2008 11:58:41 -0700

Okay. Karen...

Step 1: Hunt down 1 Rabbit for every person you intend to feed.

Step 2: Remove the skin of the Rabbits you've shot (Don't forget to go retrieve your bullet)

Step 3: Throw Freshly killed and skinned rabbits into a pot of water.

Step 4: Add one bag of carrots and 5 lbs of potatoes.

Step 5: Cook until potatoes are tender.

Step 6: Refrigerate stew over night. Before serving dig the chunks of grease off the stew :)

Around here we call this....Dinner :)

To all you newer members I posted this as Group only. That means I don't get points for this nonsense nor do you get points for commenting on this nonsense :)

It is possible to find me out there. I make no guarantees to my whereabouts at any given moment though.

Sunday...Is A Good God Day...To...Walk A Mile...ROAR!

Sun, 18 Mar 2007 09:47:18 -0700

Today is Sunday, so for me, it's a Good God Day to "Walk A Mile In My Shoes" or someone else's for that matter. <ROAR!>

It is possible to find me out there. I make no guarantees to my whereabouts at any given moment though.

The Realty Blogging Book Club...Welcome...ROAR!

Fri, 23 Feb 2007 13:23:35 -0800

This post is for the Realty Blogging Book Club. Here we will discuss our future plans and keep in touch with other.

Our next book will be "Blog Wild" by Andy Wibbels. You may purchase it on line or at your local bookstore.

"Friendships make prosperity more shining and lessons adversity by dividing and sharing" by Cicero-44 B.C.

"Knowledge is not power. It is the implementation of knowledge that is power" by Larry Winget.

"A successful individual typically sets his NEXT goal somewhat but not too much above his last acheivement. In this way he steadily raises his level of aspiration" by Kurt Kewin.

It is possible to find me out there. I make no guarantees to my whereabouts at any given moment though.

Sunday...Is A Good Day For God To Share Through Someone Else...ROAR!

Sun, 21 Jan 2007 10:01:33 -0800

Today is Sunday, so for me, it is a Good Day for God to use someone else to inspire me. I received an email yesterday from one of the members of the Spiritual Rain Group. I read it and deep down in my heart I knew that I am supposed to share it. I have lived long enough to know when God is speaking to me through another one of his children. So here you go. Listen to God, one of his children and myself as we consider a Good God Day message.

Some people are kind, polite, and sweet-spirited until you try to sit in their pews.

(I think this one is funny. I have seen that happen. No. Your name is not on the pew)

Many folks want to serve God, but only as advisers.

(There are other ways to serve God other than quoting him)

It is easier to preach ten sermons than it is to live one.

(Ahhh. Talking the talk but not walking the walk)

When you get to your wit's end, you'll find God lives there.

(Yup. He will break you to remake you)

People are funny; they want the front of the bus, the middle of the road, and the back of the church.

(I still think the Pastor should move his podium and join the folk in the back row)

Opportunity may knock once, but temptation bangs on your front door forever.

(You know your not supposed to open the door to temptation. Right?)

Quit griping about your church; if it was perfect, most couldn't belong.

(Nothing in this world is perfect. It is not meant to be. Perfection is out of our reach)

God Himself does not propose to judge a man until he is dead. So why should you?

(It is not our place to place judgment on others. We don't know what lies in the hearts of all mankind)

Some minds are like concrete thoroughly mixed up and permanently set.

(When you can't get your message through, stop trying. Let God handle it)

A lot of church members who are singing "Standing on the Promises" are just sitting on the premises.

(Yup. They're just killing time waiting on their tee time at the local Country Club)

We were called to be witnesses, not lawyers or judges.

(Share your beliefs but never presume that you know everything. You don't)

Be ye fishers of men. You catch them - God will clean them.

(Share your love. God will take it from there)

Coincidence is when God chooses to remain anonymous.

(Universal Law is God working behind the scenes)

Don't put a question mark where God put a period.

(This is hard to do, but do it anyway)

God doesn't call the qualified, God qualifies the called.

(I am a good example of that)

He who angers you, controls you!

(Allowing someone to anger you gives them power over you)

Prayer: Don't give God instructions -- just report for duty!

(I don't think God listens to us when we boss him around)

The task ahead of us is never as great as the Power behind us.

(God will never give you more than you can handle)

The Will of God never takes you to where the Grace of God will not protect you.

(This goes back to fear not being in The Bible 365 times. He will watch your back)

We don't change the message, the message changes us.

(Need I say anything about this one? Thought not)

Peace starts with a smile.

(All I have to say to that is AMEN and of course ROAR!)

Wishing you all a blessed Sunday and blessed week. Here have a smile :)

It is possible to find me out there. I make no guarantees to my whereabouts at any given moment though.

This Is The Realty Blogging Book Club...Do It Anyway...ROAR!

Thu, 04 Jan 2007 14:28:44 -0800

This Book Club focuses on reading and discussing Books that pertain to Real Estate Blogging and Blogging in general. Kindly do not post anything in the Group that does not pertain to the current Book that we are reading and reviewing. I will no longer be contacting other Members about this. When you Spam the Book Club your Spam will be removed as soon as I see it. We stay focused on our books. There are many Groups you can do that to. But this is not one of them. Okay?

The current book we are reading is:

The Weblog Handbook by Rebecca Blood.

This book offers practical advice on creating and maintaining a Blog. This book can be purchased at your local book store or you can use the link which will take you right to the book on Amazon.

Blogging is fairly new to many of us. Our hopes for this Book Club is to provide a source of information where new Bloggers can go to learn more about Blogging.

This Book Club has stayed together because everyone involved understands that learning is more important than points, comments, ratings and rankings. Our motto for this Book Club is "Do It Anyway" We don't play the..... Active Rain Survivor Game in here. There is nothing wrong with the Active Rain Survivor Game. We all just understand that the only way to learn and hold our Book Club together is to rise above the game.

The Members of this Book Club have been taking turns submitting reviews of each Chapter in the book we are reading. If you would like to submit a review please contact me and I will be more than happy to put you on the list of the Bloggers who are taking turns with our reviews.

The Reviews for the next book will be in the following order. I will update this list as we go along:

Chapter 1 What is a Weblog?

Will be Reviewed by: Mariana Wagner.

Chapter 2 Why A Weblog.

Will be Reviewed by: Ines Garcia.

Chapter 3 Creating and Maintaining Your Weblog.

Will be Reviewed by: Ann Cummings.

Chapter 4 Finding Your Voice.

Will be Reviewed by: Carole Cohen.

Chapter 5 Finding an Audience.

Will be Reviewed by: Monika McGillicuddy.

Chapter 6 Weblog Community and Etiquette.

Will be Reviewed by: Mariana Wagner.

Chapter 7 Living Online.

Will be Reviewed by: Ines Garcia.

This book is an easy read and will gear us up toward The Blogging Technology Books that are in our future. Are you ready for that? Of course you are. SVW. ROAR!

P.S. Rebecca, I really enjoyed your book. You're input and any advice you would like to offer is welcome here. :)

It is possible to find me out there. I make no guarantees to my whereabouts at any given moment though.