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listening: Workshop: "How to Market Yourself Through Networking" Sept 30 CSIX Silicon Valley--Available to My Active Rain Friends - 09/28/08 02:42 PM
Tuesday September 30 I will be facilitating a workshop "How to Market Yourself Through Networking" for CSIX Connect employment group at the iRestaurant in Cupertino, CA. The meeting begins at 10:30 and runs until 1:00. The admission is $12 which includes a wonderful lunch, networking opportunities with a group of experienced … (2 comments)

listening: Choices in Conversation: How To Decide Whether To Listen or Talk? - 09/15/08 02:23 PM
 
Listening is an often ignored skill with equally ignored strategies of engagement. The first step to understanding the best listening strategies to employ during a conversation is understanding the goals behind having the conversation. In "Listening Is A Skill That Requires A Strategy" we provided the first step to finding … (8 comments)

listening: 4 Purposeful Types of Conversations: Listening Has A Strategy - 09/15/08 12:21 PM
Listening is defined by Princeton.edu as the “act of hearing attentively.” BizJobs.com supports a business glossary definition that states that Listening is “a key selling skill, in that without good listening skills the process of questioning is rendered totally pointless.” From these definitions come the need to recognize one factor that … (8 comments)

listening: Is Anyone Even Listening? - 09/10/08 11:28 AM
I had the pleasure of flying to Philadelphia to assist in cleaning up 60 years of junk from my mother's house. She is moving and we all know that we and everyone we know have the tendancy to be pack rats. But this is not the subject of this blog. I … (16 comments)

listening: "Listen to the woman" - 09/04/08 12:24 PM
That is the title to my journal entry for today...
Topic for the day is the same as yesterday:  Direction, Admonition and Humility
Scripture -
When Joab had come near her, the woman said, "Are you Joab?" And he replied, "Yes." She said to him, "Listen to what your maidservant has … (1 comments)

listening: Listen for the Sale - 08/27/08 04:55 PM
Listen for the Sale By, Corey Wells The top-performing real estate agents know the value of listening. Good communication is a crucial part of any successful sales presentation. In order to effectively communicate with a prospect, you must offer the proper responses to what your prospect is saying. You need to … (1 comments)

listening: EGG on MY FACE! (part 1) - 08/25/08 03:27 PM
EGG on MY FACE!
 
This past week, I walked into a former client's jewelry store. John was born in the area and has spent his entire life in town; truly a local business  He contacted me when he was ready to expand his store and I helped him find a larger more … (2 comments)

listening: Dream Weaver or Dream Catcher? - 08/23/08 04:14 PM
 This is a picture of a physical dream catcher.
Are you one or the other?  Any one working in the Real Estate environment will find the fill the role in each category at some point just about every day.  I find mopst of my days filling the role of Dream Catcher … (5 comments)

listening: Tips To Engage: How To Make A Connection The Core Of Networking - 08/20/08 11:23 AM
We have discussed what Networking is Not: the Hard Sell. We have talked about what Networking Is: Giving Value. Now it's time to talk about how to approach people when you arrive at your networking meeting or event: How to Engage.
What Does Networking Mean?
1. Networking means that you are … (14 comments)

listening: Networking's 10 Things To Avoid That Will Surprise You - 08/19/08 12:04 PM
“The #1 biggest mistake people make when networking is the Hard Sell”
Today a question came up in Susan Hanshaw’s career and transition workshop presented to the Marin Professionals Association in San Rafael, California. It was one of the biggest questions on everyone’s mind:
“What’s the best way to … (46 comments)

listening: Know when to communicate to you sellers - 08/15/08 10:59 PM
 
 
I have hinted this is before.  Communication and maintaining communication wil always help you in this business.  Can't talk you shouldn't be here or if you can learn the art of good socialization and communication. 
1. Talk to your sellers in frequency as agreed in your communication agreement.  Your … (0 comments)

listening: Listening to Your Clients - 08/10/08 09:26 PM
As Realtors, we must understand the importance of listening to our clients.  Through listening, we learn about our clients' wants and needs.
Keys to effective listening:
•·         Create a comfortable atmosphere for the client
•·         Use a positive tone of voice
•·         Listen to the tone of voice the client is … (7 comments)

listening: Back to the Basics to increase your longevity - F.O.R.D. system - 08/09/08 09:21 PM
Do you use the Ford system when you are talking with people?  Ever had one of the really ackward moments of "dead air" and it seemed like it lasted forever and neither of you knew what to say?
Don't let that happen again.  Use the FORD method with every new person … (2 comments)

listening: Why being a good Realtor isn't as important as being a good listener - 08/09/08 04:58 PM
    A lot of us agents here get caught up in the latest marketing craze, the newest tech-gadget, the hottest blog to read, or the cutting edge IDX solution that will DESTROY the competition and GUARANTEE RESULTS!!!11!
    But how many of you, regardless of what industry you're in, take time … (4 comments)

listening: Want to make money??? - 08/07/08 01:39 PM
Most people you meet in any type of sales position are usually pretty confident and sure of themselves.  Although you can't be afraid of yourself in this business you also have to be very careful.  Clients are often times turned-off by agents who carry on about themselves, the market-place, and what … (3 comments)

listening: Easy steps sellers should know when selling a house - 08/01/08 01:36 AM
Setting the price when selling your property July 31st, 2008<!-- by admin --> · When it comes to selling their house, most people will hire a professional just as you would hire a professional if you needed some dental work or you wanted to update the electrical in your kitchen. And, … (0 comments)

listening: You're Dead, But We Still Want to Hear from You! - 07/26/08 10:39 PM
Listening is the most important part of sales, and it's also the most important part of customer service. There's no service, and no sales, without good listening.Recently, I've been on the receiving end of bad customer service and bad sales. It's so bad that I had to blog about it. Because … (7 comments)

listening: It's not about me. - 07/22/08 10:41 AM
It's about my clients! Many years ago I had a client who was yelling and cursing on the phone with me. He ranted and raved and I listened quietly. The market was slow, we had a very sophisticated buyer who had a 3 page checklist of things to be done that … (17 comments)

listening: "Mutually Qualify" Your Potential Clients... or Waste Time to Discover Issues Later? (And I'm not talking about lender pre-qualification!) - 07/21/08 11:32 PM
When I am meeting with a potential customer, vendor, or partner, one of our primary goals is to mutually qualify the arrangement.  It saves us all time and leads to a very high success rate!
What do I mean by "mutually qualify?" 
Well, so many folks are working so hard to … (7 comments)

listening: What Do You Do First? Listen or Answer? - 07/16/08 08:02 PM

"Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah"
Okay, this is not quite the level of a pet peeve for me but it can be something that leads to a struggling conversation at best and a lost deal and/or lost referrals at worst.
I am amazed at how many people start talking with … (11 comments)

listening: Listening Key in Negotiation - 06/28/08 12:04 AM
Again and again I find that the best negotiators are excellent listeners, they also ask a lot of questions.
Sometimes I say something, just to test an agent, see if they will ask a follow up question, if they were listening they WOULD ask a question I think.  I do this … (0 comments)

listening: Evaluating Customers - Are you missing the buyers while helping the tire kickers? - 06/27/08 07:10 PM
One of the drawbacks about working with Internet Leads is that a lot of people are just looking.  They are somewhat interested in buying but its more of a wish than a reality.  One of your jobs, as a top rated Agent, is to master the ability to recognize who is … (2 comments)

listening: Internet...Boon Or Bane...!!! - 06/22/08 12:23 AM
I'm a lover of new gadgets, electronic devices, and neat new toys...especially time and energy saving ones! But I got to thinking recently about how in some ways all this new fangled technology was messing up and infringing on my lifestyle!
I'm a rather efficient kind of guy...matter of fact...no nonsense...yes, … (39 comments)

listening: Interview Process - 06/18/08 10:16 AM
Its interesting going through the interview process.  What questions will they ask, where are you goal oriented, how will you market this home, what type of advertising, ......  the full gambit of questions and the whole time I am thinking - I will market the property to the best of my … (2 comments)

listening: Will our "MOST Positive Experience" show up in our business and the people we meet? - 06/16/08 02:50 PM
What is it about being positive that allows you to see positive things about other people?
After thinking about thie idea of being positive and inspiring in the way we live our lives, I was reminded about a couple of co-workers that I "knew" would like to be around each other.  … (17 comments)

listening: Do you hear what that voice saying to you? - 06/06/08 04:19 PM
Last weekend I had the great joy of going “golfing” with some of my favorite people (my in-laws (Michael & Cheron Lange) and their great kids).  I say “golfing” in quotes because this was the first time for my 7-year-old nephew and 3-year-old niece who had just gotten their first set … (4 comments)

listening: This one's for Debra A. Brooks, Texas Waterfront Specialist - 05/28/08 09:34 PM
Deb was kind enough to listen to a still small voice after reading one of my post and attached a picture of A Black Eyed Susan in her comment.  It came at a special time for me as I had planted (for the first time ever) some Black Eyed Susans in … (9 comments)

listening: Listening - Really. Educating. - 04/28/08 03:12 PM
I just read a post on how important it is to listen to your buyers and sellers.
There are two things that that are really necessary to be a great Realtor.
Number 1 would be listening. Really listening to what your buyers want.  Really listening to what your sellers expect.
Number 2 would be educating.  Let's face … (3 comments)

listening: Listen up, there’s more to the story… - 04/21/08 04:12 PM
I'm Stephanie Kresl and I'm a Marketing Specialist and Realtor® for Tony Marino's team at Real Living Real Estate Solutions. I'm new here on ActiveRain and new to blogging...I hear it's a lot of fun and I can clearly see that there's a lot to learn. I'm looking forward to making … (6 comments)

listening: So You Think You're a Good Listener? - 04/20/08 09:59 PM
Salesmen are notorious for doing too much talking and not enough listening. 
I wonder how often when we're heading out to a listing appointment Do We  Plan to Listen? Seriously, I'd say most of us are 'Planning' on what we're going to say!
Chances are though that we already have all the … (15 comments)

listening: Spring Inspiration Rescuing Dogs with Positive Views! - 04/19/08 12:55 PM
What do you do when your partner loves dogs and will rescue them if she can catch them?  You help her catch, bathe, dry, remove fleas and ticks, and hold on to them as she finds a home for them.  One of the new homeowners in the new home subdivision (Great … (2 comments)

listening: Crazy Agent Say What?!?! - 04/11/08 01:40 PM
Living and working in the suburbs of Washington, DC, I am afforded the ability to interract with people of all nationalities on a daily basis.  While speaking with some Spanish speaking friends today, I was able to pick up on the subtle nuances in their accents and asked where each was … (2 comments)

listening: Spring Inspiration and Positive Views (of a dream home). - 04/08/08 11:12 PM

I have always loved the idea of log homes.  I guess it comes from a couple things.  I grew up in a pioneer environment (the Rocky Mountains) and my first career job was working for the U.S. Forest Service (whose first office was a log cabin).  I finally fulfilled my dream … (8 comments)

listening: Spring (time) Inspiration and Positive Views (news) - 04/07/08 09:58 PM
Guess what is happening in northeast Atlanta Georgia?  It is spring and that means the pollen is changing the color of everyone's homes, vehicles, shoes, dark clothes, surfaces of everything including the local ponds.  I was walking through a new home subdivision today and a tree across the way seemed to … (2 comments)

listening: Spring Inspiration and Positive Views - 04/07/08 09:03 PM
Recently (happened to be in the early spring), one of the wonderful people I am learning about made a simple comment about the slogan I use in all my stuff.  There is a story that goes along with the picture above I would like to share about the simple we make every … (6 comments)

listening: Have your ears out - 03/29/08 07:46 PM
If you want to have the pulse of what's going on in your area, you need to "have your ears out" and pay attention to what's going on around you. Whether it's me having coffee with a group in the morning at The Vinoy, or Amy having conversations in the evening … (6 comments)

listening: People who help people - 03/18/08 10:11 AM
Let's face it, we're in the "people helping business." Just plain and simple, our goal in our business is to help those people who are looking for help.  They may or may not be looking for us when they first start looking for help.  But somehow they come across our path.  … (8 comments)

listening: I Want To Be A Realtor When I Grow Up - 03/05/08 11:09 AM
Has ANYONE ever heard that?  I know when I was growing up in the dark ages, I thought I had two choices, a teacher or a nurse.  That was if I aimed high and went to college.  The other options included clerical work if I went to business school, with secretaries … (55 comments)

listening: clinical features of ADHD in realtors? - 03/03/08 11:40 PM
I was online looking for a IQ test, decided to try my hand at a Mensa workout, but was distracted when I came across the
symptoms of ADHD.  It reminded me that another agent in our office recently said most realtors have ADHD.  I'm no expert
(however I do have Master's in Psychology), but that … (3 comments)

listening: Skillful Listening - 03/02/08 09:51 PM
Skillful Listening  
As is said, we are given two ears and one mouth.  Funny thing about that is, many salespeople seem to think that means we have to do twice as much talking to make up for the difference.
I want you to remember a very important quote that sums up the importance … (0 comments)

listening: Can You Hear Me Now? aka "Get the Wax Outta Your Ears!" - 02/20/08 11:17 PM
Are you a good listener? Or do you like the sound of your own voice better than ... well ... better than almost anyone else's voice?
Do you take notes (mental or written) as your clients speak? Or do you mistakenly call their children Lucy and Little Ricky?
Do your client's eyes ever … (5 comments)

listening: I Did Get Something Out of This Class After-all!!! - 02/20/08 01:29 PM
I attended a training class this morning. Now I am all for learning and even just being refreshed regarding something that I already am familiar with. It's good to get another perspective on something once in a while too. Well, this "training" class turned out to be more of a reminiscing … (2 comments)

listening: A fool is thought to be wise when he keeps his mouth shut! How Bout Real Esate Professionals? - 02/17/08 10:19 PM
Proverbs 17:28 Says exactly that thought.  Supposedly the smartest man who ever lived was King Solomon.  The SMARTEST MAN WHO EVER LIVED SAID EVEN A FOOL IS WISE IF HE CAN SHUT HIS TRAP! How much more in AR?  In real estate. Growing up, I was pretty much God's gift to … (5 comments)

listening: Driving Sales 2008 - 02/09/08 02:32 PM
In sales, the extra mile is about action - not empty words. You've been there. It's 4 p.m. and you're leaving your last appointment. You made every sales call on your schedule. You weren't just an order-taker today. You sold stuff. A sense of confidence, an energized "I-can-do-this" feeling fills you like … (2 comments)

listening: Sales Tip 5: Be the Doctor (cont'd again) - 02/04/08 03:16 PM
In my last post, I reviewed some more basics of the philosophy of 'sales' that is not really selling; rather - being the doctor. This time I got just below the water's surface on the proverbial iceberg. And since I promised more - here it is:
     So, if you read that … (0 comments)

listening: Sales Tip 3: Be the Doctor - 01/30/08 09:42 PM
In the interest of disclosure (which we are very fond of in Real Estate business) - I did not invent this concept. I am not sure in which of the umpteen sales training classes I trudged through over the years I actually learned this. I do know that I was reminded … (2 comments)

listening: Lively Listening: Nine Simple Rules - 01/12/08 02:49 PM
Listening is an important communication skill that is widely underused. That's because although we consciously learn to write and to speak, somehow we think listening should come naturally. That's not always the case.Here are nine simple steps to improve your listening skills and make you a more effective communicator both at … (0 comments)

listening: Listen Like a CSI Detective, - 12/17/07 10:39 AM
Like millions of people, I'm a fan of the CSI drama's that are currently being watched on TV. As I was watching a recent CSI episode on TV my attention became riveted to what type of techniques are used to question suspects. A comment  was made that was very profound, "when … (2 comments)

listening: It was December 6th, 1947 - 12/06/07 02:37 PM
This is just one the dates in history that I heard about from my newest clients.  I, for the first time in my career, just sat there with a client, not talking about homes, but listening to such a life and time together.
December 7th, 1941 was a day in the United … (16 comments)

listening: It Requires More Than Just Listening - 10/25/07 03:42 PM
I got an email yesterday sharing this with me and thought there was something definitely to be learned from it.
An office was having a "going away" party for a lady in their office.  Someone called a store (yes, I did omit the name) and ordered the cake. Here are his instructions:
"He told them to write: … (16 comments)

listening: Listening...is NOT just hearing! - 10/09/07 01:59 AM
My daughter, who is a fully hearing individual has been living among the deaf community for over 1 year.  Her interaction with her deaf friends has been very refreshing for me to watch and to learn from.   In order to communicate it is necessary for these deaf or hard of hearing individuals … (2 comments)

listening: Don't Talk, Listen! - 09/25/07 02:27 AM
Give Prospects Your Undivided AttentionI have found that the best conversationalists are the best listeners. The same holds true with salespeople! Review the following tips to see where you might have room for improvement.
Maintain eye contact. This does more than show the person you're interested; it helps you to concentrate on … (8 comments)

listening: I'm really a shy person, so how can I be a good networker? - 09/22/07 12:09 PM
  Even though I speak at large venues almost every week, my ugly little secret is that I am basically a shy person.
   When I was a little girl, I would actually hide behind my Mom's skirt and would be very nervous when someone asked me a question or tried to open … (8 comments)

listening: Don't miss a Diamond in the Rough! - 08/08/07 06:14 AM
         I always feel excited working with 1st time homebuyers trying to find their "dream home."  My first recommendation prior to even viewing 1st house is to speak with your loan officer to identify a price range.  There is absolutely no reason to set yourself up for a let down by … (1 comments)

listening: Are you ALWAYS the listing expert??? - 07/28/07 11:17 AM
I recently took a listing for someone that I've known both professionally and personally.  They own a beautiful home and when it was built had all the bells and whistles included.In marketing their home, I felt the best way was to build up the best feature of the home, the backyard.   It is … (17 comments)

listening: Effective Listening - 06/26/07 01:36 PM
Focus on the speaker - Make a conscious decision to listen.  Remember, you can't listen when you're talking, so control your urge to speak.  Don't just act like you're listening; really process what they are saying.  Give visual and verbal feedback - make eye contact with the speaker, turn your body … (8 comments)

listening: Making Real and Positive Connections - 06/04/07 12:59 PM
"The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention... A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words." - Rachel Naomi Remen, … (0 comments)

listening: The Art of Listening-are you an Artist? - 05/25/07 02:09 AM
If we could master the Art of Listening the World at least our own, would be totally transformed.  Clients would get what they want it, divorces would almost be eliminated, relationships would prosper, there is no end in site to the number of benefits.Are You up to the Challenge? There are three levels … (17 comments)

listening: An Attribute That We All Need to Develop - Listening! - 05/24/07 12:50 PM
I don't know about the rest of you, but there's nothing more frustrating to me than a "one way" conversation. Have you ever visited with a friend that does ALL of the talking, and as soon as you are able to throw out a thought, she/he uses that comment as a … (18 comments)

listening: Listening - 05/01/07 06:51 PM
What is it about listening that is so important??  So many times, we feel like we "know" what the client wants or needs...do we really LISTEN??  How great would it be to stay focused on the client during that initial consultation, to find out what they want to spend, what area … (8 comments)

listening: Why Real Estate? - 04/24/07 08:57 PM
Ya know. When I was younger, I'd say about 20 or 21 yrs. old (lol, put your calculators away, i'm still kinda young. hey didn't ya hear? 30 is the new 20!) I use to work for a bank and one of my regulars was a real estate agent. We use … (4 comments)

listening: LISTENING - 04/03/07 09:56 PM
If Einstein were a REAL musician his theory of relativity would have been E = Fb.
Besides real estate, I'm a professional musician and I've been involved in music my whole life.  Without "tooting my own horn' (too much) I play in a Dixieland band and I run a big band "The … (1 comments)

listening: Listening to your Clients - 03/29/07 10:15 PM
 
 You have to listen and understand your clients. I know you all know this to be true but how many of you practice it on a daily basis with your clients? I talk to a lot of REALTORS. I cannot tell you how many times I have had to fight to … (5 comments)

listening: The Art of Active Listening - 03/17/07 03:56 PM
How many of us out here have been told by someone that one of the things real estate agents have to be able to do is “listen better”.  Have any of you worked with a customer or client who ‘complained’ that they came to you as their previous agent was not … (0 comments)

listening: "Hey, Baby. What's Your Sign?" Part 3 of a Series - 02/27/07 02:15 PM
Part 1 and Part 2 of this series focused on the introduction to DISC behavioral signs and covered the (D)ominant and (I)nfluential signs.  Today's article will address the (S)teady sign, which is the most common sign in the general population.
The S sign is like the (I) sign in that they … (10 comments)

listening: Honesty and the (preforeclosure) Listening Appointment - 02/26/07 03:20 PM
Honesty is a two way street.  Be honest with your Client, and the Client will want to be honest with you... however painful that may be. 
I was speaking with a broker today who was interested in developing a comprehensive marketing strategy designed to increase the number of preforeclosure listings his office … (0 comments)

listening: If you stop talking, they will listen - 11/07/06 10:54 PM
Sounds confusing, doesn't it.
I have managed a couple different mortgage companies before I opened my own.  Over the years of working with loan officers, I noticed this fatal flaw that most of the loan officers made.  THEY TALKED TOO MUCH.
Funny thing is, it took one of my former employes to remind … (16 comments)

listening: I Learned A Lesson At Wendy's - 09/17/06 10:57 PM
I've never really thought of Wendy's as a repository of higher learning.  As a matter of fact, before a week ago I never thought about Wendy's at all.  My grandson loves the place so I took him there and I discovered their baked potatoes.  Now I'm obsessed.  Sure I can make them at … (7 comments)

listening: Outside the Box Searches - 09/01/06 05:02 PM
When you're not finding enough (or any) properties in your search for properties for a buyer, expand the search - and doing this successful goes back to asking enough questions in your early interview. 
Why do you need 4 bedrooms?  Well, one will be an office.  So a 3 bedroom home … (3 comments)

 
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