Has anyone ever equated real estate to Gambling? There is a lot of stink about gambling! Even where it is legal, is it morale or not? Does God really mind? Is it really all that different from a church raffle? I once saw my husand bid on a cake at a Cub Scout Cake Contest. Every year, the Cub Scout, and their dad, have to bake a cake without any of moms assistance, actually decorate it and bring it in for judging/selling to raise money for scouts! Well, my husband is a Boy Scout leader and it was one of the boy's in his den's cake... one that was not getting judged very highly. I'm sure it tasted better than it was decorated but he felt bad for them anyhow. So, the bidding stopped at $20 or so. As we left the Scout event, we stopped on the way home at the Volunteer Fire Department. It was packed with volunteers. He donated the cake to the Department who assured us nothing ever went to waste nor had time to go bad there. Was there any act comitted that was so terrible by bidding on that cake? I think the dad and the scout got some serious bonding time together doing something out of their usual relm of expertise, they felt good about themselves for someone actually bidding on it, money was raised for Scouting, and some local volunteer fire fighters were treated to a special treat! Anything else... oh yeah, there was one mighty proud of their husband/dad family. Talk about paying it forward and teaching kids to give back to the community.

Now obviously, I am not against gambling at all. But, I do not gamble. I do not play the Lotto nor even care who wins the big bucks... don't even really care what the state proceeds get used for although I do think Education is our best bet! I just do not find it fun or exciting to take a chance on blowing my hard earned money... even for high stakes. No thank you. I'll earn it the old fashioned way. Keep in mind, I'm not one of those reality tv junkies either. I don't think I would go on a national tv and risk embarassing myself by possibly throwing up after eating a grub/worm/whatever. Everytime I see stuff like that I'm like, "Just get a  job like a normal person!" And, yet, when my sister, a very traditional Monday through Friday, salaried, 9-5er asked me the other day why on earth I work, possibly (and lately, more like probably) for free,  and said she could never do it, I did not have an answer. But, she is a gambler. She and her husband enjoy little gambling trips atleast two to three times per year. Sometimes they lose money. Sometimes they make a little. But, the thrill, I guess, is that possibility of hitting the big load. Although the odds are almost always with the house, there has to be something in it for them to keep them hoping for even the possibility of winning the big bucks. On their last little trip, she won a little bit. She said it wasn't much but was enough to pay for their trip: gas to & from, a few really nice meals, a nice room, a couple of massages, and a new, high end designer bag with matching wallet!   I told her real estate was just like that. Sometimes I make a little. Sometimes I don't. But, the lure of that mansion in Cary, NC that is $2.4 mill drives me to keep on keeping on. I also get the benefit of being able to work from home, have some tax advantages, get to meet some really exciting people, make my own hours, etc. It's like gambling!   

 


Should I stay or should I go now?????
11/20/2008
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Remember that old song, "Should I stay or should I go? " It keeps playing in my head. Like a lot of real estate agents and/or every other professional in any way linked to real estate, I've been wondering if this is the time to bow out, atleast for a… more
Ch-Ch-Ch-Changes…
11/20/2008
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This is by far the most, well… for lack of a better word, interesting market that I have ever experienced in Real Estate. And, I've been playing in this Garner, NC sandbox for ten years now. I've not met anyone who has anything real (substantial,… more
Economy Crisis - is bailing us out the answer?
11/19/2008
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Does anyone else happen to think that the government is getting way too involved in bailing us out, let alone doing it improperly? With any handout, there is sure to come a lot of rules, laws, etc that we may or may not want. What ever happened to… more
Bumped into an old client tonight
11/18/2008
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Evidently unlike most Realtors, I like working with people I know. Ask any agent about working with people they know, their current neighbors and friends, and they normally start right off by saying how sticky it can be. Some will go so far as to… more
Part time does not mean less than professional
11/17/2008
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I just read an article on the past time of part time real estate. It was a well written article but got me really thinking. I see the point the writer was making, I just disagree with it in some cases. To suggest that an agent can not be as… more
Being Positive.. on ActiveRain, in Real Estate and in Life
11/14/2008
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It's raining today. It rained yesterday and it will rain, almost the entire day tomorrow, too. Is that a bad thing or a good thing? Well, I think it is all in how you look at it. I think it is all in the twist you put on it. What good will it do you… more
Finance Friendly Christmas gifts? (cause Santa is broke this year! )
11/13/2008
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Everyone I know this year, including Santa, is broke. Times are tighter, across the board, as I have ever seen them. It's not just slimmer for those in the real estate industry, nor for just the businesses directly affected by real estate like… more
"So how did you happen to get into Real Estate? "
11/12/2008
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My clients often ask me, "So how did you happen to get into Real Estate? " Well, I briefly explain to them how I was raised in a military family, have been the new kid on the block… on more blocks than I can even remember, and that it was just a… more
The Silent Ranks - Military Wives
11/11/2008
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First, just let me say, "Happy Veteran's Day" to all of the men and women who have served, as well as those who are still serving this great nation. Although it just does not seem to be enough, I'd also like to say, "Thank you" to them, but also to… more
 

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