Make Someone Happy !

 

     I was sitting with a new agent the other day. I was trying to get a handle on why they had chosen this profession. If I can determine what motivated them to join the ranks of Realtors, I can then delve a little deeper into what might be that one factor that will separate them from those that have tried and failed and those that are still active today.

     The young lad turned the question around and asked me..."Why are you a Realtor? You have had great success in other industries. Why are you still practicing this profession?"

     I gave it a moments thought. I have always known the why. I smiled and said this profession offers me an abundance of opportunities to make someone happy. Everyday, I have the chance to make a difference in one person's life. Why, I often have the chance to make a difference in many lives with just one transaction. As a Realtor.........I can make someone happy!

     Now I understand that there are some agents that are truly money motivated. When they think of a transaction, they immediately begin calculating how much they will earn. They will pause between different stages of a sale and gaze at the picture of the new car or new boat or new golf clubs that will soon be in their reach. They have vacation flyer's that offer tantalizing pictures of exotic places. They pause and dream.

     

     I will be the first to admit that I have failed every test administered to determine if I were money motivated. When I was younger and moving through different career paths, more than one human resources staffer scratched their head upon reviewing the psycho-evaluation test. Money never did it for me. That does not mean that those that are money motivated are any better or worse than me. Nope, you see I have grown wiser in old age and I understand that money can provide some people with the means to be happy. If it is money you seek, make transactions and you will be happy. The collateral benefit is that those involved in the transaction will also be happy.

     Some agents love the recognition and awards that come with success. I am never surprised to see the "top 1% of Realtors Nationwide" on business cards. I know that many of the best agents in my office have walls that are filled beyond negative space with plaques and awards from days gone by. I have seen the joy that recognition brings to their face. They are proud of their accomplishments.

     I don't think it is unusual to desire recognition of a job well done. Agents are usually beaming a wonderful smile when that step up to receive an award. They are happy. If awards and recognition are your goal, make transactions and you will be happy. The collateral benefit is that the transactions necessary to complete to achieve higher levels will have created lots of happy people.

     Maybe it is time that we set aside the dollar figures and the awards and stepped back from the recognition and admitted the base need that is being fulfilled every time we accomplish our goal. We make someone happy. The happiness certainly can begin with ourselves. The happiness may be measured in dollars and cents. The happiness may carry an award or special recognition. The happiness is our goal.

This is not the goal. This is a sign that the goal has been accomplished!

     I am both proud and privileged to be a Realtor. I firmly believe that those of us that have chosen this profession make a tremendous difference in our communities one deal at a time. We may not be as haughty as Attorneys or Doctors. We may not have to pass multi-hour exams to become licensed. We work and live in the communities we serve. Realtors are active participants in the ever changing landscape of our society. We are called on to be counselor, confessor, adviser and friend. We are required to possess general knowledge and the integrity to direct our clients to the proper professionals. We are Realtors and we should be proud.

This may be the symbol on our lapel.

This is the symbol of a career well spent.

     It is never to late to understand that your personal success is within reach every day. You need only get up, get out the door and be committed to the goal that today, you will....

Make Someone Happy !

 
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27 Comments on Make Someone Happy !

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John, I make people so happy, they like to work with me forever, just looking at houses, having lunches, spending time with me.  Yikes!  But I do like this post.  I am only motivated by money in the sense that I need it to live, but being rich has never been one of my goals.  Being happy, content, doing good things for people, that is what motivates me.  I only need as much money as I need to be worry free about money.

7:05am • #1
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John, very well said!  A great piece of motivational prose for agents trying to find their way.

7:44am • #2
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Did the guy ever answer your question?  Just wondering . . .

Motivation, interesting word for self-reflection.

12:48pm • #3
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What a great post - being motivated by money and keeping up with the Jones is part of what happened to our economy...however, I am just as guilty of it as anyone else!  LOL  I love to make people happy...everytime I bake cookies, I have my kids take a plate over to 3 different neighbors' homes...just because it makes me happy to share with them and brings me closer to them.  I think that the more money motivated you are, brings you more to share with others...it might be a double-edged sword...but at least it's a happy sword!  (Ok, bad analogy, I know!)

12:55pm • #4
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John; what a great post!!!  I have never been motivated by money, and that is especially true with my R.E. career. I really love this business (99% of the time) and helping folks find their dream home/cabin. When I hand them the keys, and see their smiles, it makes my DAY!

Now, I DO know of some that are motivated purely by money. So, so sad!  One particular Realtor I know eats, breathes, sleeps R.E  AND it's ALL about the almighty buck for this person. 

Life is short...and at the end it's not going to make a difference how much money we made or have in our pocket...

1:16pm • #5
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This is what ultimately led me to Real Estate. I had worked with contracts and negotiation in the past, but never had the satisfaction of making any one person or a family happy. Artfully stated indeed, and a well-deserved Gold Star for you. Thank you for enlightening folks, and perhaps even motivating a few to reflect why they are and still are in this business. I have met so many agents in the recent months, who walk around like Real Estate is the last thing they want to be doing. Personally, I cannot think of any other profession I would rather be doing. My Husband and I just had a conversation about this last night... if we won the lottery, he would still fly airplanes for a living (he's an airline pilot) and I would still be a Realtor - because it makes us happy, and allows us an opportunity to make others happy. Thanks. Cheers,

Amy's Sweet Signature

1:19pm • #6
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John- Great post! That's why I love working with Agents! We have a tremndous amount of respect for what you do!

1:23pm • #7
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I feel the same way, that's why even if I am a little slow with my business I still feel a sense of accomplishment!  Knowing that I can make someone happy is what drives me!

1:32pm • #8
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Hey John!


Reading this made me happy so you can add another person to your "daily happy list." I practice your same preachings, earning a paycheck isn't anywhere near the feeling of making someone happy. Lovely post!

-Lisa

1:37pm • #9
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John...well deserved featured.  This is a very motivational post for me...Real estate for me is enjoying life and helping others....I do this and it makes be happpppppy!  I will share this post with other agents in my office.

1:37pm • #10

Thank you for the great post. Thanks for sharing.

1:44pm • #11

I recently answered this very question at Yahoo "Answers" and my answer was chosen by the writer as the best response to his question. So here's my answer as to why I sell real estate and what my day is typically like, which is appropriate to your blog post, John:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoZghpCuVeGx6iFAcouEVSzsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090327111052AAju3o8&show=7#profile-info-CBgmO3JDaa

 

Cheers!

Kimberly Dotseth

broker/owner

Green Box Homes

San Diego, CA

1:45pm • #12
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John- very insightful.  The sign of a good leader is knowing what motivates others.  Very few managers ever stop and try to think like their subordinates.  My guess is that you have built a good and loyal team. Best,

Rich

2:02pm • #13
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Wonderful post!  As a self-proclaimed "people pleaser", I'm not happy unless my clients are pleased with their experience and my service.

2:26pm • #14
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Very well said. This is one of the better posts I have read in a while on here. Way to go!

3:01pm • #15
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John - Thank you for providing such an uplifting post. If you shift your focus from money to your client's happiness, then your monetary goals will always be far exceded. Well deserved gold star!

3:13pm • #16

 John, thank you for that post, it really makes me feel happy. I totally agree with every word in it, I have always held the same beliefs. Thanks!

3:25pm • #17
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That's a wonderful post, John.  So eloquent and to the point.  The best way to make yourself happy is by making others happy.  It's a trickle-down effect.  I know your post made me happy.  So, thank you.

4:24pm • #18
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I like happy people and love to make them happy but I have to admit at the end of the day MONEY is how I keep score. Don't get me wrong I am not greedy, I do it by the book but I do love the green stuff. I feel like it you're not then try doing it for free and we'll both see how that works for you.

4:46pm • #19
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John...

The very moment we begin to understand it's about making others happy is the moment we are well on our way to success in all we do :)

TLW...ROAR!

5:10pm • #20
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Loved reading this-it made me happy!!! 

5:15pm • #21
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Well, we do need money to survive..no doubt about that... and there's also the difference between needing to have enough vs. money that determines the self worth of some. Bottom line...we do what we do so that our clients are happy at the end of a sale. They are happy with the end results and happy with the service and care we gave to get them there. And I am happy ..... that I did everything to do in the best interests of my clients.....to allow me to sleep ....oh, so well....at night. :)

6:37pm • #22

John - What a positive, uplifting post.

Some are motivated by closing the deal, some by getting the check, but I believe the happiest are motivated by helping others achieve their goals. That's real success.

8:29pm • #23
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Today I closed on 2 very difficult transactions. Both buyers were so happy at settlement. It is a great high after you close and know it went well.

8:40pm • #24
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John- Well said. Enjoy what you do and the rest will follow. As I tell my manager, Gary, I'm doing the Happy dance :)

10:48pm • #25
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Excellent information, and I agree with this ethos

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