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Spring Fresh But Tried and True Ideas for Changing Times

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Real Estate Agent with RE/MAX Above & Beyond

Lots of different thoughts enter my mind as I read the title "Spring Cleaning and Fresh Ideas for Changing Times" and it strikes me that maybe what we need to do is to embrace some of the not so fresh ideas. Don't get me wrong, fresh ideas are great and change is good, it's vital, in fact, to our personal and professional growth. But is it possible, that old ideas are the best way to handle changing times?

If we are very lucky in this life, we live in good health with people we love and awake each spring to the joy of the buds on the trees, the flowers poking out of the ground and kids on bikes and scooters and skateboards even though there is still a chill in the air. So far, our 4 seasons here have remained constant. Sure winter may be a little more harsh and longer some years, and spring may come a little later than we want, autumn may not be as brilliant as some in the past and summer is always over too soon, especially if you are in school. But, year after year we enjoy the seasons. We in fact, come to rely on them for rejuvenation. No one's future is certain, ever, but the positive attitude says "Ah spring is right around the corner"  or "I can't wait til summer".

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We, as a nation, and as a world have seen tremendous changes even in just the last ten years with our economy, technology, medicine, just to name a few. And how do we embrace that change?

Some try to stay ahead of the game, worried that someone else will be better than they are
Some will reject it completely
Some will try to persuade others to follow their way of thinking
Some will try to destroy it
Some will try to change it
Some will degrade  and reject those that don't or won't or can't jump on the bandwagon

Someone once said "The more things change, the more they stay the same".  I think what this person may have meant was that change always comes down to how we embrace it.

Are we rude to others?
Are we unkind?
Are we gossiping?
Are we jealous?
Are we cheating? just a little bit? and what is a little bit?
Are we lying? just a little bit?
Are we bending the rules? just a little bit? and how far will we bend them?

For me spring is not about cleaning my house, though I will clean my yard, so that I can see everything springing back to life. It's about cleaning out my mind, body, and soul, and it's about assessing my behavior to see if I am on track. Am I really living the Golden Rule? Have I put down any roots, not geographically, but ethically and morally? Am I striving to teach that to my daughter? Do I do what is right even when it is not popular?

So maybe with the emergence of this year's new spring, we need to embrace some old ideas again...truth, kindness, helpfulness, fairness, ethics, and morality.

Comments(24)

Barb Szabo, CRS
RE/MAX Above & Beyond - Cleveland, OH
E-pro Realtor, Cleveland Ohio Homes

Connie, It's so easy to get caught up in things that don't matter. Thanks for stopping by.

Apr 12, 2009 10:32 AM
Barb Szabo, CRS
RE/MAX Above & Beyond - Cleveland, OH
E-pro Realtor, Cleveland Ohio Homes

Sally, You're so right and it's never ending!

Gary, constant change yes but the seasons also remind me of stability.

Hi Hannah, Thanks taking the time to read and comment.

Apr 12, 2009 10:36 AM
Khash Saghafi NMLS
Liberty Home Mortgage Corporation - Cleveland, OH
Mortgage Loan Officer, Cleveland OH NMLS 1114762

Excellent post once again Barb!  In the end, back to the basics is what wins and old ways never get old.

Apr 12, 2009 11:23 AM
Barb Szabo, CRS
RE/MAX Above & Beyond - Cleveland, OH
E-pro Realtor, Cleveland Ohio Homes

Hi Khash, Kind of ties into your blog for today. Thanks for stopping by!

Apr 12, 2009 11:46 AM
Caren Wallace
Premier Property Group LLC - Tualatin, OR
Portland Caren Real Estate

Barb~~These are very valuable words to live by~~your story is well written and we all can take a lesson here!

Apr 12, 2009 11:26 PM
Barb Szabo, CRS
RE/MAX Above & Beyond - Cleveland, OH
E-pro Realtor, Cleveland Ohio Homes

Caren, Thanks so much. I hope you had a lovely Easter.

Apr 12, 2009 11:40 PM
Bill Gassett
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Hopkinton, MA
Metrowest Massachusetts Real Estate

There is just something about the Spring and the weather that brings out the best in me:)

Apr 14, 2009 12:26 AM
Barb Szabo, CRS
RE/MAX Above & Beyond - Cleveland, OH
E-pro Realtor, Cleveland Ohio Homes

Me too Bill..I don't know if it's the long grey winter but when spring finally comes I feel renewed.

Apr 14, 2009 12:59 AM
Mary Yonkers
Alan Kells School of Real Estate/Howard Hanna Real Estate - Erie, PA
Erie/PA Real Estate Instructor

Barb--The tired and true can be refreshed with a new attitude I agree, but too often we get bogged down by life and forget to dust them off and begin anew.  Like you I live and work on the shores of Lake Erie (Erie, PA) so spring is very much welcome to come.  Love your photos.  I saw a few purple flowers in my crepe myrtle yesterday. Mary

Apr 15, 2009 02:10 AM
Barb Szabo, CRS
RE/MAX Above & Beyond - Cleveland, OH
E-pro Realtor, Cleveland Ohio Homes

Mary, Your words are so true.The first signs of spring in my yard are my astilbe. Looking forward to lots more color!

Apr 15, 2009 02:53 AM
Ann Cummings
RE/MAX Shoreline - NH and Maine - Portsmouth, NH
Portsmouth NH Real Estate Preferrable Agent

Hi Barb - I love those pictures you used in this post!  The Golden Rule - what a steadfast basic principle of life that it seems so many seem to forget at times.  I love that this is the premise of your post and the embracing of old ideas - the basic foundations of life.

ann

Apr 15, 2009 10:47 PM
Barb Szabo, CRS
RE/MAX Above & Beyond - Cleveland, OH
E-pro Realtor, Cleveland Ohio Homes

Hi Ann, Thanks for your kind words! I often tell my daughter "It's not so much what you say but how you say it that makes the difference." Rarely does yelling or swearing at someone accomplish much.

Apr 15, 2009 11:10 PM
Linda Bourgault
lulugraphix-creative photography & fine art - Flower Mound, TX

Hi Barb—Thanks for putting a fresh spring approach on what we know are basic principles and should keep well hones in our everchanging world. Thanks for participating in the Spring Fresh PAWS contest. Good luck!

Apr 16, 2009 03:41 AM
Barb Szabo, CRS
RE/MAX Above & Beyond - Cleveland, OH
E-pro Realtor, Cleveland Ohio Homes

Linda, Thanks for stopping by and for your comments. Happy Spring!

Apr 16, 2009 06:18 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Barb--What a beautiful post!  Back to basic spring cleaning!!  Happy Spring to you!

Debe in Charlotte

Apr 16, 2009 03:06 PM
Barb Szabo, CRS
RE/MAX Above & Beyond - Cleveland, OH
E-pro Realtor, Cleveland Ohio Homes

Debe, Thanks for stopping by. I can only imagine how busy you are. Hope all is going well!

Apr 16, 2009 10:59 PM
Joanne O'Donnell
Chic Home Interiors - Oakland, CA

Barb, very important points you have made.  We all need to periodically do a little spring cleaning of the soul.  Thanks for the reminder...  I found you on twitter by the way, and am following you there, follow me back!

Apr 18, 2009 06:08 AM
Barb Szabo, CRS
RE/MAX Above & Beyond - Cleveland, OH
E-pro Realtor, Cleveland Ohio Homes

Hi Joanne, Thanks for stopping by and I will follow you on Twitter!

Apr 18, 2009 06:24 AM
Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

Barb, I enjoyed reading this great post.  I like what you said in the last sentence "...we need to embrace some old ideas again...truth, kindness, helpfulness, fairness, ethics, and morality."   I couldn't agree more.

Apr 18, 2009 12:53 PM
Barb Szabo, CRS
RE/MAX Above & Beyond - Cleveland, OH
E-pro Realtor, Cleveland Ohio Homes

Thanks Rebecca. It's all about that and the golden rule. Hope all is well with you.

Apr 18, 2009 02:48 PM