Knowledge, practice and courage are your weapons against fear.

One person can step out of an airplane door at 2,000 feet without hesitation. Another can stand before an audience of 2,000 and give a speech without breaking into a sweat. Fears can be rational or irrational, but they are always personal and real. Everyone fears something.

To diminish a fear, you must first face it. The one hundredth skydive or speech won't be as traumatic as the first. The best way to deal with first fears is through a combination of logic and bravery. Logically, most people who jump from planes or give speeches don't die. They succeed through preparation. If your equipment is right and your training is complete, you are ready to jump. If your speech is carefully crafted and practiced, you are ready to speak.

Associate with confident people. You have seen many who have already done what you fear doing. Now, do what they have done. Courage grows with action. Fear is learned and must be unlearned. After facing that fear, you will feel exhilarated. Without fear, there can be no courage. Fear provides the opportunity to be brave.
 

4 Comments on ACTION STEP #25: FACE FEAR

MAY
18
2007
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You hit on a key point: preparation. That's one of the things that diminishes fear.

 

1:18pm • #1
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I agree with all points. And to add to it... we fear the unknown. Here are the fears I've heard from children and adults alike....What questions will be asked and what if I don't know the answers? What will they think of me? What if they don't like me? Insecurity=Fear. Face it!
1:24pm • #2
MAY
19
2007

The funny thing about fear is that, once it is over, you ask yourself why was I fearful? And you usually don't have an answer to that question.  At least I don't.  To others I fear nothing, but to me, there is always that feeling inside that I have to overcome.  The good part about it is, I usually do overcome and go for it.

Good post.

www.motheranddaughterrealty.com

 

3:49pm • #3
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Good, inspiration stuff.  We all need to face our fears and lack of confidence to enable us to reach beyond ourselves and attain new heights.
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