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The Golden Rule of Friendship

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Motivational Power Quote

 

The Golden Rule of Friendship 

 

"The golden rule of friendship

is to listen to others

as you would have

them listen to you."

David Augsbruger

   

As I see it. . . . . . . .

The golden rule of friendship applies to every aspects of our life.  

When you meet someone give them your undivided attention for the first thirty seconds. During your conversation listen to them, give them your full attention, acknowledge what they're saying and show genuine interest in them.

When you're listening, make them feel that they are the most important person in the world.  

The person that's a proactive listener earns the reputation of being a brilliant conversationalist who others will seek out for advice.   

Listen to others as we would like then to listen to us.  

Actively listening to others is a sign of respect. As we listen to others we build rapport, that rapport builds trust and confidence.   

As we listen to others, others will listen to us.     

®2009, Lou Ludwig, Sales and Management Consultant, Motivational Speaker, Trainer, Educator and Author

  

  

  

 

Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Lou, those really are words of wisdom!  And I gues that listening is really what makes a good friend!

Apr 11, 2009 01:35 PM
Patsy Overton
Patsy Overton Interiors, Atlanta, Georgia - Duluth, GA

Anyone can talk while only a few are truly good listeners.  I want to be in the latter group.

Apr 11, 2009 02:02 PM
Sandy Dixon
Interior Arrangements, Inc. - Denver, CO

Before we can truly listen to anyone---even to our own thoughts, we have to practice slowing down, quieting our space (turn off the radios, TV's, ipod's) and paying attention. Not an easy task in today's world.

Apr 11, 2009 02:47 PM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Janice

Listening is amazing; it opens doors we were not aware of.

Lou

Apr 11, 2009 03:13 PM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Pasty

Listeners will find understanding and success.

Lou

Apr 11, 2009 03:16 PM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Sandy

Thanks for sharing you are right on target.

Lou

Apr 11, 2009 03:17 PM
Toula Rosebrock
Diane Turton, Realtors, Forked River, NJ - Lacey Township, NJ
Broker/Sales Associate, Realtor, Lacey Township,

ToulaRosebrock.comHi Lou:

Exactly!

Listening is so very important, in friendship and in business too.

Apr 12, 2009 01:16 AM
Janice Roosevelt
Keller Williams Brandywine Valley - West Chester, PA
OICP ABR, ePRO,Ecobroker

Lou, consider me your cyber friend. I listen to your wisdom as often as you post it

Apr 12, 2009 01:31 AM
Steve Hoffacker
Steve Hoffacker LLC - West Palm Beach, FL
Certified Aging In Place Specialist-Instructor

Lou,

I'm glad you posted this. I'm going to use in the SMC program I'm doing on "Active Listening" on the 6th. :)

Steve

Apr 12, 2009 02:20 AM
Sandy Shores FL Realtor®, Melbourne Real Estate
M & M Realty of Brevard Inc. - Melbourne, FL
Brevard County Real Estate, Florida's Space Coast

Hi Lou, It is so important to take time to listen and really hear what people are saying. Great point! Have a wonderful Easter with your family!

Apr 12, 2009 03:27 AM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Hi Toula

Listening leads to understanding a rapport and that we successfully navigate our relationships.

Lou Ludwig

Apr 12, 2009 11:55 AM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Hi Janice

Thanks I would hope you continue to stop by.

Lou Ludwig

Apr 12, 2009 11:57 AM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Hi Steve

Thanks I'll look for it post on the Florida SMC site.

Lou Ludwig

Apr 12, 2009 11:58 AM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Hi Sandy

When we listen it amazing on what we hear.

Lou Ludwig

Apr 12, 2009 12:00 PM
Tanisha Allen
INTouch Properties - Covington, GA

Well said!  I have been really trying to be a better listener and talk less and hear more.  I recognize this as one of my weaknesses.

Thanks!

Apr 12, 2009 06:22 PM
Russel Ray, San Diego Business & Marketing Consultant & Photographer
Russel Ray - San Diego State University, CA

But the sound of my voice is soooooooooooooo soothing, much more soothing to me than to others the voices of others -- LOL

Apr 13, 2009 03:59 AM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Hi Tanisha

Being a better listener takes hard work and a commitment to improve our listening skills.

Lou Ludwig

Apr 13, 2009 02:37 PM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Hi Russel

Our voice always sounds good to us, listening to others becomes profitable.

Lou Ludwig

Apr 13, 2009 02:39 PM