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 Well, the KEYS..... of course!!!

Call me the emotional support person of the Real Estate Transaction. I get to babysit the client after they put in a contract on a property.... and try as I might, I still have to calm the fears and jitters of those that are nervous about final approval. Once the client has an accepted offer.... lots of things are happening in their minds. Most First Time Homebuyers are really, really nervous about the final approval. Even the veteran of home purchases can get a little nervous. Maybe they experienced a counter-offer from the bank and the rate changed in the past. Maybe they have been denied credit in the past. Whatever event is driving their emotions, the borrower can be a bundle of nerves, even when it doesn't show.

My #1 advice to my clients is to not get emotionally attached until they have the keys in hand. Because until the loan funds, the property is just a house..... A part of a business transaction..... The most important investment in most people's portfolio, yes, but it isn't their home.... not just yet. It isn't time to get emotionally attached to a property until you get those keys.

Now, this advice doesn't just serve as a nerve calming technique. Because, I still have to worry about the borrower who goes nuts and buys all kinds of appliances and curtains and even backyard playsets for the kids. LOL. Even AFTER I have told them to NOT acquire any new debt because a lot of transactions are contingent upon the borrower NOT taking on any new debt since the loan application was taken!!!!

What makes a house a home? Well, it really is the KEYS....!!

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Tom Burris
DallasLoanGuy.com
Dallas, TX

Texas Home Loans

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9 Comments on What Makes A House A Home - Dallas, TX

MAY
20
2007
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I like that advice. I never thought of saying that. We definitely learn something new every day; especially around here!
11:02pm • #1
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Tom... some good points. And it's still not truly their house until they pay it off completely....  lol  I wrote a blog a few months ago, Home buying can be intense. Its good to see great minds think alike.  Sound advice.

                                                                                                            jeff belonger

11:06pm • #2
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Good advice. Calming a nervous buyer is an art form.
11:16pm • #3
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Tom,

I have a buyer who is like a raw nerve being shocked by a high voltage wire.  Nothing I say, and I mean nothing is going to calm him down (maybe medication, I don't know).  Thankfully, we are closing this week.  I am so happy for him and relieved that we are getting to the end.  Handing him the keys will be a great ending to a wonderful month. 

Your advice is right-on.  Keeping our clients as emotionally detached as possible is a good idea for all involved.

Fran

11:19pm • #4
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Understanding emotions and keeping them at bay is important, speaking of important...the keys are a nice addition to any home.
11:19pm • #5
MAY
21
2007
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what constitutes a real mortgage commitment?

why the closing of course.

as you mentioned a buyer could be spending on whatever, changing jobs, losing a job. all commitments have conditions. it's the closing that matters.

many files get quick audits before a closing. 

7:55am • #6
MAY
23
2007
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Tom, some people do tend to get to excited before things close don't they!
7:37pm • #7
MAY
26
2007
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Tom - Excellent and to the point. It is much easier said than done, not getting emotionally involved.
12:51pm • #8
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Danny/Paula....I didn't say it was easy.... LOL

Jay..... My old boss had a borrower quit her job on the way to closing.... "it ain't yours until it FUNDS"

Jason.....  ;-)

 

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