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3-2-1- LIFTOFF! Prevent Failure to Launch: Help Your Kid Buy A House This Year

By
Mortgage and Lending with Platinum Home Mortgage Company NMLS #238304

It wasn't THAT long ago that we Baby Boomers worried a lot about our kids.

You know, those irrepressible Generation Y kids who were on the Internet at age 4 and who grew up clicking (my son says I grew up turning dials and that is why his generation is superior different).

Sitting on our own fat bubble- enhanced, low taxed properties, we watched prices spiral out of control here in the San Francisco Bay Area. We believed our children would either:

  1. Never be able to afford a house
  2. Move away forever
  3. Move back in with us (eek!) 

But post meltdown, all of that has changed. And in the wake of economic disaster lies a once in a lifetime opportunity to get junior into his very own house or condo.

This is the year to help your kid become a first time buyer. You snooze, you lose.

No, I cannot promise son will become a handyman or daughter will turn into Martha Stewart. But I can promise you that everyone in the family will look back someday (sooner than you think) and thank their lucky stars you took advantage of a 24 karat golden real estate opportunity to give your child financial stability.

Why this year? Here are 3 reasons that point directly to the stars being lined up perfectly:

  1. Cheap properties (prices being driven down by foreclosures)
  2. Low fixed rates on old fashioned 30 year mortgages
  3. FHA financing finally has limits high enough to buy in California

As if that isn't ENOUGH, here is your amazing limited time BONUS OFFER: First Time Homebuyer Tax Credit of $8000 is good through the end of the year.

 

The strategy:

  1. GIFT your child the down minimum payment (3.5% of selling price)
  2. ASK the seller to pay the closing costs in your offer, so your kid needs NO cash at all
  3. SNAG a cheap property in the best location your kid can afford

Be prepared for this:

  1. MULTIPLE OFFERS on lender foreclosed properties for sale
  2. SELLERS insisting on an approval with a LENDER (not just a letter from the mortgage person)
  3. A LONGER time line than you are expecting

10 things not to worry about:

  1. Rates will go lower. FHA loans have the ability to be easily re-written if rates drop (streamline refinance) 
  2. Real estate will be cheaper. So what? Think long term.
  3. Your kid isn't "ready". Most first time buyers do not have the perspective to understand the benefit of the tax credit, or the silver lining of economic downturns. Come to think of it, you probably weren't "ready" when he was born.
  4. Going on the loan with your kid. If your kid has no job now, or just can't afford to buy, you can co-sign.
  5. Finding the "perfect" house/condo. It is a starter house, for crying out loud. Do not expect lender foreclosures to be pretty
  6. FHA closing costs are "too high". Yep, FHA will have slightly higher closing costs than conventional. Seller may not pay closing costs. You can gift your kid closing costs, too.
  7. What if my kid loses his job?  "What if's" are the biggest reason for missed opportunities!
  8. The real estate market is just too confusing! That is why you should find a great real estate agent
  9. Getting a loan is a big hassle! Get preapproved first with a great mortgage person
  10. Where will I get the cash to help my kid? How about an equity line or retirement account? Maybe Grandma has the money?

Get your kid set and maybe you could move in with him someday. (double eek!)

Maybe not.

 

 

Written by Janet Guilbault, Mortgage Banker/Broker Based Out of the San Francisco Bay Area

 

 

Sharon Paxson
Sharon Paxson, Realtor® EQTY Forbes Global Properties - Newport Beach, CA
Newport Beach Real Estate

Janet - very nice post. I took out some buyers doing the same this past week. There really are a lot of first time buyers, as there are some very good opportunities out there right now.

Apr 28, 2009 02:33 AM
Pat Haddad, ABR, CRS, ePRO, GRI
Keller Williams Indianapolis Metro NE - Carmel, IN
Carmel, Fishers, Westfield IN Real Estate Expert

So does this also mean that all of those Californians who came here to Indianapolis to buy a home will now be able to?  Are their homes in California now selling?  Amazing how far reaching some shock waves can be!

Apr 28, 2009 02:41 AM
Janet Guilbault
Platinum Home Mortgage Company - Walnut Creek, CA
San Francisco Bay Area Direct Mortgage Lender

To both Donne Knudson and Jeff Belonger, 2 of my esteemed fellow loan officers here on ActiveRain (and to my Realtor readers as well!) I welcome links to posts you have written on the same subject.  Please don't hesitate to stir the pot or enrich the discussion by directing us to a more in depth discussion of one of the points made here.

PS No one knows and understands FHA better than Jeff.

Apr 28, 2009 02:51 AM
Janet Guilbault
Platinum Home Mortgage Company - Walnut Creek, CA
San Francisco Bay Area Direct Mortgage Lender

To Paul P. comment # 36 (Wow....no one else jumped on this?????)

You said: No down payment & questionable credit - isn't that what stated loan were all about?

I am going to admit that not every kid is ready for home ownership. But I am going to disagree that FHA is anything like a stated income loan. FHA is not subprime. There is a criteria for credit, and a criteria for income that must be met to qualify. INCOME MUST BE PROVEN.

Gift funds must come from a family member. So a parent must take some responsiblity in determining if the kid can handle being a homeowner and making the payments before gifting the downpayment.

As for skin in the game: It would be better, I agree. But I think taking advantage of this opportunity trumps the risk of waiting until the kid saves up the money, rates are higher, prices are higher, loan limits lower, etc

 

Apr 28, 2009 03:06 AM
Janet Guilbault
Platinum Home Mortgage Company - Walnut Creek, CA
San Francisco Bay Area Direct Mortgage Lender

Mark comment # 23: You wrote:

I don't think we are at a bottom yet for home prices but California is certainly closer to the bottom than the top, it is one of the few markets that is improving.

Met with some kids yesterday to do a streamline refinance on their FHA I did last fall. The Dad was with them because he lived on the same block and needed to talk to me about a refinance.

Dad owed $270,000 on his house....the same floor plan as his kid's house. He had paid over $400k. The value? About the same as the house his son bought last fall: $175,000.

The moral of this story? There is still people in very bad situations as a result of the meltdown. But at least the sun is shining brightly on first time homebuyers.....the son feels strongly he "bought at the bottom". The Dad was wondering how to "modify".....

Apr 28, 2009 03:15 AM
Gene Riemenschneider
Home Point Real Estate - Brentwood, CA
Turning Houses into Homes

My oldest kids only 12.  He just wants his own room.  Seriously, my wife and I have a dream of buying rental property and owning a home for each of our kids.

Apr 28, 2009 03:22 AM
Anonymous
Kathy Judy

I know I know!  I have been trying to get my daughter to see the light.  It kills me because I work with first time home buyers a lot but I can't get her out of her "we like our rental and we don't want to be tied down" mindset.  Both she and her husband have owned homes before but at least 5 years ago!  They are perfect for this!  And he has a degree in economics!  Go figure!

Apr 28, 2009 04:06 AM
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Jeani Codrey
RE/MAX Corridor - New Braunfels, TX
Director of Opportunity & Agent Development

Excellent advice!  We should encourage our kids to invest in real estate.  Mine is going on 12 and he is already understanding why it is important to be a property owner!  Raise em right! :o)

Apr 28, 2009 04:40 AM
Leslie Prest
Leslie Prest, Prest Realty, Sales and Rentals in Payson, AZ - Payson, AZ
Owner, Assoc. Broker, Prest Realty, Payson,

We're looking to do this very thing with our 22 year old son.

Apr 28, 2009 05:26 AM
Bettina Settles
Greenwood, IN
Your Indiana Connection

Great advice as always....I was getting my son to buy then he decidedto join the service and he will be out of the country for several years, and he does not want tenants right now.....

Bettina

Apr 28, 2009 06:41 AM
Donne Knudsen
Los Angeles & Ventura Counties in CA - Simi Valley, CA
CalState Realty Services

Janet - Thx for the compliment.  Your so kind and the feeling is absolutely mutual.  I just wanted to let your readers know that the myth that FHA loans cost more than conventional loans is not necessarily true.  While there is the UFMIP that FHA requires, they also allow the borrower to finance it, which keeps the settlement costs down.

Furthermore, one of the advantages of an FHA loan is the MMI.  As I mentioned, FHA MMI is much more affordable than conventional PMI.  I challenge anyone to compare an FHA loan to a conventional loan and prove that FHA is not the more affordable loan option for anyone, not just first time buyers.

Now if we can just dispel the myth that FHA appraisals are more stringent than conventional appraisals.  For the record Realtors and consumers reading this post now:

FHA loans are not subjected to the new HVCC appraisal rules that conventional loans are.

Apr 28, 2009 07:36 AM
"The Lovely Wife" The One And Only TLW.
President-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc. - Kissimmee, FL

Janet...

We have every intention of helping. I certainly don't want him, his wife and four Grandkids living with me. I don't think my heart could take the abuse :)

TLW...ROAR!

Apr 28, 2009 07:39 AM
Aaron Poling
Long & Foster - Martinsburg, WV
Working to get YOU the BEST Deal!

Great post, My dad helped me get started with my first house about ten years ago and there wasnt this many good reasons to buy then.

Apr 28, 2009 02:25 PM
Renée Donohue~Home Photography
Savvy Home Pix - Allegan, MI
Western Michigan Real Estate Photographer

Rock on! Not a huge reblogger but this one is definitely deserving to get in front of my crowd!  Cheers and thanks!

Apr 28, 2009 02:44 PM
Sandy Noll
(RSVP Real Estate) 425.890.0878 - Gig Harbor, WA
RE Pro Serving Snohomish to Thurston Counties

That is GREAT advice!  I have been nudging my daughter to buy this year, if for no other reason than to get the $8000 tax creadit.  That opened her eyes a bit!! 

Apr 28, 2009 05:42 PM
Dotti Driver
Sky Realty - Austin, TX
GRI, E-Pro Realtor

This is a great idea for all parents.  I especially liked your 10 things not to worry about.  I've heard all of those worries---some from my own kids.  This opportunity may not come around again in our lifetime.

Apr 29, 2009 03:46 AM
Kelsey Barklow
Hurd Realty - Johnson City, TN
423/948-9154

Great post, Janet. My number one complaint is that it seems that most first time home buyers in my area do not have 3.5% to put down. If more parents/relatives stepped up to the plate, there would definitely be more homebuyers.

Apr 29, 2009 11:58 AM
Carrie Sampron
Home Smart Realty Group - Highlands Ranch, CO
ABR SFR & Kathy Sampron (303) 931-3629 Highlands R

Janet:  Great post.  We'll definetly find a way to market using this.  Thanks.

Apr 30, 2009 09:21 AM
Kenneth Bargers
Prudential Woodmont Realty - Nashville, TN

Janet - This is another great approach to explain to the consumer for first time home buyers.  Thank you for sharing.

May 02, 2009 02:16 AM
Anonymous
John F of San Jose

We bought our daughter a 2bed 1bath condo in San Jose, just 3 miles from our house for $150K!!! 2 years ago, these were selling for 400,000! We thought for sure they would either be renting from some slumlord, or living 100 miles away! WOW, we are so happy to have taken advantage of these times... Next though, buy a second one as purely a rental!?!

May 02, 2009 04:19 AM
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