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Five Days Off? Are You Kidding Me???

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Real Estate Agent with Century 21 Moline Realty 40022101

I am a real estate agent through and through.  I took to it like a duck to water.

Cell phone?  Check.

Obsession with office voicemail?  Check.

PA's and listing agreements neatly compiled in my car?  Check.

So naturally, when my fiancee, Nick, said he wanted to go camping for Memorial Weekend...... I asked how long we would be gone.

We do this every year, and I've always been super excited.

Right now I'm having a panic attack.

We're leaving tonight, coming back sometime on TUESDAY.  TUESDAY, people!

I'm freaking out.

What if someone calls?  What if there is a question that someone needs answered?  What if a PA comes in????

WHAT IF I DON'T HAVE CELL PHONE RECEPTION?????

I just don't know if I can do this.

I love fishing.  I love camping.  There's nothing I'd rather do..... except be close to the office while I did it.

It is exciting, though.  We're going to Mantrap Lake, gonna fish our butts off, and definitely enjoy it.  We've got food, and are bringing the pups. 

Meanwhile, I'm busy wondering what Briggy is going to eat, and missing out on office stuff.

Is anyone else like this, or am I just a workaholic?  Tell me, fellow agents, do you have an anxiety attack when you even THINK about leaving for a morning, much less a few days?

Please, tell me I'm not nuts!!!

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Joslyn Panka Solomon & Nicholas Solomon - Realtors

Century 21 Moline Realty

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Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573
MOOERS REALTY - Houlton, ME
Northern Maine Real Estate-Aroostook County Broker
You will be a better broker with a few days off...you have to have a life beyond real estate.  EVERYONE NEEDS A VACATION!  You will be able to do way more with a break to refresh and give you perspective.  Remember...all work and no play...you know the dittie!  Take some bug spray! Don't drink the water!  Have fun!
May 24, 2007 10:54 AM
Ashley Drake Gephart
Drake Intel Group - Albuquerque, NM

I can relate. We are planning on taking a vacation in July to Flagstaff for 5 days! I love Flagstaff and I am so excited to be going but I am also thinking all the same things you are. I do have a great agent though that I can have cover for me so that does help.

May 24, 2007 11:00 AM
Lania DeMers
Rocky Mountain Realty Co. - Colorado Springs, CO
Broker, Rocky Mountain Realty Co.

Hi Joslyn:

Take if from me...a healthy balance is REQUIRED in order for you to be a great agent. Throughout the years, I've seen lots of agents lose their family, have problems with their children and become "burnt out" and EVERY ONE of them has said, "No way...I won't get that way."

Family time is precious. ESPECIALLY since you don't get much of it. You don't want everyone to think that you think your cell phone or the next deal is more important than spending time with them, do you? I have never heard of anyone on their death bed asking if a deal was closing...they ask for their kids, their husband or wife, their parents, friends, or loved ones.

I had a brush with death this past November and it really helped me to put things into perspective. HAVE FUN and make precious, irreplaceable memories to last a lifetime!

May 24, 2007 11:08 AM
Kim Murphy
Draper and Kramer - Lombard, IL
Mortgage Loans in DuPage, Kane, Cook, Lake, Will C
I can so relate!  We camp every memorial day too!  When ever I go away I am still never far from all my necessities!  I know we are better with time off.  I look at it as while I am on vacation I am getting time off.  Time away from the office, time to sit on the beach chair in the sun (or rain for this weekend) and answer questions, calls or emails as I choose.  I am not tied to my phone or my computer, but I do check them.  I think depending on your personality (Type A for me) I cant ever just let it go.  Its like letting my kids just check in when they feel like it, or going away with out them and not talking to them the entire time.  Just not possible for me!  But I do come back relaxed regardless!  Hope you do the same!  Enjoy the weekend!  Happy fishing!
May 24, 2007 11:15 AM
Stephanie Edwards-Musa
thredUP.com - The Woodlands, TX
knitwit at thred UP
Joslyn, go have fun. When you get back you will have endless voicemails for business and you can catch up.
May 24, 2007 02:50 PM
Sarah Nopp
South Sound, WA

Take the time off!

Don't you know it is the most surefire way of getting a bunch of business to happen?

Just be ready to do the same for whoever watches your business :)

May 24, 2007 04:35 PM
Todd Clark - Retired
eXp Realty LLC - Tigard, OR
Principle Broker Oregon
I found someone in my office I trust with my life and when I go on vacation she takes my work and when she needs to leave I do the same for her.
May 24, 2007 05:37 PM
Cory & Tracy Frantzick
RE/MAX Associates Plus - North Branch, MN
Hey Joslyn!  Take the time off!!  In my experience business goes nuts while you are gone! Since I am not going on vacation, feel free to send me your referrals while you are gone!!   hehehe!!
May 25, 2007 03:18 AM
Liane Jamason
Smith & Associates Real Estate - Saint Petersburg, FL
Top 1% Real Estate Broker - St. Petersburg, FL
I'm going away on a 7 day cruise in the Caribbean (note, ZERO cell phone reception) in July.  But I have an agent in the office who I know will cover for me and I'll have to leave a message on my cell voicemail to contact her.  I also do plan on taking my laptop with me and paying for expensive-as-hell WI-FI on the ship so I can at least check email.  It's going to be interesting!
May 26, 2007 06:59 AM
Kay Van Kampen
RE/MAX Broker, RE/MAX - Springfield, MO
Realtor®, Springfield Mo Real Estate
You are definitely a workaholic!  You are nuts!  But there is a remedy.... take five days off.  The first two will be difficult.  The third day you start feeling guilty that you're actually have a good time without the phones ringing.  The fourth day you have a ball!  The last day you start dreading all the work that has piled up that you have to do when you get home.  Workaholic!  I should know..... I'm one too.  Have a great time.
May 26, 2007 09:23 AM
Rick and Lynn Orze
RE/MAX All Pro - Carol Stream, IL
Carol Stream, IL RE/MAX All Pro

Joslyn- We always love reading your blogs! It is easy to panic....this is our bread and butter. We always have a saying.....if things are slow, plan a trip....all of a sudden everyone wants to do something and you are trying to leave. Take a deep breath!!! Andrew is right....you will be of better service to your clients if you take a break here and there. I'm sure you will get phone reception....and if someone needs immediate attention...ask someone in your office for help. It is hard. We have been selling for 10 years and we still get a little anxious about leaving. Enjoy the long weekend! Most people have made plans....why shouldn't you???

May 27, 2007 03:30 AM
Nick and Joslyn Solomon
Century 21 Moline Realty - Cambridge, MN
The Solomon Team - Century 21 Moline Realty, Inc.

Thank you everyone for your comments!  Please read my blog Five Days Off - Totally Worth It!  It was definitely worth it - you were all right!

And, thank goodness, I did have cell phone reception at the campsite.  No such luck on the lake, though.

Also, I got back home, showered, and began to drive into the office, and my cell phone rang.  It was a gentleman who wants to write a PA tomorrow on one of my listings.  SWEET!

A vacation and a hogger?  Yes please!

May 30, 2007 07:17 AM
Ben Kinney
Ben Kinney Team - Bellingham, WA
We do real estate:Tech, Training, Sales, Brokerage
Real Estate is not a job it is a way of life :)
Jun 09, 2007 03:08 AM
Nick and Joslyn Solomon
Century 21 Moline Realty - Cambridge, MN
The Solomon Team - Century 21 Moline Realty, Inc.

Ben - I have to agree with you there!  It definitely is a way of life for me!  Sure, I can show you a property three hours away!  Meanwhile, I'm figuring out how to juggle the financials so I can make that drive!  :)

This is my life... and I love it. 

Jun 09, 2007 04:02 AM