Jennifer misses the old days of ActiveRain

 

How well I remember the wild, wild west. That adventurous place back in time where we roped and blogged our way into the new frontier of real estate. We saddled up and settled in and found our storytelling voice. Meanwhile, others held back and circled around the campfire, perfectly content to listen awhile as we spun a few yarns under the first light of the bright western stars.

There were outlaws, gangs and gunslingers, and even a few legendary battles. Gaming, round-ups and rustlers and a few hangings to boot. Late nights in the saloon were good for drunk blogging, some spirited wrangling and if you were lucky, a new sweetheart on your arm. But more important, we had true pioneers who laid claim to the new gold of our industry. Cowboys and cowgirls with the spirit of tomorrow fearlessly plowing a new crop of writers with their inspiring guidance and expert roping skills.

Yep, those were the days. And now I wonder… where have all the cowboys gone?

It isn’t as though I awoke one morning on this hot, dry plain to find the sun hadn’t risen in it’s assigned position. Or that in the few short years since we’ve settled these hills, there haven’t been new and fresh voices. There are plenty. But the echoes in the canyons don’t reverberate with the same soul anymore. The reins have been pulled in, the stories have all been told, and things have become awfully tame on this big old dude ranch of ours.

With the rustling wind at my back, I ride into the open range and hope the old cowboys who’ve ridden off into the sunset have found their blue skies and green pastures. Their just reward for all they have given of themselves and all that we have gained from their tenure. They are missed and they are Wanted, Dead or Alive.

 
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I agree that the luster is fading...whats the new killer app for the industry? Anyone? I think almost all blogs truly suck..mine included.  

4:35pm • #1
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We have plenty of cowboys here Jenn. It's a place called TEXAS, where that spirit has never left us.

4:39pm • #2
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Ah, Jennifer... you're not that old ;-)

Good to see some of your writing again.

4:39pm • #3
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No way Melissa... I don't agree at all, I'm just saying we need to find a way to make the old new again. Guess I was waxing a bit nostalgic today as I wondered about some of the old gang and where they are now. It was a crazy time back in the day....

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Gary... I was thinking about all you Texans as I was writing this and I decided you don't count! That would be like cheating ;-)

Sara... Ummm, gee thanks hon! Really!

My Jason... Stop bragging baby. And put your shirt back on!!

4:44pm • #6
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Couldn't agree with you more My Jen. Lost some of it's soul describes it best. I keep looking for it but can find it anywhere, lately I have just stopped looking.

But I will ride with you anytime, My Jen, for I have the coolest cowboy boots! They are my favorite shoes!

4:44pm • #7
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Jennifer,

Like Gary said plenty of real cowboys still in Texas.

4:48pm • #8

Lot's of cowboys in Colorado also.

4:48pm • #9
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Jennifer,

I can still ride! Think of all the betting possibilities, will I or the horse give out first?

"There were outlaws, gangs and gunslingers," Do all blogs have to talk politics?

I miss the color coded hats!

So good to see you posting. Tell your local Sardi to get to work.

Uncle Bill

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I'm a cowboy. And I got me a cow girl. I love steak. And cookies. And pie. And boobies. And I kind of liked Jason's butt.

5:10pm • #12
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Jennifer - first, I want to say I was expecting Paula instead of Willie. But to answer your question, well, some of us just got caught up in this and haven't quite made it back yet. As for me, I found it hard to catch a wave wearing Tony Lamas.

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My Sandra... I'll bet those boots look mighty cute with your cheerleading outfit! LOL!

Richard... Yes but read the rules:  Texans don't count :)

Terri... So I'll be seeing you at the next rodeo??

Uncle Bill... I had no idea you were a horseman! I love them both for riding and for betting. I used to ride bareback with nothing but a tack rein and it was as free a feeling as there ever was. Oh, and YOU tell him!

Andrew... Aren't you the clever one! I'm going to read your blog now. And it had better be good.

Lovely Hubby... I love all of the above myself - except the steak. And I guess I had better stop dreaming of his ass, since he's going to bend over for you now ;-) Yikes!!

My Brat... Guess it's back to the drawing board for this cowgirl :(

Mike... Nice fake, eh? True about the boots but you could still wear the hat. And then you can blog about it!

6:03pm • #15
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Jennifer,

I'm hurt you don't read my every word. Pout pout! -:(

Goldie was a little Arab palamino, and the fastest horse I've ever seen. She was the most importune thing in my life from 10 until Brenda. Actually I had 20 years with her. She only weighed 850 lbs from 14 on I was over 220 over the years she took 8 major falls I was with her for 7 of them, the last one was when I flipped her end for end a week before our wedding. I got new glasses in time and the brusies didn't show. The trouble with my leg was that I hit the bottom of a reado arena to hard in the spring of '85, L was in 29 pices below the knee. Brenda put me back on a horse 9 weeks later, I haven't rode since.

Riding bare back is fine if you use plenty of SPF 50!

Goldie didn't like Brenda, who was raised with a Quater horse. Brenda wasn't safe around her until Eric came along.

Uncle Bill

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Jennifer,

Ride'em Cowgirl!  Maybe if you started throwing sheep and various and assorted adult beverages around on Facebook again, we could get bring back the good old times.

While I'm too busy these days for another gunfight at the O.K. Corral, I understand and share with you in the AR nostalgia.

6:45pm • #17
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Uncle Bill... I DID read your entire comment, but figured you for a betting man seeing as how you hail (until recently) from Vegas. Goldie sounds like a sweetie who put up with more than she should have!!

Brain... (yes, in honor of the old days... I did call you BRAIN!) I had planned to make reference to the Four Horsemen and a few other happenings in the "OK Corral". Wonder if they are feeling any wistfulness about those crazy days? Our old scuffles seem funny to us now :)) Bring out the firewater and let's see what happens with those esheep ;-0

7:11pm • #18
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I never was the cheerleading type, so no they won't go These boots were made for walking

7:13pm • #19
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Yeah! That's what I was wondering too My Sandra! Call her and get her back! I miss her :)

7:17pm • #21
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I miss her too! I don't even see "Loveseat" anymore...lol

7:24pm • #22
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My Sandra... Is that perhaps because he hails by a different name these days? Oops... gotta run... and reply to your text ;-)

7:27pm • #23
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Jennifer... I agree 100%   Once any new frontier is over-ridden with rules of the whining holier than thou crowd it becomes a mediocore forum.  Many of us fondly recall the good ol' days and will always have a soft spot for ActiveRain but we can never really return to the Glory Days.

I think Sara Washburn summed it up best in her comment on February 15. 2008.  Twitter is where I saw your posting that led me here...

8:20pm • #24
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I do believe that the introduction of a new sheriff has caused folks to pull back a bit and play the 'wait and see' game.  Of course ... some folks are crouched behind big rocks trying to figure out if they should surrender now or wait. 

As for me?  I ain't giving up!  I'm still pannin' for gold, watching each new sunrise and refusing to fear those tumbleweeds!

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Jennifer,
Where is Susie Blackmon?  She is always looking for a cowboy!  If you haven't read her here on AR, go find her--she's a hoot (and excellent photographer!)

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Oh how true this is now, my dear Jen... Flatfooted we trudge, missing us and them, free-falling, geedy... If I joined now, i doubt i'd stick around much:-(

PS: Bryant said boobies - that was cool:-)

9:13am • #27

Well, I just hope thing don't break down to a Spaghetti Western in your AR world...

Love the post Jennifer, yes, I agree. Jason surely needs to put his shirt on...

Maybe the one with him shirtless on it...

Shane M. Risher
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@ Risher - You know you love me shirtless:)

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Dano... You may be right. I was just commenting to someone from the old days how when left to our own devices, we took the forum in unique and clever directions and carved a niche that was engaging, communal and educational. Too many sticks began poking and prodding only to blunt the natural artistry of the community. It's a crying shame.

Carol... WHAT new sheriff? I see these cryptic references and feel positively out of the know... Fess up already!!

Cynthia... I don't know where she is, but I am aware of her hankerin' for her own cowboy. I found mine here, so maybe she can rope one of her own as well!

My Inna... Me either. Boobies boobies boobies boobies and more boobies ;-)

Shane... It already has, which is kinda the point of this rant. A rant with a soundtrack :)

Jason... He just can't get enough...

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Jen, I am one of the faders, I admit it.  I am in awe of all the folks that always something new and wonderful to share, but I must admit that I have been so busy with RE that I a spent.  I think I am out of words or at least out of energy.  Not complaining, blessed to be busy, just don't have it in me when I have been getting home late as of late.  However, I will be in Philadelphia next week at REBCPHL and hope you and your betrothed are there.  Miss you.

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Beautifully written, as always.  But I see the faces, now and again.  Maybe not the all night hijackings, but there is still the laughter and the camaraderie.  And, you gotta love a man who says boobies!

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I have not been on AR long enough to be considered an original "Cowboy" but I did fall off a horse once completely sober.

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A lot of what originally drew me to AR is now gone, however, I still like it here. It does seem at least to me however that much of the spice is gone.

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Hey Audrey! Nice to see you here, even if you're only dropping in for a drink :) Jason and I had hoped to make it to Philly, but I may need to be in NYC that day, so it's not looking likely. We have been talking about hosting an AR gathering this summer though, and if we do, I'll be sure to give you a call so you won't miss hearing about it. Until next time, BIG HUG to you and I hope you continue to be blessed with lots of biz!

My Susan... The hijackings were a blast, but they eventually became a bit forced. I admit we do still have some great people here and I've met some true friends for life. And then Jason, what can I say? This place literally changed my life. I'm just whining a little because I miss the freshness this forum once had. MWA!

Cameron... You actually made me smile with that! Somehow I can just picture it and it's the kind of silliness I've been missing here. Fortunately, I now have it 24/7 in my own home ;-)

JL... How can we bring back the spice? After all, Madonna has done a splendid job of continually reinventing her act. We have some terrific personalities here, we should be able to think of something. Ideas??

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I wish you could see my computer and my right side. I have so many old cowboys on the bottom half. They are still there, I hate to delete them as they may come over the mountain again and I would't want to miss it.

As they have gone on to other pasture, I have met more. Nothing stays the same, and I still connect with them at conferences, facebook and Twitter.

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Missy... Funny you should say that because my 'right bottom half' looks exactly the same! (must be our age, eh?) Now and then I email someone just to be sure all is going well in their world and to let them know they are missed :) Because so many certainly are!

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Jennifer I haven't seen any cowboys lately but the last one left his boots behind.

Now here are some boots that are made for walking

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Jennifer,  I am not able to visit AR as often as I could before but I do sometimes feel the same loss of the sense of community and family we had two years ago.  Of course, back then we had probably less than one third the membership so it was easy to feel like we knew most everyone who was actively writing.  Now when I go to the home page I am lucky if I recognize even a few of the featured bloggers.  Such is the result of growth and the fact that many of us have gotten so busy because our blogging has brought us business!  I have been wondering how you have adapted your real estate business to your new community?  I created the Newbies Again Group when I was still learning how to deal with alll the the changes.  It did take me a couple of years to gain the knowledge and local expertise to feel confident.  I'll bet you are already doing well!

7:38am • #40
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Charles... Those boots are perfect! You know what they say about the size of a man's shoes ;-) Scarcely have one of my posts come and gone without at least one pair of shoes in the comments. Around here, shoes are the shit!

Diane... Agreed on all counts. It was an era that most of us will never forget. If you think about it, it's an amazing thing to be so connected to those in our profession from all over this continent. I have learned so much here. I have thought of you though, knowing that you've been through the process of changing to a new market and if anyone would know how to guide me, it would be you. We should be in touch offline. I miss you :)

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Hi Jen:

I agree with you. Thank you for coming out and saying what was on my mind.

I have wondered if blogging has a life cycle or something. Or if the large size of the community has changed things around.

Something is just missing. I don't know what it is. But at least now I know I am not imagining things.

3:22pm • #42
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Hiya Janet... No honey, you haven't had too many glasses of wine. (Is there such a thing??) As with all things in perpetual motion, the flames have died out. But who is to say we won't have another ignition? To be honest, I am sticking around for just such an event :)

MWA!!

9:09pm • #43
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Does Mr. Sardi agree with us? His blogging seems to have changed.

6:31pm • #44
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Janet... In what way has it changed? He does agree with us, but he is also one of those who believes in being part of the solution. Which is why he'srarely dull :)

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Well for Heavens sake! I have been so busy that I missed the new posts by my favorite blogger here at Active Rain. Stopping by your blog is like having dessert, make mine a nice slice of pie! I love the tune you chose for accompaniment and it's certainly perfect for your statement that "We saddled up and settled in and found our storytelling voice." Willie is a true story teller and incredibly modest and funny too! Anyone who has ever met him even in passing would agree! Here is a little homage to cowboys for you...

Cowboy Song

...before I mosey along and head up to your newest post. I hope you and your beloved are doing well!

 

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