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Memorial Day & Memorial Day Weekend - What does it mean to you?

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- How many of us truly know what Memorial Day is and what it stands for?  Besides that extra day off, that many of us celebrate it with friends and family. Do you know that today is a day to honor all of those men and women that died while serving in the military. It's not suppose to be a day to honor those men and women that now serve us, but those that gave their lives for us to enjoy the freedom that we have today, as Americans.

Memorial Day was first known as Decoration Day and is celebrated on the last Monday of May each year. It's a day for those to go around to the cemeteries to decorate the graves of those that fought and died for our country. One of the traditonal ways to observe this time is a national moment of remembrance that takes place at 3 pm on Memorial Day. Another tradition is to fly the flag of the United States at half staff from dawn until noon. For more information on this great day, Memorial Day, please read : Memorial Day  (the picture and some of the information supplied is from Wikipedia)

 

 

I was watching the news last night, which I hardly do anymore for several reasons. But they had interviewed this gentleman, Tom Day, who is a retired military officer who started Bugles Across America. What touched my heart the most while watching this interview is that this is a person that feels that our Veterans that died in the military should deserve a live rendition of taps played by a live bugler. What is intriguing about this is that Congress passed legislation stating that Veterans had the right to at least two uniformed military people to fold the flag and play taps on a CD player. Mr. Day wanted to take this a step further.

 

 

Overall, this touched me on several issues and I wanted to spread this message to others. My grandfather, James Quinn, fought in World War II and passed away on May 30th, 2003. We had a very nice service for him and even had the bagpipes there. But at the very end, the two in uniform that were there on behalf of the military, had a problem folding the flag. And I was asked to help if I had an idea on how to tuck the end of the flag in, because I had served in the U.S. Army from '86 to '88. At one time, we actually had a quick class on how to tuck the flag of the United States, so I was honored to help. But I commend Tom Day and his organization, to make sure that the men and women who died so courageously for our freedom, that they get the real thing. If anyone has ever been to a funeral to where there is real live taps being played in the background, it sends shivers down your spine. At least it does for me whenever I hear this. And to think that we can just make a small effort in making sure that this is real, for those that died while serving our country, I think it is the least that we can do.

 

Now, Mr. Day does ask for donations on his site. I know in a struggling economy, this might not be easy. But they also look for volunteers that could actually play Taps on the bugle or a few other instruments while doing the same. His organization now has more than 5,000 buglers that can volunteer acros the Untied States. For more information on this and information that he displays on his site, please go to : Bugles Across America

 

 

Part of my passion in writing this was because not only was I inspired to write about this because of Tom Day's desire to give Veteran's a proper and honorable burial, but that I was inspired after reading Missy Caulk's post, What are you talking about around the picnic table. Something that I think many of us don't do as often as we should do. And keeping in mind that this is not Veteran's Day, which is a day to honor and thank all those men and women who served in the military, those living, who died, or those on active duty. Please just keep the focus here and honor all those that died for our country.  

 

 

 

 

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Sally Dunbar
Lyon Real Estate, Fair Oaks CA (Sacramento Area) - Fair Oaks, CA
Fair Oaks Realtor - Fair Oaks Homes for Sale

Jeff - For me today has been a day of tears, at the moving tributes I have read.  From Michael Thornton's moving He 's Not Heavy, to the wonderful messages left by veteran's within active rain.  I don't know that I could handle listening to Taps now.

May 25, 2009 04:57 AM
Cindy Jones
Integrity Real Estate Group - Woodbridge, VA
Pentagon, Fort Belvoir & Quantico Real Estate News

Jeff-it means a lot to me and certainly to millions of others who have lost a loved one in the line of duty.  It is heartwarming to read the stories on AR from those who have served and those who have families still serving.  I think it proves that we are all Proud to Be American's.

May 25, 2009 05:47 AM
Steven Simmons and Marti Schmidt
John L Scott Ocean Shores - Ocean Shores, WA
Ocean Shores Real Estate www.theoceaniscalling.com

Proud to be American.  Steven and Marti

May 25, 2009 05:57 AM
Jeff Belonger
Social Media - Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc - Cherry Hill, NJ
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SALLY..... I didn't get to read Michael Thorton's blog post yet. I did see that you mentioned this in your blog. And I shedded some tears just watching this interview, hearing the passion that Mr. Day had in his voice and how we need to show our respect to those that lost their lives for our freedom.  thanks

CINDY... . I love hearing and reading those same stories. And it is great read so many here on AR. And I think so many of us are proud to be an American. It just kills me on the few that seem not to care, thinking that it's their right to talk negative about those that gave their lives up, sacrificed a way of life, just for us to have that freedom.  thanks

STEVE & MARTI.....  In all honesty, as sad as this may sound, but I think there is more importance on the fact that I am Proud to be an American because I served in the Army. And because I see and hear so many people burn the flag and abuse their freedom of speech... saying that we should not be in a war, etc, etc.  Well, then we should put all of those people in one state and not protect that state. Let's see what they have to say on that, when they get attacked then... and lose loved ones. It might sound cruel, but I am getting tired of it... those that think freedom of speech is turning their backs on the very same people that give them that right. Can you tell that this ticks me off?  lol  thanks for the comment.

 

May 25, 2009 06:07 AM
Jamie Dumaine-Russell
RE/MAX Alliance - Branford, CT

Jeff - Thank you so much for writing this post.  I too watched that interview last night with Tom Day and it brought to me tears at the dedication and commitment he has to make sure that a live rendition of taps should be played at the funerals of our fallen heroes.  When he spoke about how fe felt when the familes come up to him afterwards with their thanks, hugs and kisses and that there was no amount of money that could take the place of how he felt at those moments brought me to tears. 

I was going to write a post myself today about this but since you have done such of wonderful job of giving Tom Day and his Buglers Across America the recognition they deserve in keeping this time-honored tradition alive I will be reblogging your post.  God Bless America!

May 25, 2009 06:28 AM
William J. Archambault, Jr.
The Real Estate Investment Institute - Houston, TX

Well said Jeff!

Bill

May 25, 2009 07:10 AM
Sheldon Neal
Bergen County, NJ - RE/MAX Real Estate Limited - Maywood, NJ
That British Agent Bergen County NJ

... a very moving post for a very moving day.

I like the push that much of the media has given today to promote the true meaning of today.

I went to my neighborhood Memorial Day ceremony this morning, and acknowledged the moment of silence around the country at 3pm, and while reading posts like this, I will continue to remember thoughout the day, the importance of what today means.

Nicely done Jeff.

May 25, 2009 07:14 AM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Jeff, very moving post. I didn't see that interview, but will check it out on the web. Playing taps with a real bugle, seems like the least we could do.

Thank you for putting this up for those who didn't see it last nite.

May 25, 2009 10:29 AM
Erik Hitzelberger
RE/MAX Alliance - Louisville REALTOR-Luxury Homes - Louisville, KY
Louisville - Middletown Real Estate

Jeff - Your post and Mr. Day's cause serve as an excellent reminder of how we sometimes take for granted how we enjoy the freedoms we do.  Having a live rendition of Taps is such a simple thing to ask for someone who gave his or her life. 

May 25, 2009 04:25 PM
Missy Caulk
Missy Caulk TEAM - Ann Arbor, MI
Savvy Realtor - Ann Arbor Real Estate

Jeff, what a great idea. When Mike's dad passed a few years ago. We had the local VA come and play TAPS at the grave site. He was in WWll.

It was such a great ending and I know he would have loved it. They also handed the flag to Mike being the oldest son.

May 26, 2009 12:47 AM