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Bloggers-Keeping the Art of Story Telling Alive

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Real Estate Agent with Integrity Real Estate Group

Keeping the Art of StoryTelling AliveGrowing up we were fortunate to have grandparents who enjoyed telling stories about their lives.  We learned about the Native Americans who used to camp at my grandparents farm in the Kickapoo Valley in Wisconsin and about losing your business during the depression in a small town in northeast Arkansas.  

Some of the stories we heard were second and third generation stories about relatives we would never have the chance to meet and of course there were the stories about our parents antics that they wish had been kept buried in the family vaults.  But the great part was that not only was family history being passed to another generation but we also learned about the changes in the towns where they grew up and how the conveniences we take for granted didn't even exist then.

Today bloggers are becoming the next generation of storytellers.  Sharing stories about their business, neighborhoods and experiences for customers or other agents to learn from.   We aren't sitting around the dinner table with our family but around our keyboards connecting with thousands of people, some who may never meet us in person and some who will call us because of the stories we tell.  Just as our grandparents and parents told stories of life in their area so do bloggers. 

Customers and other agents are drawn to our blogs for different reasons.  There was always the relative sitting around the table that didn't have time for all the nonsense and just wanted to know the exact time that the sun was scheduled to rise.  They usually pushed themselves back from the table as soon as the stories started and retreated to another room.  The same is true for anyone reading our blogs.  If what we say doesn't appeal to them then they can move on to the next post.  No one forces them to stay around and read what we have written.

However there are those who do stick around.  They read and enjoy the stories we share. They may sometimes think we are the crazy Aunt who shouldn't be let out in public but they know who we are and they like us anyway.   They are the ones who are going to call us to help them buy or sell a house, they are the ones who are going to call us to meet for lunch or send us a referral. 

So I'm going to keep the storytelling tradition going by passing along some of the little stories about the neighborhoods I grew up in or my experience moving around the world as a military spouse.  Hopefully  other bloggers will continue to do the same so that we keep the history of our areas alive, help answer  questions that a new agent may have or share personal experiences that creates a connection.  Now about that fish that got away!

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Comments(74)

Cindy Jones
Integrity Real Estate Group - Woodbridge, VA
Pentagon, Fort Belvoir & Quantico Real Estate News

Mike-I look forward to reading what you write!

May 27, 2009 08:12 PM
Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
Real Estate Broker Retired

You bring up a good point about the story telling aspect. With the 140 word Twitter stuff, I am seeing less and less 'good story telling' to fit into that short layout.  It's choppy and disjointed thinking just for folks who only have 3 seconds of their attention to spend on any thought.  You keep it up, your a good story teller.

May 28, 2009 12:38 AM
Sally Dunbar
Lyon Real Estate, Fair Oaks CA (Sacramento Area) - Fair Oaks, CA
Fair Oaks Realtor - Fair Oaks Homes for Sale

Cindy I love this post.  It is so true about  my experience here at Active Rain.  While it would be better for business to write about home prices, I LOVE telling stories.... I feel compelled to.  I hadn't thought about it this way, but you have shed a new light on why we like to follow some bloggers... it's like we're sitting on their knee, listening, going "aw come on... just one more story".  Love it.

In fact, I have stories about growing up on my Grandfather's farm in Bothell, WA, and you've inspired me to write some and post them to a Washington group, if there is one.

May 28, 2009 12:54 AM
TERRY DRISCOLL
MAINE HOME REALTY - Bath, ME
REALTOR - Buy or Sell in Any Season!

Cindy,

What a wonderful way to look at blogging. With the addition of our photos next to our comments, I get the feeling even more that I know all of you!  It IS just like having conversation around the dinner table or the campfire.  Love your writing.

May 28, 2009 01:16 AM
Joe Pryor
The Virtual Real Estate Team - Oklahoma City, OK
REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties

This is a much needed remoinder. Often we want to blog like Nobel Prize winners in economics which isn't us. Out stories are us. Share a piece of history and our place in it. Loved your post.

May 28, 2009 01:23 AM
Home Loan Search.Online
Home Loan Search Online - Newnan, GA

It will be interesting to see how blogs are passed on. Does that mean linking, reblogging, or sending others to the original source. I remember stories that my grandfather told me that he heard when he was a boy.

May 28, 2009 06:06 AM
Dan Magstadt
Paramount Residential Mortgage Group, Inc - Lake City, FL

I do enjoy the stories told through blogs...it's a much more enjoyable read than just a bunch of information dumped on a post.

May 28, 2009 09:32 AM
Todd Clark - Retired
eXp Realty LLC - Tigard, OR
Principle Broker Oregon

And with every post we become better story tellers, just as when we were kids, the more we read the better readers we became. We learn to write the story and draw the reader in. Some are just naturals, but others learn along the way, but either way we all grow.

Todd Clark - www.LivingBeaverton.com

Jun 02, 2009 04:59 AM
Cindy Jones
Integrity Real Estate Group - Woodbridge, VA
Pentagon, Fort Belvoir & Quantico Real Estate News

Todd-I don't think I will ever be a natural but I do get a positive response to my posts.  Just signed a new listing agreement yesterday from someone who read one of my blog posts and called.  Also have a new referal buyer from someone who reads my blog. 

Jun 02, 2009 12:27 PM
Scott Larson
First Weber Hedeman Group - Monroe, WI
SRES

Thanks for the great blog, I need to find my niche to the market of blogging. Keep up the good work

Scott

Jun 12, 2009 07:05 AM
Cindy Jones
Integrity Real Estate Group - Woodbridge, VA
Pentagon, Fort Belvoir & Quantico Real Estate News

Soctt thanks for stopping by.  I looked at your profile and see one of the areas you cover is New Glarus.  Here is a long time ago story....I bought the material for my wedding dress in a shop in New Glarus.  We were visiting some of my mother's family in the area and stopped by a shop and picked up some beautiful material that mom made into my dress for my wedding a few months later.

Jun 12, 2009 07:29 AM
Carmella Hustoft
Keller Williams Western Realty - Ferndale, WA
Washington Realtor

Your perspective on blogging has encouraged me to keep on writing!

Jul 14, 2009 06:27 PM
Nancy Conner
Olympia, WA
Olympia/Thurston County WA

I love your perspective linking blogging to storytelling -  I know one of the things I love about reading things on the Rain is how many members are willing to be very "real" and share a glimpse of their true, authentic selves thru their stories.  And it also made me flash on the memory of the made-up stories my father told my siblings & me about a gopher family with sisters Gertrude & Hepsibah!

Jul 23, 2009 02:54 PM
Cindy Jones
Integrity Real Estate Group - Woodbridge, VA
Pentagon, Fort Belvoir & Quantico Real Estate News

Nancy-storytelling can be a lot of fun.  Whether it is our personal experience and knowledge of our area or a made up gopher family that keeps children waiting for the next chapter.

Jul 23, 2009 11:25 PM
Barbara Raley
The McNelis Group,LLC - Solomons, MD
When you think of Real Estate, think of me!

Cindy, Story telling was also very big in my family,especially at Thanksgiving,Christmas and Easter when all the relatives would get together and tell stories. Of course they always started out with"when I was a child". Now I have children and at these holidays I find myself saying "when I was a child" Thanks so much for sharing. Barbara

Jul 25, 2009 03:22 AM
Cindy Jones
Integrity Real Estate Group - Woodbridge, VA
Pentagon, Fort Belvoir & Quantico Real Estate News

Barbara-my kids used to tell me my stories, especially the ones I made up, were "just crazy talk."  Guess who is now embleshing those stories and telling them to their kids!

Jul 25, 2009 03:50 AM
Carol Judd
New Star Real Estate - Vernal, UT
Vernal Utah Real Estate

One of my grandchildrens and childrens even favorite things is to listen to stories of when we were little.  I think they get a kick out of imagining us as little.  We do have some crazy stories when we start thinking back.

Sep 17, 2009 07:46 AM
Dan Edwards 425-276-7008
Keller Williams Realty - Bellevue - Bellevue, WA

Great blog, I couldn't agree with you more.  I have been working on my storytelling skills in Toastmasters and I am looking forward to doing so with my blog posts.

Nov 09, 2009 02:46 AM
Cindy Jones
Integrity Real Estate Group - Woodbridge, VA
Pentagon, Fort Belvoir & Quantico Real Estate News

Carol-I can remember thinking my mom was never a "child" and then when I became a grandmother I got it.

Nov 09, 2009 04:52 AM
Cindy Jones
Integrity Real Estate Group - Woodbridge, VA
Pentagon, Fort Belvoir & Quantico Real Estate News

Dan-Toastmasters is a great way to gain confidence in your speaking ability.  Look forward to reading your posts.

Nov 09, 2009 04:53 AM