Growing up we were fortunate to have grandparents who enjoyed telling stories about their lives. We learned about the Native Americans who used to camp at my grandparents farm in the Kickapoo Valley in Wisconsin and about losing your business during the depression in a small town in northeast Arkansas.
Some of the stories we heard were second and third generation stories about relatives we would never have the chance to meet and of course there were the stories about our parents antics that they wish had been kept buried in the family vaults. But the great part was that not only was family history being passed to another generation but we also learned about the changes in the towns where they grew up and how the conveniences we take for granted didn't even exist then.
Today bloggers are becoming the next generation of storytellers. Sharing stories about their business, neighborhoods and experiences for customers or other agents to learn from. We aren't sitting around the dinner table with our family but around our keyboards connecting with thousands of people, some who may never meet us in person and some who will call us because of the stories we tell. Just as our grandparents and parents told stories of life in their area so do bloggers.
Customers and other agents are drawn to our blogs for different reasons. There was always the relative sitting around the table that didn't have time for all the nonsense and just wanted to know the exact time that the sun was scheduled to rise. They usually pushed themselves back from the table as soon as the stories started and retreated to another room. The same is true for anyone reading our blogs. If what we say doesn't appeal to them then they can move on to the next post. No one forces them to stay around and read what we have written.
However there are those who do stick around. They read and enjoy the stories we share. They may sometimes think we are the crazy Aunt who shouldn't be let out in public but they know who we are and they like us anyway. They are the ones who are going to call us to help them buy or sell a house, they are the ones who are going to call us to meet for lunch or send us a referral.
So I'm going to keep the storytelling tradition going by passing along some of the little stories about the neighborhoods I grew up in or my experience moving around the world as a military spouse. Hopefully other bloggers will continue to do the same so that we keep the history of our areas alive, help answer questions that a new agent may have or share personal experiences that creates a connection. Now about that fish that got away!
You bring up a good point about the story telling aspect. With the 140 word Twitter stuff, I am seeing less and less 'good story telling' to fit into that short layout. It's choppy and disjointed thinking just for folks who only have 3 seconds of their attention to spend on any thought. You keep it up, your a good story teller.
Cindy I love this post. It is so true about my experience here at Active Rain. While it would be better for business to write about home prices, I LOVE telling stories.... I feel compelled to. I hadn't thought about it this way, but you have shed a new light on why we like to follow some bloggers... it's like we're sitting on their knee, listening, going "aw come on... just one more story". Love it.
In fact, I have stories about growing up on my Grandfather's farm in Bothell, WA, and you've inspired me to write some and post them to a Washington group, if there is one.
Cindy,
What a wonderful way to look at blogging. With the addition of our photos next to our comments, I get the feeling even more that I know all of you! It IS just like having conversation around the dinner table or the campfire. Love your writing.
This is a much needed remoinder. Often we want to blog like Nobel Prize winners in economics which isn't us. Out stories are us. Share a piece of history and our place in it. Loved your post.
It will be interesting to see how blogs are passed on. Does that mean linking, reblogging, or sending others to the original source. I remember stories that my grandfather told me that he heard when he was a boy.
I do enjoy the stories told through blogs...it's a much more enjoyable read than just a bunch of information dumped on a post.
And with every post we become better story tellers, just as when we were kids, the more we read the better readers we became. We learn to write the story and draw the reader in. Some are just naturals, but others learn along the way, but either way we all grow.
Todd-I don't think I will ever be a natural but I do get a positive response to my posts. Just signed a new listing agreement yesterday from someone who read one of my blog posts and called. Also have a new referal buyer from someone who reads my blog.
Thanks for the great blog, I need to find my niche to the market of blogging. Keep up the good work
Scott
Soctt thanks for stopping by. I looked at your profile and see one of the areas you cover is New Glarus. Here is a long time ago story....I bought the material for my wedding dress in a shop in New Glarus. We were visiting some of my mother's family in the area and stopped by a shop and picked up some beautiful material that mom made into my dress for my wedding a few months later.
I love your perspective linking blogging to storytelling - I know one of the things I love about reading things on the Rain is how many members are willing to be very "real" and share a glimpse of their true, authentic selves thru their stories. And it also made me flash on the memory of the made-up stories my father told my siblings & me about a gopher family with sisters Gertrude & Hepsibah!
Nancy-storytelling can be a lot of fun. Whether it is our personal experience and knowledge of our area or a made up gopher family that keeps children waiting for the next chapter.
Cindy, Story telling was also very big in my family,especially at Thanksgiving,Christmas and Easter when all the relatives would get together and tell stories. Of course they always started out with"when I was a child". Now I have children and at these holidays I find myself saying "when I was a child" Thanks so much for sharing. Barbara
Barbara-my kids used to tell me my stories, especially the ones I made up, were "just crazy talk." Guess who is now embleshing those stories and telling them to their kids!
One of my grandchildrens and childrens even favorite things is to listen to stories of when we were little. I think they get a kick out of imagining us as little. We do have some crazy stories when we start thinking back.
Great blog, I couldn't agree with you more. I have been working on my storytelling skills in Toastmasters and I am looking forward to doing so with my blog posts.
Carol-I can remember thinking my mom was never a "child" and then when I became a grandmother I got it.
Dan-Toastmasters is a great way to gain confidence in your speaking ability. Look forward to reading your posts.
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