exercise"Do The Hard Thing"...These are the words echoed by my son's high school football coach.  When faced with choices in life the hard one is typically the right one.  I started to think of how many ways this was true.

Eating healthy:  Boy, this is a hard thing; especially when it is more expensive, and it takes more effort.  Thinking about parties and the availability of food that is not so good for us, doesn't it seem like it is always there? But eating healthy keeps us thin and lean...better in the long run.  The easy choice is eating poorly...well, you know how this will end.

Exercise: Oh, this is a tough one for me. I resist and find excuses.  It is hard and uncomfortable but when I make the choice to get up and do it instead of laying in bed (easy) with the covers over my head, I feel SO MUCH better! My body thanks me too!

parentingParenting: I have been faced with tough choices as a parent; who hasn't?  We have to say, "NO".  Isn't easier to just say, "Yes"?  They become teenagers and sometimes start finding trouble or lacking accountability.  What do you do?

Easy: Stick your head in the sand, make excuses or pretend it will go away. 

Hard: Take a stand, hold them accountable, deliver consequences for their actions and keep them on the straight and narrow...even if they hate you for a while. This is probably the hardest of all.

Career: Sure, it is easy to get into an industry on the upswing.  Real Estate for example; it was EASY for so many a few years back. Get your license, sell a house.  Not to shabby.  But what about getting into an industry (or any job right now) on the down turn? Oh so tough but if done right, you will be SO much smarter and better for it. You will learn to do things the right way and have a better appreciation and will be well prepared for when things turn around.career

The list goes on and on and I am sure you could add so many things to it!

I was recently faced with a choice.  It was a tough one.  I thought long and hard about it and ultimately decided to make the change from RE/MAX to Prudential California Realty.  You may be surprised to hear this; I mean I am surprised! I wasn't looking to change!

It came to me quite by accident. Nothing was wrong at RE/MAX. I worked in a really nice office, made some fewR friends. I had done well in the past year and it was so easy and fun to be there. I mean it is a block from my house and I felt right at home!

Aha, it was easy.  Prudential is going to be hard. I am going to be challenged, educated and held accountable.  The marketing and support are second to none.  Though taking the leap is extremely difficult and heartbreaking I believe it will be the place for me to grow and ultimately better serve my buyers and sellers.  It is the hard thing. But I believe it will be the best thing....for me. 

The pressure is on, but I think I am up for the challenge.  To Ron, Tina and the gang at RE/MAX, thank you for everything!  I will miss you so much but of course, we will be seeing each other!

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wow - really?  Don't be worried or scared - you will thrive and I know you are up for the challenge!

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Wow.  I can't believe in Cristal!  Well, you need to do what's best for you girl!  Good luck!  Kristin

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Awesome. You have to do what is right for you. Be comfy and enjoy your career. Every so often I think about leaving, but then my friends get me all fired up or I start having a blast with my clients and I stick around for a little more slow market torture (LOL). My stress relief comes in the form of being a gym rat or doing turtle runs to collect eye candy. Geez, I have at least ten of those to post. I need a vacation (LOL). :-)

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I am sure you are going to do great!  Great opportunities are like that.....sometimes they sneak up on you when you least expect it.

I hope you love it!

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Good luck at Prudential. I agree with your tips. Good post.

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The right choices are not always easy but they are in the long run the best for ya.  Good luck ma'am.

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Crystal, I don't for a minute believe it came to you by "accident" -- I think it came for a reason and am thrilled to hear you decided to take on a new challange.  I bet you're going to love it and be very successful there!

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Thanks for all the support everyone! I have made some great friends in the rain from all different companies and professions!  I am lucky and thanks so much!

All you RE/MAX Peeps are still going to be my friends, right? :o)

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Crystal - How cool. I just started on a weight reduction program. Thanks, it is hard to change old habits... Your building consultant for life in Nashville, TN
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Cristal - I have tried to get in the exercise habit for years and am just now getting it. Changing companies is another thing alltogether. Good luck to you!

5:16pm • #10
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Good luck and great post.

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Crystal - So I'm exercising every day, well, walking a couple miles. And I don't get to eat as much meat as I want. This was hard to start but as time goes on it is becoming an easier practice.  (I still occasionally cheat)

On a parallel note: We opened our own Brokerage Last year - in a down market.

Good for you and the moxie you exhibited to step forward. May your business flourish. Fine Post !

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Cristal - Wow, your post threw a curve ball in the end, but it was to the point !  You are right, so often in live "doing the hard thing" is the best thing.  Great examples and great illustrations.  And a great personal example as part of your career.  Congrats on your decision !  I am sure it will be the right one.  And yes, all of your RE/MAX peeps (including us) will still ove and support you !  Keep us posted on how the transition goes !  Rock on : )   ~ Chris

 

8:47am • #13
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 Cristal, do you know who this is? Hhmmm?? I'll tell you Benedict Arnold, that's who!! Geez, you think you know somebody and then they leave.  Well, at least I've still got Tina and Ed to torture oh and Vu.  Well I guess I should have saw this coming, but now it's too late and all I can say is;que sera sera

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Thanks guys! Dwight, don't be mad! It wasn't pesonal!

11:09pm • #15
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...boy my cubicle has been quiet these last couple of weeks... something is different around here....

;P

 

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