I'm sure somewhere down the line we have all felt like using this statement from time to time. Whether it's the self proclaimed genius that feels the necessity to point out how they would handle the delicate situation at hand, or the self righteous moron that thinks it's a good idea to point out the obvious. We live in a civilized society, and that's the only way I explain the existence of many of these people, because it's illegal for the rest of us to choke them to death so we can release the rage that they induce.

 However, that's not exactly why I am writing this post. I am writing this post to discuss those that are all too quick to disregard advice from others. Sometimes we are too close to a situation to see clearly and the advice, thoughts, and opinions of those who are not involved can be an invaluable source of information. But, you have to be willing to listen to what others have to say.

 Don't always assume that you know what's best, remember there are a lot of people out there who have been in your shoes before. Many of these people know the ends and outs of your job, your situation, and what you are trying to accomplish. They have been there and done that and some of them are even nice enough to share their experiences with you so you don't have to make the same mistakes that they once made. But again, you have to be willing to listen to what they have to offer. The best way to learn is from the mistakes of others, that way you don't have to make them yourself.

 So, the next time someone starts to give you advice, think twice before you fly off the handle and assume that they are butting into your business. They may just be talking for the sake of tossing words out their mouths, but they may have something of great value to dispense upon you. There's no real harm in hearing them out to find out which way it will turn out. If it's of no use to you, then big deal, you can then run them off. However, if you run them off too soon you may miss out on an opportunity to improve yourself. And all you had to do was shut up and listen!

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