Motivational Power Quote

 

Do People Like Themselves When They're With Us?

 

"To a large degree,

our success and happiness in life

depends on how much people like

themselves when they're with us."

Joe Caruso, transformation thinker

   

As I see it. . . . . . . .

Do people like themselves when they're with us?  

The level that a person likes themselves when they are with has an effect our success and happiness.  

Success and happiness is attracted to us through others.  

We attract success and happiness by our services rendered to others and the quality of our relationships with build and maintain.  

One of the most overlooked factors is how comfortable and how much to people like themselves when they are with us. 

When we nourish our relationship with others people feel good about themselves. 

The following is food to feed your relationship with others.  

Address them by name. 

Make it easy for them to feel comfortable around you.  

Show people respect for them and build rapport. 

Speak in terms of their interests. 

Find out what they want and show them a way to get it.  

See things through the eyes of the other person and their point of view. 

Focus your attention on them.  

Say what you're going to do, and then do it.  

The more people that are comfortable and like themselves when they are with you; the more success and happiness you'll attract.  

®2009, Lou Ludwig, Sales and Management Consulting, Executive Coaching, Speaker, Trainer and Author

  

  

  

 

 
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16 Comments on Do People Like Themselves When They’re With Us?

JUN
10
2009

Good stuff again Lou,

Tell me, do you have a library of this stuff-it's your schtick and it works.
8:17pm • #1
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Hi Terry

I have enjoyed motivational quotes for years and used them in management training.

I have an extenive library of books and quotes that I have collected

There have been times in my life that I used them for personal inspiration.

Thanks for you continued support.

Lou Ludwig
8:51pm • #2
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Great blog, Lou.

Great reminders as well.  If there is one thing I can't stand, is someone promising to do something, and then falling short, or not doing it at all.

I try to under-promise and over-deliver.

Thanks again.
9:12pm • #3
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Lou, great blog.  Some great pointers for all to learn from.
9:45pm • #4
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Intersting blog, it makes one think and it is somthing to look at and exam.
11:15pm • #5
JUN
11
2009
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Those are some great inspirational tidbits that speak volumes. :)
12:15am • #6
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That is a really insightful quote, one that I had not really heard before, but it makes a lot of sense.

What I take from it is that you want to have a positive impact on people.
7:51am • #7

Lou, thanks for sharing.  Everytime and read your blogs, I feel like there are no limits in life.
11:21am • #8
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Hi Sylvia

Outstanding insight thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Lou Ludwig
2:08pm • #9
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Hi Tim and Pam

Thanks for stopping by and your comments.

Lou Ludwig
2:09pm • #10
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Hi Montana

Thanks you for sharing your thoughts and commenting.

Lou Ludwig
2:10pm • #11
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Hi Celeste

Thank you for your comments and stopping by.

Lou Ludwig
2:11pm • #12
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Hi Mark

Your insight is right on target.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Lou Ludwig
2:12pm • #13
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Hi Xinh

The only limit that we have is what we place on ourselves. Be a no limit person.

Lou Ludwig
2:14pm • #14
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That can be reversed slightly, too. If I'm not too happy with the other person when I'm with the other person, it's likely that I'll drop that person from my contact list.
9:41pm • #15
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Hi Jim

There are people that make us uncomfortable, we can make a choice to continue the relationship or drop it, thanks for your thoughts.

Lou Ludwig
10:09pm • #16


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