Put yourself in a buyer's shoes: You're moving to a new area, and you've signed up with a half a dozen Realtor® property update services.  All of those Realtors send you about the same list of properties, and all of those Realtors appear to be reasonably knowledgeable about the market.  How are you going to choose which Realtor to work with?  When all Realtors send the same properties, and most of them appear to have the same level of competence, a very scientific process must ensue: Eenie, meenie, minie mo...  Unfortunately, that's how many buyers choose their Realtor.

15 years ago, before the days of IDX I used to copy and paste MLS information into an email (and snail-mail that same info to those that didn't have email), and getting new clients was like shooting fish in a barrel.  These days, just about every Realtor out there has a property-update feature on their website -- not to mention sites like Realtor.com, Zillow, Trulia, and buyers can get whatever information they need.  When nothing else differentiates you as a Realtor, you're left to the odds of "My mommy told me to pick the very best one, and you are not it" - 9 out of 10 times.

"No one cares how much you know until they know how much you care." This is why building actual relationships with your prospects (and showing that you care about them as a person) is so extremely important if you want to get their business.  In fact, when it comes to getting them to choose you over your dozens of competitors, it's probably more important than actual knowledge of your marketplace.  One of the most powerful things we enable our agents to do is talk to their prospects about things other than real estate, and one great way to do that is to keep track of who is moving from where.

Let's say you have a large database of prospects, and you happen to know what states those prospects are moving from.  When you see on the news that a category 4 or 5 hurricane is going to hit Louisiana, why not filter for those folks and send a quick email:"Hi <customer>, I see that a category 4 hurricane is likely to hit Louisiana tomorrow. I just wanted to send you a quick note to say that you and your friends & family in Louisiana are in my thoughts and prayers."

When the time comes for those folks to actually pick up and move, who do you think they're going to buy from? One of the agents who have been spewing out tons and tons of property updates with no interaction at all, or you - who actually took time to engage in conversations that allowed you to get to know them as individuals? Not only will you stand out from the crowd because you showed you care, but you'll build valuable friendships in the process.

With our IDX real estate prospecting system, we ask all new buyer prospects where they are moving from for this exact reason. Whether you get 10 leads a month from your system or 500, try adding a "where are you moving from?" field to your inquiry form. If you take advantage of knowing that information, I think you'll be pleasantly surprised -- not only at your increase in conversion rates, but at how much more pleasurable it will be to work with the clients who will naturally gravitate to you because they like you - not because you won the "eenie meenie minie mo" contest.

 
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Joel...  You hit the nail on the head.   It all comes down to one on one personal relationships.  Credibility and old fashioned caring (even after the sale) make all the difference in the world.

1:28pm • #1
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Joel is once again droppin knowledge!!

This is one of the reasons that I love technology and social media as much as I do...As my good friend @HeyAmaretto put it earlier, "there is only so long intelligence and expertise can be faked in a blog or microblog".

I knew my agent I worked with for my home purchase for 2 years...and I followed her for online the entire time without ever meeting her in person.  In fact, we didnt meet in person until she invited me to help teach a session on twitter here locally...and that was only 3 or 4 months ago.

Were I an agent, I would take full advantage of the technological advances (IDX, blogging, etc) to gain an advantage from the jump.  I would totally be the agent that sent the email to the people in the path of the hurricane.

Loved the post! Highly recommend both you and your service!!  Flagged it for a feature!!

1:36pm • #2
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Joel...concise, direct, firm, friendly, informative & necessary for anyone working in the "people" field. One would think that your topic would be included in classes called " How to Attract & Keep Clients for your Business Endeavors" Chapter 1--Sec. A.  Unfortunately, too many of us utilize tech. rather than the more time-costing one_on_one approach. Technology is fantastic, but the Personal touches can only enhance the Business experience.  Good job!
Barb & Sal

1:36pm • #3
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I agree.

Follow up and direct interaction is always necessary and goes hand in hand with "touching" the prospect first.

1:42pm • #4
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David - thanks for the compliment! And you're oh-so-right about remembering to keep in touch after the sale.  I have a hard time doing that, but make an effort at least a couple times a year.

Clint - I couldn't agree more. I've done tons of business based on Twitter referrals, and plan on continuing to do so.

Barb & Sal - Funny - this post was one of 10 points I make in a presentation called "Polishing Turds - 10 tips you can use to turn "worthless internet leads" into closings."

1:42pm • #5
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I think that in real estate, there is a lot to be said for finding one that knows a lot.  I have a lot of caring relatives that think they know real estate.  lol.

1:43pm • #6
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Ralph - the hard part is discipline and finding ways that you can "touch" enough people without eating up too much time.  It's those of us that master walking that fine line that will prosper.

Heath - Although I certainly agree that competence must be a factor in choosing, I can't tell you how many times I've won business based solely on my clients just plain liking me, and they just assumed I knew what I was doing.

1:47pm • #7
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This is truly Sales 101 and for some reason a majority of people in our industry think it's adequate to keep it all business and do "their job" and send a list of homes, with a possible follow up...did you get the list of homes I sent?  I always try connecting with my clients and finding that one thing we have in common, whether big or small.  You definitely hit the nail on the head, you have to make it personal and show that you care.  Great post, especially for those stuck in the "all business" robot mode.

1:57pm • #8
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Michelle - Agreed. Gone are the days when "did you get the list of homes I sent" is good enough followup (although making that call within the first few minutes is certainly a very good catalyst to the relationship building process.)  In fact my last post was about prompt followup.

2:50pm • #9
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GREAT INFO .. AND A GREAT LITTLE TIP for staying in touch

5:11pm • #10
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boy great title....so true! I see so many arrogant-sounding agents who don't sound like they CARE.

5:37pm • #11
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The adage "no one cares how much you know..... until you they know hoe much you care!"

I do believe this.

Patricia Aulson/ Portsmouth NH Real Estate

5:54pm • #12

The big problem with technology is the difficulty in establishing rapport without actually 'pressing the flesh.'  When asked why they bought ,for instance, car buyers usually say it is because they liked their salesman.  We could probably use more training in how to establish that personal relationship while using technology.  Joel's hurricane suggestion is a good place to start. 

6:05pm • #13
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This is all very true-- as with the way info is on line now, they can find a lot out about homes without talking to anyone -- let them get to KNOW you and it will make a difference -- our 2 cents.

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I agree that buildng a relationship is key and care and consideration matters when choosing from a seemingly indistinguishable bunch of realtors.

6:44pm • #15

Joel,

This was a great post - I agree completely that our business is a fine balance of knowledge and caring.  It is important to remind our past clients that we care too and staying in touch is key to keeping those relationships.

6:54pm • #16
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There's a fairly level playing field out there when it comes to access to listings. So, you have to do something ahead of time, so that they will choose you and not the competition.

Brian Madgan

6:58pm • #17
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Joel,

No matter what or how much technology comes into real estate it will always be a "High touch" business. I work with very affluent waterfront buyers and have built my business on relationships that outlast the closing. If I only sent information I believe I would have been out of business long ago.

6:59pm • #18
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Joel - My very first broker passed on the "nobody cares how much you know until they know how much you care" line to me very early in my mortgage career.  That one line has stuck with me now for nearly eight years and it's just as true now as it was then.

7:06pm • #19
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Joel - While I applaud the techology advances that have been made and the ease in which buyers can search for properties all over the internet, too many forget the value of what a personal phone call, handwritten note or face face meeting can make.  It's all about devloping that sense of trust and a warm relationship with new prospects and our valued past clients, family, friends and business alliances.

7:08pm • #20
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When you hold hands the relationship becomes solid. Buyers and sellers want to know that you do care and it takes a great Realtor to let them know that a true relationship is more than a flurry of mass e-mails.

Personalized and sincere care is key.

7:45pm • #21
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Joel - Great quote for sure regarding caring !  I think to a large extent consumers will choose an agent perhaps on their individual website or blog.  One's personality can come out in the virtual world that may engage a consumer. 

8:51pm • #22
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Great post.  I mightg add that caring should be genuine and not just an act.  People can see phony a mile away.  Also, I think really listening to the client makes them feel that what they have to say and their dreams are important.

8:51pm • #23
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Great idea! I always try to send personal emails once in a while, or call to see how they're doing. Like the idea of knowing which state they're moving from. thanks for the tip.

8:53pm • #24
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As others above have said, great post and accurate information.  If you personalize they will recognize...you as the agent for them...

Congrats on the gold star!

9:14pm • #25
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The tip is excellent... but the "no one cares how much you know until they know how much you care" quote is tired, trite and ready to leave the building.  There are plenty of agents out there that don't know CRAP but seem to care a lot... I get to clean up their messes.  There are a LOT of clients that don't care how much you care until they know how much you know...

9:27pm • #26
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Very true. They most often think you know a lot if you listen to them talk a lot-Dinah Lee

9:34pm • #27
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I don't totally agree with Lane and Dinah...listening and patience sometimes what is a customer needs at the moment...The selling situation has changed quite a bit...

Now...those that talk to me trust me...I let them talk, I ask the right questions...and I gain their trust.

10:14pm • #28
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Hi Joel~  Now that is one of the biggest challenges we face.  Your idea is great.  Thanks for sharing it with us!

10:33pm • #30

I'm glad I read this post today!  I've been thinking..whatever happened to so and so, how did this one slip through the cracks.  We do need to be more proactive in making in personal again, thanks for the reminder!

Brittany Stewart

10:37pm • #31

What can I say that all the others havent already said except... This is WISDOM! It seems so simple but it took you to think of it! Thank You for sharring!

10:37pm • #32
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Joel, It is all about building rapport, Thanks for tip of asking where they are coming from.

10:54pm • #33
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There are plenty of ways to demonstrate that we care for buyers who are interested in our particular markets. As you point out, anyone can set up automated emails of listings, and lots of buyers these days are pretty savvy about searching. It's the little things that count, by adding value, and showing that we are concerned about what they need and not just providing the information that every other agent can provide. Automation has it's purpose, but it is not the be-all end-all.

Jeff

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Not so sure about the care scenario now. I was pursuing an expired, to whom I delivered an awesome marketing plan (his words), then I didn't hear anything from him for weeks. I called and called, but did not receive a response. When I did get through, I found out that the gentleman's son was sick in the hospital. I told him to focus on his son first and that I would be praying for him (which I did), and he assured me that when he was ready, he would call me. I called back some weeks later to see how his son was doing, he told me that his son was doing much better, and I said "prayer does change things, and I'm glad your son is better." He told me that when he was ready, he's call me. That was 3 weeks ago. The other day, I was looking through the paper and saw the real estate transfers - with this man's name and address already sold. Was I sincere? Yes. Did that matter? Apparently not...

10:58pm • #36
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once can have the best IDX website, but with no actual follow up you really have nothing.

11:26pm • #37
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Joel - Obviously, you know that I firmly agree with you on all points here.  Nicely done!  I can also highly recommend your services to others.

11:42pm • #38
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That is a great post, and a great quote! That is the way to set yourself apart from the dozens of other web-faces. I love Active Rain for these vital reminders!!!

5:45am • #40

Before I am finishing the first paragraph in this post - I have the same words rolling thru my head - PICK UP THE PHONE AND CALL!!  The power of the Internet is GREAT, but it does not replace actually talking to someone.  THIS IS A PEOPLE BUSINESS. 

Statically, the client will buy thru the FIRST agent that actually TALKS to them - not who e-mails them the most.

Chuck

7:16am • #41

This is a great post. And it is more my style. I have made some great friends because of being in the real estate business. And those friends have introduced me to more.

7:33am • #42
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The REALTOR® who sold my last home has never followed up a single time since the close of the sale. And... I can't remember his name.

7:37am • #43

Joel ~ This was truly a great observation. Most Realtors are too interested in "picking the low hanging fruit" to take the time to learn a little about others. Thanks!

8:03am • #44
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Joel, I hear Jeff's comment all the time.

Follow up, keep them in your sphere, call them up, drop by, send a birthday card.

The IDX gets them to me, the rest is up to me to connect in a meaningful way.

8:04am • #45
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I am currently implementing a more sophisticated IDX to my sites. I agree with you on caring. I have had Stealth sites on Google for years, and it finally got to me when so many prospects said thank you so much for all your help, it was invaluable, and they bought a house through someone else. Once you get tired of doing the work for other Realtors without pay, it forces you back to the fundamentals of database management and relationship building. Technology can lead a horse to water, but it can't make them drink.

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Joel - follow up is the key to building relationships and actually getting the consumer to understand why they should use us as their Realtor.  So may agents forget to follow up as we get caught up easily in trying to grab what is right in front of us on that particular day.  Great reminder...thank you!

10:34am • #47

You got it Joel - You need to show the client that you care by your actions, not by how much information you throw at them.

12:42pm • #48
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Joel,

Thanks for the advice.  You're right the technology we have allows us to set and forget about clients looking for homes.

1:16pm • #49

Those are very good points, Joel.  I recall looking at homes in Kailua and the seller's agent recited  neighborhood info nonstop to my buyers who didn't give a darn about most of it.  Buyers want to know we care and that we're looking out for their best interests.

2:11pm • #50
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Joel, this sentence speaks volumes.

"No one cares how much you know until they know how much you care."

Isn't that the truth! Our service and genuineness is imperative to create and keep business. Thank you,

Deb

3:38pm • #51
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Joel - personal touches like hand written notes are invaluable. So is just being different. I think that may be how agents start using their videos to enhance what is being written in blogs and our websites.

3:42pm • #52
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Joel: Thank you. My favorite realtor related a story to me recently. She said she heard from a buyer 3 years after they first met. Here's the thing. She made a lasting impression on this customer that they remembered. No wonder she's so good and everyone wants to work with her!

4:02pm • #53
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Great post.  You definately want to stand out amongst the many.  I will be thinking of some ideas to do just that.

8:14pm • #54
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EXCELLENT!!!!! You have made some great points that should be a basic pattern for all agents,

8:27pm • #55
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I have the "People don't care..." slogan pasted on my vision board and I look at it daily. Thanks for the great post and congrats on the feature...

Your building consultant for life in Nashville, TN

3:49am • #56
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I sold a home to a buyer a few years ago who I still keep in touch with...as a matter of fact..I've listed and sold 4 of her homes and she bought two of them from me. At the closing for one of them...the listing agent showed...got his check and swooped out so fast that the sellers asked me his name. It ended up where I became friendly with the sellers and they ended up using me later on for another transaction..they called me because they remembered me...

7:11am • #57

Joel,

Great Post.  It is always about connecting with your clients.  To create the long term relationship, that will create referrals and multiple transactions over the years.

Thanks for sharing,

Matt Naumann

11:08am • #58

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