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Thank You Dad...

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Real Estate Agent with Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 UT DRE# 6541633-SA00

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Thank you Dad for loving my mother.

Thank you for marrying my mother even though she had 7 children, none of them your own. My step-father was 21 and my mother 31. They met and according to my mother, she only had "3 children". She was afraid that she would scare him away if she told him she had 7 children. He came to our house to meet the "3 children", the rest of us were in a back bedroom and we were told not to come out for any reason! We were curious and soon we started trailing out to get a look at this visitor...well, even after he met the rest of us, he decided to stay. They married and a year later, my little sister was born!

Thank you for taking us away from the poverty-stricken life we knew. We were living in Georgia at the time and we were desperately poor with no hope for improvement. We were called "white trash" by neighbors and strangers. The house we lived in had no drywall or insulation and you could see through the slats to the outside. The toilet was outside and we bathed in a metal washtub and we all slept in one bed.

Thank you for putting food on the table and convincing us that we would eat tomorrow as well. There were many times when we'd go hungry because we had no food and when we did have food we'd gorge ourselves.  We shopped at Goodwill and we often wore shoes with toilet paper shoved into the toes to make a better fit.

Thank you for loving each and every one of us and staying even when it became difficult to do so. I know it was hard for you to raise another man's children but you did it despite the lack of respect, the challenges and the hurt feelings when someone said "You aren't my father!"  You did your best and I am so very glad you stayed. I can't imagine my life without you.

 I love you Dad.

Happy Father's Day!

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Vickie Nagy
Coldwell Banker Residential Real Estate - Palm Springs, CA
Vickie Jean the Palm Springs Condo Queen

Wow! Your story brought tears to my eyes. What a wonderful man...and I thought my husband was the best step-father ever taking on 2 teenagers!

Jun 20, 2009 03:05 AM
Wanda Thomas
Montana Homestead Brokers, Broker, CRS, GRI, SFR, RN - Billings, MT
Billings Montana Real Estate

Hi Wanda,  nice tribute to a real hero!  Just volunteered with a woman who had 5 kids and had a white knight swoop in and marry the whole family.  The woman is a gem I might add, I think he got a pretty good deal.

Jun 20, 2009 03:44 AM
Terri Adams-Scott
J. Rockcliff, REALTORS - Walnut Creek, CA
Realtor, Walnut Creek CA Real Estate

Wanda...great tribute to your Dad and he sounds so deserving of it!  I can relate as my dad (step father) married my Mom when I was 5 yrs old...taking on 4 of us kids.  It reminds me of the song by Brad Paisley "He didn't have to be".  Here's the YouTube link to it as I know you can relate!

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iVFmHHxXCVg

Thanks for sharing your tribute!

Jun 20, 2009 03:52 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Vickie, Your husband IS a wonderful man and he must truly love you! I give him a lot of credit for taking on your teens. The best to you.

Jun 20, 2009 06:50 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Hi Wanda, I do love happy endings! Thank you for sharing that.

Jun 20, 2009 06:52 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Terri, It's amazing how selfless some people can be when rewarded with love. Your dad sounds like a wonderful man as well!

Jun 20, 2009 06:53 AM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Wanda, and thank you for this heartwarming story.  I hope my step son feels the same as you.

Jun 21, 2009 12:13 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Wanda your story brought tears to my eyes.  What an incredble guy to take on 7 kids.....How many guys would do that.....not many. Your Mom must be a great lady too.  And if I had a dime for every time my step kids said.....you're not my mom....I'd be rich!  Somehow we love kids whether their are 'own' or our own!  Our best friends and neighbors kids are a bit older now but when she married him he had 6 kids.  That family has been so blessed by this new Mom and the stability she brougt to the family just like your 'own' father did!

Enjoy your Day Wanda!

Anna Banana

Jun 21, 2009 05:32 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Gabe, I bet he does. The best to you!

Anna, Step-parenting has many challenges and rewards. It sounds like you have had yours as well. Have a wonderful week!

Jun 22, 2009 01:37 AM
Craig Rutman
Helping people in transition - Cary, NC
Raleigh, Cary, Apex area Realtor

What a great tribute to your Dad.

Despite the challenges that faced him, he rose to the occasion.

Cheers to your Dad.....

Happy Father's Day.

Jun 22, 2009 02:56 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Thanks Craig, And Happy Father's Day to you as well!

Jun 22, 2009 03:34 AM
John Mayer
Oikos Realty, Cape Canaveral, Cocoa Beach Florida - Cocoa Beach, FL
Your Beach Area Expert

Wanda - You are so courageous for sharing this wonderful tribute. Your heart is true.

Jun 22, 2009 01:08 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Thank you John, My dad is owed so much more than I could ever give him! 

Jun 22, 2009 01:57 PM