WE'RE NOT RUDE. YOU'VE INVADED OUR SPACE AND NOW YOU WANT OUR TIME.
Your want to PUSH and we want to PULL. Since we're the ones that might be buying, we get to make the rules.
Inspired by, Realtors ---- Barriers to Information by Judith Sinnard - The Floor Plan Lady
Ms. Sinnard implies that we Realtors are rude or something because we don't want to sit through a telephone presentation of her product. Good grief! The intrusion of cold callers is so annoying, laws have been enacted to protect the consumer. Of course, since we're in business, we're not protected. That doesn't make the calls any less annoying.
She writes: "If you don't want me to call ... I'm not going to call ... it is polite for me to ask, and abruptly slamming the phone down on my ear is an unnecessary emphasis to your response of "NO" ... I get the message. But do you? Where will your new information come from?"
We don't want you to call. We never do. We never did.
Now that I've let that information out, will the calls continue? Of course, they will. The reason some of us hang up is because it's often the only way to end a conversation. Honest, I've tried. I've tried over and over again. Vendors who are trained and experienced cold callers don't take "no" or "no thanks" for an answer. You just go on and on. "Let me show you." "Are you connected to the Internet?"
Well, I'm always connected to the Internet. Because I'M WORKING!
Has it occurred to you that, if I'm on the phone with you, I could miss an important home buyer call???
When we try to end a telephone conversation and state that we don't want to see a demonstration, does that stop the presentation? Of course not. You just drone on and on about how fab your product is and how it will enhance my business and how top producing agents, blah, blah, blah. . . Sometimes you'll even try the inane "Oh, you don't want any more business?"
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EXAMPLE: It's 1:30 p.m. on Monday, June 22, 2009. I just got a phone call from a California number, 925-598-0081. The caller was super friendly, often a top off because home buyers are not usually that super friendly at the beginning of a call. The caller introduced herself a "calling from Leapfish. I had to laugh. I told here that her timing couldn't have been worse and that I had just blogged about vendors calling. She then said "Oh, you're not interested in promoting your business?" To which I replied "and that statement couldn't have been more stupid." She hung up.
I'm very busy today revising a web page for water front properties in Maryland to develop referral business for a broker that visited me last week. Revising a web site is complicated business and we need to concentrate. This cold caller not only broke my concentration but she insulted my intelligence with her inane statement. GEEZ!
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You ask, "Where will your new information come from?"
HERE'S THE ANSWER:
COME OUT, COME OUT WHERE EVER YOU ARE OR WHO EVER YOU ARE: 
- Put up a good web page,
- Optomize the content to produce in normal Google SERP for your important key words.
- When an agent or broker wants what you're selling, we'll search Google and view the products from different vendors.
- It's simple PULL advertising. If we contact you, we have already decided that we probably want your product.
- If you telephone and try to PUSH your product, you will meet a lot of resistance because we get those calls every day from vendors of products in which we have no interest.
It isn't up to vendors to determine what we need or want.
COME OUT, COME OUT WHERE EVER YOU ARE OR WHO EVER YOU ARE: Put up a good web page and if we want what you're selling. . . . . we'll find you!
After all, as a red blodded American, shopping is one of the things we do best.
I admit I rarely answer the phones when I see a strange number. In all fairness I think its fine if people cold call but it is become a lot less effective.