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Everything I know in Real Estate I learned from Dogs

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Real Estate Agent with The Virtual Real Estate Team 104556

That's a picture of me in Houston with our precious poodles, Hope Elizabeth the standard, and Henri the toy. You can imagine why the little guy got that name if you were around him. Everyday that I got home from cancer treatment, they were there to jump on me, demand me pet them and walk them as if to say I don't care what kind of a day you have had, what about my needs? And they did deserve it because poodle love will be my chapter 3 of a surviving cancer book. Which leads me to yesterday.

I blogged here about how happy I was to be a Realtor on Monday morning, sitting in my robe, drinking coffee at the computer, blogging and commenting, and working on internet lead generation. Meanwhile, my life's partner and real estate partner Charlene was having the opposite day. Will the roofers show up to one house, will the appraisal come in on another, and will the mortgage company fund on a short sale closing today. She was going crazy, but hey, I was not going to let that get me down. She was going to yoga and when she got back, hopefully she would be centered again, and we would do our morning 15 miler on the bikes. I ended up biking more than that, but not the way I thought I would around the lake.

We had landscapers doing a french drain, and removing a volunteer tree by our back gate. Then Charlene had to go run an errand, and she saw that the workers had left the back gate open, and the dogs through doggie doors can get to the yard. They were gone and then I joined into Charlene's panic. I drove the neighborhood yelling for them, joined by Charlene, the workers, the workers families and four neighbors. I made missing reward signs and the next door neighbors son and I got on our bicycles and posted every power line in 1/2 mile. We called every pound, animal shelter, a close by vet to alert them. No dogs, and the temperature turned 102. It had been four hours since they got out, and we were losing hope. Then Charlene decided to go to the neighborhood to the south because that is the way we walk them, and maybe they were following the scent. She turned the corner in her car yelling out the open windows and she heard what she though were poodle barks. Yes, there they were! They were back from their Milo and Otis adventure. They ran to Charlene, got into the car, and parked their noses in front of the air vents.

We got them home and after a few liters of water, they settle down to a long, long nap. For me, all beautiful mornings can be shattered by events, but for Charlene something else happened. Real Estate was not worth worrying yourself sick over. Family, friends, and precious little bundles of unconditional love is what really matters. FYI, the roof got on, the appraiser seemed satisfied with the value, and the closing funded, and her worry over it didn't change whether these events would happen or not. The only thing that mattered is being like the proverbial shepherd looking for that one lost sheep.

The moral of the story is this. Don't panic until it is time, then if needed to, go for the gold. Just make sure that the panic fits the situation. Hint, real estate is not that important in the grand scheme of things, or in the wandering of dogs. 

Candice A. Donofrio
Next Wave RE Investments LLC Bullhead City AZ Commercial RE Broker - Fort Mohave, AZ
928-201-4BHC (4242) call/text

Right on! Real Estate is just Real Estate.  Your pups are flat out gorgeous!

I have stated to enough parties that I would be convicted, including her vet, that I would murder with no conscience whatsoever anyone who brought harm to Luna. (I think I made the vet nervous) ;)

You have your priorities straight . . . :)

Jun 23, 2009 04:24 AM
Joe Pryor
The Virtual Real Estate Team - Oklahoma City, OK
REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties

I know your pain. The landscape owner did get his whole family involved in the search. I am not violent and i don't own guns, but to say i was very moved was an understatement, and Charlene who is not a big person was turning into the Incredible Hulk. The dogs are being watch very closely as the landscapers finish the job today.

Jun 23, 2009 04:39 AM
John Walters
Frank Rubi Real Estate - Slidell, LA
Licensed in Louisiana

Joe it really hurts when you lose one.  We had to put our Labrador down yesterday.  There wasn't a dry eye in the room.  My other dog went for a walk this morning and keeps looking back for her buddy.  We will get her another one soon.

Jun 23, 2009 05:42 AM
Joe Pryor
The Virtual Real Estate Team - Oklahoma City, OK
REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties

We lost out mutt Corduroy on Christmas Day 2007. We were leaving for Florida to doa CCIM class, and Hope was pretty sad still. Henri was a toy show dog that grew two inches too tall to be shown and the owner asked its groomer who is our groomer to find it a home. Charlene wasn't really ready but she knew that Hope was, and she did it for Hope. The little guy is now like a devoted little brother to Hope, and an absolute joy to us. it was no surprise that they were still together after 4 hours. I am sorry for your loss, and I know how special your lab must have been. I have a picture of my brohters and my lab before he was hit by a car, surrounded by the ducks he retrieved. Hhe was so proud. I will never forget him too. I hope you get the right fit soon, and that your other dog and you, can have the buddy you deserve. 

Jun 23, 2009 05:58 AM
David Slavin
Keller Williams Premier - Katy, TX
CDPE, ABR, SRES Keller Williams Premier

You have to put everything in order of priority... including life over real estate.

Jun 23, 2009 10:08 AM
Joe Pryor
The Virtual Real Estate Team - Oklahoma City, OK
REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties

David, I wish we could be happy all the time but that is a dream. What you are saying is the best we can do, and hope for the best rather than expect the worst.

Jun 23, 2009 10:27 AM