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Do You put your Blog(s) before your Loved Ones?

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with WHISPERING PINES REALTY 20398180

Now this may sound funny or maybe illogical, but, are you.  Do you have to comment before you do anything else in the day.   I have to admit, that my commenting and blogging is right on the top of my to-do list everyday.  My wife sometimes thinks I put to much importance on my Blog.

I do spend a lot of time on the Rain.   This is the ONLY social network that I am on.  I often wonder, how others can be here and on facebook, and twitter, and others.  How do they find the time?  Do they find the time to first hug their kids and kiss the spouse, or say hi to the dog and cat?

I HAVE heard young adults complain that their friends are so busy on the social networks that they don't have time to do things together.  Is society becoming an electronic friend.  Do we know what the 'outside' world looks and feels like, or are we confined to the depths of our homes.

These are questions that only you can answer.  Just remember..when the power goes off, your electronic friends are gone, and LIVE friends and family is all that is left.  Do you know them?  Can you relate to them?  Just something to think about!

Irene Tron
Valparaiso, IN

It is easy to get lost with the social networking and have the time fly by.  For myself, I have set limits.  Most days, social networking is done when my family is not around.  Evenings are definitely family time!

Jun 30, 2009 03:32 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

Irene...I also have tried to make sure it doesn't take over my life.

Jun 30, 2009 03:33 AM
John Mulkey
TheHousingGuru.com - Waleska, GA
Housing Guru

William - No one could have predicted the impact of computer technology upon our lives and the ways it is changing society. And, I suspect, that we have yet to see the greatest changes. As someone who has spent more years without computers than with them, I have very mixed feelings about the changes I see. I appreciate the connection with people and information that I would otherwise miss, but I also see a movement away from physical connections.

Jun 30, 2009 03:40 AM
Candice A. Donofrio
Next Wave RE Investments LLC Bullhead City AZ Commercial RE Broker - Fort Mohave, AZ
928-201-4BHC (4242) call/text

Hi all, Luna here. I'm the dog. Candice left me here to blog. She's taking a listing . . . hahaha

Just one social network? Wow. I'm not sure how many. I think I have about a dozen?

My husband has a band. So it's easy for me to fit this in during time he is at work and/or band practice. Princess Lulu is right next to me being hugged. She's spoiled rotten. I'm good.

I think that if you work it right nothing needs to suffer . . .

Jun 30, 2009 03:51 AM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate

I make it a point to spend some time here everyday. I at least read and comment some even if I do not write a post of my own. But if my wife says she wants to do something, I will drop anything to run to her.

Jun 30, 2009 03:56 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

John...that is another issue of all the computor friendships...

Candice...I just have so much more to do than sit in front of the computer.  But, I know for some it is a life line!

Jun 30, 2009 04:11 AM
Randi Brammer
Randi Brammer, Acctg. - Hinckley, MN
Accountant & Tax Preparer

I haven't had that problem yet...but I know I need to do more!

Jun 30, 2009 04:13 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

Randi...it is built into most peoples day, just like an excersise routine

Jun 30, 2009 06:18 AM
Troy Erickson AZ Realtor (602) 295-6807
HomeSmart - Chandler, AZ
Your Chandler, Ahwatukee, and East Valley Realtor

William - I can see how easily this stuff could consume your life.  Fortunately I have kids, a dog, and of course my wife who keep me off this as much as possible, let alone working with buyers and sellers.

Jun 30, 2009 12:40 PM
Vern Eaton
Askov, MN
Realtor 651-674-7449

No worry with this non-tech-head.   I am lucky to comment 3-4 blogs a day or so.

Jun 30, 2009 02:17 PM
Richard Weisser
Richard Weisser Realty - Newnan, GA
Richard Weisser Retired Real Estate Professional

Bill...

I have been guilty of spending WAY too much time online! I do think that it has made an impact on my time that I have for other pursuits!

Good thoughtful post, thanks.

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Jun 30, 2009 02:29 PM
Irene Kennedy Realtor® in Northwestern NJ
Weichert - Lopatcong, NJ

Oh, that icky balance thing, William! My hubby can always read my public posts, so why should he feel neglected? ;-)

You're right, it is tough.

 

Jul 01, 2009 05:38 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

Troy...good for you.

Vern...In some ways you are the lucky one.

Richard...Thanks for the feature.  I am with you in this Social thing is tough to balance!

Irene..LOL true!

Jul 01, 2009 05:51 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

William, handling multiple social networks amaze me that others do that. I wonder about time with their local contacts too.

Jul 01, 2009 06:17 AM
Ginger Harper
Coldwell Banker Sea Coast Advantage~ Ginger Harper Real Estate Team - Southport, NC
Your Southport~Oak Island Agent~Brunswick County!

No....I sit on the sofa with the laptop and when we are not talking...I may blog.

ginger

Jul 01, 2009 07:41 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

Gary...My feeling also.

Ginger...I would be accused of ignoring my loving wife.lol

Jul 01, 2009 10:46 AM