I am so happy my friend Patricia was kind enough to make this available for a re-blog. I love social networking. New York is so much fun. Enjoy! :-)

Via Patricia Kennedy (Evers & Company Realtors):

This is for all of you young whipper snappers out there who think that anyone over 50 is going to eat your dust because you do social networking!

I'm going to tell you a story with one of those "Respect Your Elders" messages - you can learn from them!  Um, from us!

There was an amazing agent at my old company who had social networking down!

She was a geezer agent.  Her obituary said that she was 79 when she died.  But she had to have been at least 90.  She was a pretty woman who wore Chanel suits to the poshest office in Washington, and she was clueless about how to use a copying machine, let alone a computer, digital camera or any bit of technology other than her very basic cell phone (and all it did was allow her to make and receive calls - no text messages or Email).  And she sold about $50million a year in real estate, because she totally got social networking.

At an office meeting, she gave what was my first training session on social networking.  She went to parties.  Lots of parties.  And she networked.  She was the queen of schmooze, and she would follow up the next day and the next week and the next month, calling people back (she preferred a regular old phone to her primitive cell) and putting together amazing transactions. 

The night before she died, she had ratified a contract on an $8 million dollar property, and I understand she was on both sides of the transaction.

Now, all I'm saying is that we didn't invent social networking.  It didn't begin with Active Rain, Facebook, or Twitter.  And what this lovely old lady  agent taught me was that the most important element of social networking is the social part of it. Oh, and she also taught everyone who watched her about how important it is to follow up.  She, of course, used a telephone rather than Tweets, email or text messages.  I like to use a combination of the three.

It's important to supplement Active Rain, Facebook, Twitter, or whatever else you use with all kinds of social network contact with other human beings, at church, at neighborhood or PTA meetings, the Lions Club, RE Bar Camps, at parties and anyplace else where people who might want to buy or sell houses might hang out - or agents who can refer them to you.  You need to use every bit of the new technology at your fingertips, as well as the old fashioned telephone.

And never ever forget that real estate is a contact sport!  You need to get them off your computer screen, out of your virtual space, and into your automobile. 

 

 
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8 Comments on "Social Networking": Many Ways To Skin That Cat!

JUL
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uhh.... er..... does she.... i dunno... need any help completing that last transaction????    hmmmmmm?

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Hey!  Thanks for the re-blog!  And Alan, the deal got done!   Hers always did.

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I wanna be like her!  She had it going on, didn't she?

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Thank you for reposting this article, I missed it earlier, so thank you Carolyn...and Patricia!

One of the most pleasant Realtors I ever had the the pleasure working with was a woman by the name of Barbara Marsh.  Barbara is in her early eighties now and just recently retired.  Well...I wouldn't say she actually retired per se, she's referring all her listings to another agent and has for a couple years now.  Barbara did'nt retire because she was too old, she retired because she needed to take care of her late husband.  I would not be surprised to find out that she goes back to work now that he has passed...she is something to behold. 

The other thing about Barbara was that she was a "Social" networker too...mostly with networking from church members, but she was and is very well known in our community since she was one of the first folks to get a real estate license...I don't know what year it was...back when they began selling dirt...I think!  (Sorry Barbara...she'd laugh at that too)  

The other thing about Barbara was that she was a born-mentor.  She couldn't help herself with that pleasing personality of hers.  I can remember when she was teaching us "Young'ens" the tricks on our first PDA's and our eKeys, and she was the first woman I ever knew who had a vurtual office on wheels that she carted into the office from the trunk of her car each day, with a fancy new laptop computer that she linked up and docked up to her desktop each morning. 

I was always impressed by her and she always had a warm and welcoming smile on her face, and the worst word out of her mouth, caused by a goofy client was..."Goodness." 

Goodness!  

AND...she was always dressed appropriately and never over the top like some folks these days...I'm not mentioning any names, of course.

Still...I learned a LOT from that great woman.  I can imagine that when she does finally go up into that blue yonder, that she'll show up late because she had just one more deal to finish up...or one more cell phone trick to teach us kids!

Three Cheers to the Barbara Marsh's of the world!

Carol...aka Granny

www.ActiveSunshine.com

 

4:46pm • #4
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C - great re-blog. I think that we still do have to get out and meet people but the online part of it opens doors so that you can meet more people in person.  Anyway that's how I use it.

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LOL @ Alan. :-D

Patricia, you are very welcome and I'm glad the deal was completed. :-)

Ann, that was my first thought (LOL). She had it going on in spades. ;-)

Granny Carol, you are very welcome and I love learning about you and your friends. :-)

Thank you, Tanya. I'm with you about the doors opening up. I love the friends I discovered in the Rain. :-)

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JUL
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There is nothing in this world that will help your business more than being face to face with people. After all, they are what this business is all about.

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JUL
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JL, I agree. I run the streets all the time and find I have a lot of fun. I'm glad I finally replaced my laptop. I can keep up with everyone on-line more efficicently and serial comment between assignments (LOL).

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