I have to continue to marvel how I don't see the world the way everyone else does. That must be my contribution to the planet somehow. Resident contrarian. Someone perhaps you want on your team just to give you the perspective of the "rest of the story." I have been reading several posts of who is on all the Social Networks by age and demographics, and if we should be on them, and what value they are to our business. But I see a whole class of buyers that for them Social Networks are very much not a great concern, or even a thought going on in their lives. They have much GREATER things to worry about.

DownsDid you know that

                You Are The Least Of My Brother's Keeper?

This is the handicapped class of buyers of course, and clientele you work with. The more proper term is challenged or those with disabilities. The proper selection of wording with someone with a disability is critical to not generating negative emotion and to show respect. They are not worrying about Facebook and Twittering, they are working very hard to make it through the day and be a happy and fully functioning human being that contributes to the world.

With many with disabilities, those of us in real estate need to apply huge doses of understanding and patience.

VisionAre you aware of the MANY types of disabilities?

  • Performing Manual Tasks
  • Breathing
  • Learning
  • Working
  • Walking
  • Bathing
  • Seeing
  • Shopping
  • Speaking
  • Hearing

 

In the Intellectual area we have Downs syndrome and other learning disability situations.

Old DialIn the senior age class of over 65 which from the 2006 census was estimated at 37.9 million people, did you know that 50% have a disability limitation of some sort?

And by age 75, 7 of 10 have a disability.

For many in the senior category there is a sense of living in a dial world with iPhones all around them. There is no wonder sometimes the world seems like it is moving too fast.

We as excellent communicators need to speak clearly, ask for clarification when necessary, and above all put ourselves in another's shoes.

IPhone ImageThe reality of what is going on is we all are "temporarily able-bodied" until it is our turn to come down with the disabilities in our life as part of the natural process of aging.

So when those among us are too hard on certain classes of people for not getting on board with Social Networking it seems to be a very squinty eyed narrow minded point of view. We in society are not all the same.

People also can go through a grief process with losing various faculties and may be in an anger or unhappiness state when you come upon them. Once again, the call for patience with them. Don't take it personal.

HearingBe good with people you encounter who are different than you and who are struggling. Give them your smile. Learn techniques like sign language for the hearing impaired.

Push someone's wheel chair. Compliment their seeing eye dog. Rush over and get their cane for them when they are standing up from the dining table. It is not all about Twittering and Facebook. It is about connecting with people where they are in their life journey today.

The least of our brothers need us NOW more than ever. Be there for them. Remember, if you live long enough, you will be there someday too. And what goes around comes around.

 

 

 

 

 

 
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14 Comments on You Are The Least Of My Brother's Keeper

JUL
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Gary, I don't recall ever seeing this subject written about in reference to real estate.  There should be a designation working in this area of real estate. Another great post.

3:27pm • #1
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Gary,

There are several in my office who do often represent elderly clients but I agree with Shirley I don't recall ever seeing this subject referenced in real esate. The motto "what goes around comes around" is a favorite of mine. So true..thanks for sharing. 

4:00pm • #2
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Gary, I was brought up to help others and still do when I can.  I taught my children to but fact is, I don't see many people helping out these days, even if it is to hold the door open for someone.  I often wonder if we didn't have all this wonderful technology if people would be KINDER to others.

4:48pm • #3
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Gary,
Personal contact is still very important!

7:38pm • #4
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Hi Gary This not only deserve a feature but should be  on the front page of every office manual, taught  in every class room,  a required class for real estate classes  and preached from every pulpit.  Thank you...one of your best.  Again we need to think outside our selves.   A beautiful reminder

9:36pm • #5
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Gary...

This is something that we should think about a lot more often. What a wonderful thing to be in a position to help someone in a very special kind of way. Good post, thanks!

9:42pm • #6
JUL
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This is so important-with all the buzz about social media it is still the century of personal relationships.  We get so excited when we meet someone we know on AR in person!  Reaching out in our communities and giving back is something we need take time to do on a regular basis.  Visit the lonely in rest homes, sick or homeless.  It is so rewarding!!

1:10am • #7
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It is how we treat the LEAST of Gods people that will determine how WE will be treated by HIM......

May we ALL treat everyone the way Jesus would........

God bless ya, bro!!

\O/

1:45am • #8
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GOOD MORNING GARY!  Before real estate, I worked at the National MS Society and this lesson is now just second nature to me -- passing it on to my child is the next best thing I can do! -- Gabrielle

7:27am • #9
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Another great post Gary....I work in Central Florida (home of the retirees) and I am always looking to help and slow down with anyone who might need it.  I know that I have passed this on as when my son and I are out, he will always hold the door for not just the elderly couple, but, anyone behind us.  (Sometimes, I have to wave him to come on and that's enough!)

7:43am • #10
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Good Morning my friend-This is truly a wonderful and thoughtful post. I have a friend back in NY who has cerebral palsy and she faces challenges every day just to make it thru the day and at 23 now needs someone to help her bath because she has fallen so many times. I learned more from her than I think anybody else in my life on what we all take for granted as healthy individuals. She has a friend who is 2 yrs older than her and has MD and she is totally dependent on someone for her needs. In spite of that her friend got married. Pretty amazing. I too believe this post deserves a feature. In case the AR Gods don't agree here is a little something from a friend that thinks this is worthy of that feature. <SMILE>

 

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8:37am • #11
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Keep right on seeing the world differently and writing about it!  Posts such as this are a great reminder for us and puts life back in perspective.  All too often we fail to do the right thing.

8:48am • #12
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Gary - Well said!  Thanks for the great reminder.  Your unique perspective is why I keep reading your blog.

10:20am • #13
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Gary - When a stroke left my father disabled 7 years ago I was exposed to disability for the first time. However, my mother remained his caregiver and I visited as often as I could.  Then the last 2 weeks while my mother underwent surgery and rehab I have had to deal with dad. I always knew that society had a long way to go in accepting people with disabilities but living as the caregiver for 2 weeks was a real eye-opener. Society still has a long ways to come and for those who show no respect or courtesy towards the disabled - all I can say is what goes around might very well come around.

7:35pm • #14

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