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Motivational Monday -- Maybe Questionable

Motivational Monday

Looking back at the very first post that I put on Active Rain gave me inspiration.

This is the photo that I had in that first post (of course, at the time, I called it a blog & only got 4 comments - 2 of which were family).

breast cancer awareness bill board

Looking at this photo makes me realize --- "wait a minute, I had cancer" Really, being a breast cancer survivor has opened up my life to what is really important. I do actually forget that I had pink ribbon cancer -- until, I undress -- and then it is very clear.

For those who were not reading my posts back in Oct. 2008, Boyd & I made the decision to a have a double mastectomy. It was the best decision that we have ever made. No, I did not have cancer in both breasts -- we just didn't want to have to worry about it coming back.

I have a friend who was diagnosed at the same time as I (3 and a half years ago) -- she chose to go the chemo route and not the mastectomy -- I regret to tell you that her cancer is back -- now in her bones and lungs -- not a good thing.

Who knows if she had had the mastectomy whether it would have come back? Only God knows that. But, I believe that the mastectomy could have saved her life.

How is this inspirational? I feel that I am an inspiration -- an inspiration to others who may be going through the same tough decision.

Today, I am wonderful, wonderful (truly) --- feel great, can do anything that I decide to do. To be around me, you would never know that I am a breast cancer survivor unless I decide to preach about making these tough decisions.

Please, if any of you out there are in the process of trying to decide what to do, please have the mastectomy (mastectomies).

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Posted by Liz Loadholt Realtor--Broker-in-charge - Trainer--Relocation Director Covering SC on 07/06/2009 04:17 PM

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30 Comments on Motivational Monday -- Maybe Questionable

JUL

2009

Liz, I agree with you. I applaud you for putting it out there, and would have no hesitation to have a double mastectomy if faced with that. Just take em, the older I get the more of a pain in the butt they are anyway. Besides, I could get myself a brand spankin new pair.... ones that will "stand up" through the test of time!

Way to go Liz!!!!

I had to laugh at Andrea's comment, but, joking aside...you are an inspiration to many of us on Ar, myself included. It is wonderful that you shared that story with us and I applaud you for your bravery.

Two of my clients have made that decision in the past 3 months, they both are in good spirts, smile and have a great sense of humor. I always try to joke with them because they say their new breasts are in the mail. I then quote the line from "The Princess Bride" - "There is a shortage of perfect breast" then tell them and yours will now be perfect forever. (Thanks science) - They always laugh!

Todd Clark - www.LivingBeaverton.com

JUL

2009

I have to say that I have really known no one who had beast cancer until of course, I now know you. You are and should be an inspiration to anyone who is dealing with this decision. It seems to be further proof that you are a survivor and a fighter Liz. My hat off to you my friend. I am very sorry to hear about your other friend though.

Andrea --- thanks for your great comments --- you and I are on the same page --- the older we get, who really needs them anyway. If you ever run across someone who needs to make this decision, ask them to talk with me.

Tina -- I appreciate your very kind comments --- however, I don't see myself as being brave --- just wanting to help save someones life. I appreciate you as a friend.

Todd --- thank goodness, your clients made this decision. If ever you know someone who is feeling down or is trying to make this decision, ask them to call me. Thanks for your comments - it is always nice to hear from you, my friend.

JL -- you are so sweet --- thanks for your kind comments., If you ever run across someone trying to make this decision, just have them call me. Just doing what I can to save lives.

Hey, Liz. I love your courage and the fact that you continue to help fight the battle for others. Keep spreading the word as you have and I am positive that you will continue to be a light for others. All my best, Jim

Liz - You are amazing. You made a courageous and wise decision. A friend of mine did the same, along with chemo and is doing very well. She is why my sister and I participate in the Avon Walk for Breast Cancer. Keep up the breast cancer awareness and the good fight. - Judy

Liz,

You (and your post) are very inspiring. I can't even imagine all of the courage it takes to make such a decision. I have a family member who went through the same thing, it must have been about 20 or more years ago, but I know she does not regret her decision either. I think I would have to make the same choice if I were in those shoes. Thank you for sharing such intimate moments in your life in an effort to help benefit those of others.

Emily

P.S. I was wondering of you ever thought of starting a local Facebook group as a gathering place for people in the Charleston area who either have, had, or know people with breast cancer...to share their stories and get local support. I think you would be great at hosting it!

Very inspriational post, Liz!! Quite pleased that you left me that link on my post or I never would have seen this wonderful piece.

I think you should read this one of mine to get a better understanding of where I have come from...our paths are somewhat similar. Somewhat. :-)

Liz - Somehow I missed this yesterday. Thanks for making me aware of your great post.

Hi Liz,

Many think I have had breast cancer but I have not...I've worn that ribbon to represent all cancer but also in memory of Karen George..and how I was deeply impacted as a human when REALTORS in our area..rallied to support one of our local REALTORS.

I don't know the affects of breast cancer but am well aware of others...we as women must take good care of our bodies and that would include routine breast checks and doing what needs to be done with the least amount of trauma to our bodies.

You have always inspired me! :) that will never change.

Great info and a hard decision to make. My grandmother lost her life to the decision to not have the procedure. I had read your post earlier and didnt comment as its bad memories for me. Cancer in any form is a nasty thing and has taken 6 of my loved ones from me in the last 2 years.

HI Liz,

My family has a large ongoing history of breast cancer. My grandmother died from it, and everytime I hear a story like yours it saddens me. I miss my grandma... :( Anyways, crying aside, thank you for the inspiration, and you made one hell of a hard decision. I wish you a happy and prosperous life, and my thoughts and prayers are with your friend.

-Lisa

JUL

2009

Maria & Jim --- as usual, my friends, you are so supportive --- you are great and I am so pleased to have you in our AO family.

Judy --- thanks for stopping by and for supporting breast cancer awareness --- I appreciate your helping spread the word.

Emily --- thanks for your very kind words and your support. I am so pleased to have you in our AO family. You have a great idea about Facebook.

Clint --- I did go and read your story --- WOW ---you are a very strong person and I for one am very proud of you. Thanks for sharing and thanks for stopping by today.

Irene --- thanks for stopping by and for your comments. It is always good to see you.

Midori --- thanks so much for stopping by and for your very warm comments.l

Laura --- thanks for your comments -- am truly sorry that I caused you pain. Have a great day.

Lisa --- thanks so much for your very warm comments --- cancer of all kinds just, as one of my AR friends described, sucks.

You ARE very brave Karen. I applaud your willingness to share your story in hopes of helping others. As a man I can never understand the difficulty in making such a decision but I do know that to have someone who has been there and KNOWS what is like is such a great comfort to anyone having to go through this situation.

Liz - God bless you for sharing your message. I'm sure you will be a source of encouragement, support and information for many women (and men) that face this crisis. I am so happy that you beat the beast, that you are a strong survivor and a true advocate for women to face their fears and make informed decisions.

If you had not said you were a survivor ... I would never have known.

Continue to inspire ... you are living proof that the battle can be won!

Liz,

I love your posts.. They give me a lift when I read them.. Please continue to share your pearls of wisdom.

ginger

JUL

2009

Liz, my Mom had the double-M and is still alive. My cousin had the chemo, it burned a small hole where it shoulodn't have been and she died in her mid thirties. I'm glad you're still with us and I know exactly how you feel about the choices we make. One just never knows...

Liz,

Meg,our Daughter has a rare form of Breast Cancer called Inflammatory Breast Cancer..We have been fighting for 2 years. She has done the chemo, and radiation...

It was not all taken out...and has come back with a vengeance.. She has our 16 and 13 year old grandchildren....

Pray for us.

Ginger of Southport..

JUL

2009

I hear your wonderful, wonderful ringing in my ears. Your story is an inspiration. I have heard of other women who had a double masectomy based on family history and the diagnosis of cancer. I hope your story gives other women something to think about and consider.

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