Social NetworkingThere is a book out there that made me think,

Will Active Rain and Social Networking Make You Live Longer?

The book is Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell. In it there is discussion of research done on the small rural Pennsylvania town of Roseto. The people there just die of old age, not heart attacks, cancer, etc. There was no suicide, alcoholism, drug addiction and very little crime. The researchers wanted to know why. They looked at diet, and they ate sausage and eggs. Some even smoked heavily and had obesity problems. Then they looked at genetics and they tracked their relatives across the U.S but those from Roseto were the only healthy ones.

Then they looked at the two nearby towns of Nazareth and Bangor. Similar size in population but their heart disease was three times that of Roseto.

The researchers finally concluded it was all about lifestyle. Connectedness if you will. People talked to each, they met in the street, they sat out on their front porches, they had three generations of family nearby, they cooked in each others' backyards, they had 22 separate civic organizations in a town of just under 2,000. Somehow there was a powerful, protective social structure with all this connectedness insulating them from all the stresses and pressures of today's high paced world.

So in the virtual connected world of Active Rain, Facebook, and Twitter, will we see the same thing? Maybe. When those don't blog or comment or tweet for awhile, we email or call them up if they are one of "us" and check in on them.Maybe beyond building your business or connecting with your high school buddies, social networking should be done just like daily dental flossing to

LIVE LONGER !!!!

Maybe just maybe, being a part of something like Active Rain, an Outlier, you will live to a ripe old age, into your 80's, 90's, or 100. Bloggers don't just die of a heart attack. Instead they just fade away. But they leave a legacy out on the net for future generations to read! Here's to everyone taking advantage of this probably most overlooked benefit of Active Rain!!

 
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27 Comments on Will Active Rain and Social Networking Make You Live Longer?

JUL
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Food for thought. I've read about the importance of human interaction in relation to extended length of life. You present a new question of whether Internet interaction can accomplish the same type of results. I guess it's possible...or is it even close to the same thing?

12:03pm • #1
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Hello, friend, I call you the blog master.  This blog on social networking is proof that man is a social animal like dolphins.  Teenagers seem to need the group atmosphere even more because they are going through alot of issues.  AR is a nice community, maybe they can build a town!

12:05pm • #2
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Hi Gary

Yes I can see myself blogging at 100 and if I move to Roseto I could be the oldest blogger in the world or not. Outstanding blog about an outstanding book.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

12:06pm • #3
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Gary ... Let's all use social media more for home and bus, Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter, AR, and others, and live to that ripe old and happy age.  Thanks for this.

12:09pm • #4
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Hi Gary,

I agree with Moinka you are the blog master! We all learn so much from you!! It's like you are a never ending fountain of information. Than you this is one of your best messages.

12:22pm • #5
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Being connected to others is a social interaction whether online or face to face. Anytime that we can spend time and feel appreciated we will live longer.

12:27pm • #6
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Gary - Well, it probably won't hurt.  Connecting with folks, especially peers, is a support structure in of itself.  And I'd venture to guess that such a support structure would enhance one's quality of life.  So, I will buy this to an extent.

12:34pm • #7
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I think folks underestimate your thoughts. If you worry about crime, carry a taser, have to look over your shoulder or suspect people you meet as possible serial killers..that makes you old quicker. If you spend time under stress in bumper to bumper traffic day in and day out, that ages you and is a waste of the short time you are on earth. Helping others, maybe having less money but more people that don't care about trying to impress you with it around you extends your life or at least makes your days on earth happier. Small town living means helping others, needing others, caring about your neighbors. Blogging about your life, what you learned, mistakes you made is healthy..maybe boring to some but not those in the same boat search for answers, guidance. Some people pay for the 55 minute session each week to hire a listener. Man is a social being.

1:08pm • #8
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Gary - I recently finished "Outliers" myself.  I loved it, as with all of Malcolm Gladwell's books.  I like your take on this topic!

1:48pm • #9
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Gary..Wow that is very interesting..The love of each other and people may help us live longer ..well how do you like that..maybe that is why my mom lived so long she loved people...thanks for the info

HelpfulHannah your friend in Philadelphiatweet this

3:36pm • #10
263,260 Points 14 Featured Posts Outside Blog

Hi Gary, I believe that social connectedness is the key to happiness and the key to a long happy life.

3:49pm • #11
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Gary,

I'm going to get the book, Outliers.  I love small towns .. that is why I moved from Alrington VA to Lewisburg WV. I am only 4 hours away, and what a difference.

4:39pm • #12
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Gary - I love this post. Interesting food for thought and a nice spin on the book's ideology. I'm always one that doesn't feel quite right if I'm not connected to my "peeps", so I get where this book is going. Thanks for sharing!

4:44pm • #13
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Now we all have a great excuse for spending way too much time on line--it is for our health!

5:51pm • #14
580,847 Points 47 Featured Posts Outside Blog

Hi Gary, I wanted you to know your post has cost me to consider moving!  That's the place for me...sounds like Green Acres.  Being connected is all part of what makes us all tick.  Nice post Gary.

5:54pm • #15
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Wendy: Some much of the world is going virtual yet there is "real" people behind those virtual names.

Monika: We are like dolphins, naturally social in nature.

Lou: You could run for mayor of the town. You have plenty of supporters here.

Harrison: The more networks the merrier. That would get everyone to sign up if they believed it was the fountain of youth.

Dorie: Thanks. I enjoy reading your blog posts and comments too.

Jason: Any time someone is looking out for you offline or online, I think that is a good thing.

Andrew: I very much like that in the same boat thought.

Jason: We share the like of the same author.

Hi Hannah: Moms are smart!!

Sandy: Along with gratefulness I am adding social connectedness for happiness.

Rebecca: Sounds like you know the pluses of small town living.

Kim: Keep connecting to your peeps. It is good for you.

Holly: A great reason to continue reading and writing blogs and connecting via social networks.

Gary: There are points in our life when it is the right time to move again for all the right reasons.

 

6:02pm • #16
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Hi Gary-I learned about this in my Personal Wellness class. It is true. Having a social support system is definitelt better for you health and well being. Great post. Have a great evening <SMILE>

6:34pm • #17
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Gary, This is the most compelling reason YET to stay on AR and other social sites!  I actually believe it, connections are everything.  Sounds like my childhood when everyone knew each other and watched out for each other.  Things aren't quite like that anymore so thank goodness for networking :)

9:20pm • #18
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I can testify that it's my online world of friends and connections that has kept me intact, living in a town that I became a "newcomer" to a few years ago. I am just so very grateful for the community here. It's phenomenal. Thanks, Gary!

10:40pm • #19
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Gary I grew up in a town like that and often yearn for that period in my life.  Socializing is very important for ones well being.

11:14pm • #20
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Hi Gary, How nice it would be if that inter connectedness of our social networks prevented the dastardly things we all seem to get. Maybe we should sell it as a benefit anyway and if you believe, it will be so. No, I didn't have wine for dinner, did you? LMAO.

11:30pm • #21
JUL
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Gary...While I would probably not trade "big city life" for the small town again, my trip back to Montana and my home town of 8,000 people reminded me of that simpler lifestyle, and a place where people really do know each other. Shoot, I don't even know some of the people on the floor of my condo building...scare me!

Life seems to be stressful, at least in my world, and I suspect many others right now...and I can only hope that one day, really, really, really soon, I will be able to look back and laugh at all I'm going through know, and will be a better person for it!

Thanks for a thoughtful and thought-filled post!

12:08am • #22
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I've heard of that study once before, and I don't doubt for a minute that "connectiveness" to others plays a huge role in our overall health, lifespan, etc. Without it, imagine the loneliness one would feel...

Great connection you made to ActiveRain, too (as usual).

11:25am • #23
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Hi Gary I agree ,  I remember my grandparents living into the late 90's and working very hard.( they were farmers )

.but they were very connected with family friends helping each other.  Today ...just look into the loneliness in the nursing homes.  Parent's, grandparents left to institutional care ..the connectedness is almost gone.  they  at times, not only die earlier but they die because they have nothing to live for..

I am a one year old three month old blogging baby. I can not believe how people you have never met can become so important to you.  I think blogging creates a  friendship at times much stronger than person you are in contact with everyday.  There is something about the written word that is connecting..both in blogging and reading each other comments.  I feel I know a lot of bloggers better  than I know some of the agents I work with everyday. There is something very personal about sharing thoughts...not at all water cooler chatter.

10:10pm • #24
JUL
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Gary - I may have been witnessing this all along with my father. After his stroke 7 years ago my mom made the decision to care for him. So many people say that they are surprised he's made it this long. I know what they are saying, and to that we always say it's because my mother kept him at home where he has had her constant companionship. Okay, well maybe her authentic Italian cooking is good medicine too.

5:07pm • #25
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Now there's something to think about, eh? I like the concept. Seems to me it ha a great deal of merit. :-)

11:32pm • #26
JUL
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Hi Gary.  I am late, as usual, to your party, but I agree wholeheartedly.  Connections of the heart and mind are what keeps people going.  Active Rain has certainly been very good for me, I met you!

6:57pm • #27

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