A Native American once told me that clouds reflect the soul of the river... One-sided images of everyday life barely, rarely, reflect what is wholly true, because TRUTH is TRANSPARENT and, day-to-day, we tend to see through a glass darkly. The images we take in have a way of impressing our state of wellbeing and superimposing the landscape of our soul--- mission central for the animation and imagination of our lives. Unkind actions and words don't originate in the un-circumferenced beauty of Soul, but from the unfiltered overlays that we allow to stagnate in our perceptions, much like dark clouds keep a bright and shining sunshine from our view. You've probably seen how a stormy picture can change right before your eyes, if you've ever taken off in an airplane and reached a higher elevation, above the storm clouds. The first time I experienced this, in my early 20's, I felt completely.transformed by the effect. It's when I first began to think about not allowing myself to enter the storms that could suddenly burst into my life, but rather, take out my umbrella, and know that it is just passing through...and I could trust that the sun was still shining, especially since I'd seen it with my own eyes.  I learned that I could shift my thinking and elevate my perspective and, ultimately, change my experience from one of gloom or dread to one of joy. I've learned that, more than anything, we need each other to navigate through stormy weather, and, when I find myself weathering Life alone, a story becomes like an umbrella, and holds me together. 
Telling stories is powerful. Storytelling is an inscription of THE WORD upon the soul...stories weave texture and color into the fabric of our communities and our lives. Stories have a way of allowing us to look at 'the other side' of an image. A story can be an illustration of Life in a mirror... reflecting sleeping giants of greatness in all of us.

While I've been surrounded by the world of real estate for more than a decade, I've been selling real estate for 5+ years, flying high the first few, then bracing myself against the storms of the present and past two years. I joined ActiveRAIN in April of 2007, but didn't post my first blog until December of that year, the time I was considering my exit from the marketplace. As I searched my soul for answers to questions I couldn't even seem to articulate, it dawned on me that, for me and my circumstances, my best direction was going to be to reach out online and develop myself and my business with web tools, applications and communities. It proved to be profitable, because it shifted my thinking and and elevated my perspective. For me, the ActiveRAIN community quickly became my favorite online vehicle. It operates like a flightcraft, with the infusion of constant insight, inspiration, instruction, food for thought and sharing of stories, it grows organically, recycling the rain from the river of drenched experiences in the marketplace and, I find, often breaks through clouds of disillusions---those one-sided images. When people can share their stories, people can grow. You can't put this on a spreadsheet or pinpoint it or because it is the elemental art of RAIN...the invisible aspect, the transparent truth that operates without any circumference of the soul.  No matter what hour of the day or night I log on, there is so much contributed here, and the basic, overall direction is upwards. I'm unfailingly able to gather enough momentum to propel myself beyond the storms, whether gathering in a coffeeshop-style conversation on a blog or twitterfeed (where many ActiveRain friends connect), building "unintentional" relationships & often finding the most amazing FRIENDS that sometimes meet up in real places around the country, like ReBar Camps, Inman Connect, ReTechSouth conferences, BlogTalk Radio, and sometimes (like in the big state of Texas), they meet up just for the fun of it all. In life, complaining is easy, but expressing my gratitude is the highlighted part of my own story, and it's effortless.

And to every one of you that I've gotten to know here on Active Rain or will, your story is a blessing for the chapters of my own life. THANK YOU for your stories, and may you always be able to SEE THROUGH your dark nights and shine through your days...your best reflection is one of transparency---just like the rain.

 

 

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29 Comments on TRANSPARENCY OF RAIN - ActiveRAIN Reflection

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Hi Mara, This is so beautifully written, and the photograph is just stunning.  You are a blessing to AR and I am so glad to have met you here.  I like the idea that the clouds reflect the soul of the river, so poetic and so true.  Hope you have a wonderful day, Mara!

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As one who tends to rather enjoy a gloomy day (whatever that says about me), I admire the ability to fight through them in others.  Pick a cliche: "This, too, shall pass."  "Pain is temporary, pride is forever."  All are rote, but true.  Even more important than learning to pack an umbrella for the rainy days, I have found transcendance in learning to keep that umbrella folded.  To allow the rain to pelt me as it passes through my life.  To feel it drench my skin and know that it stops there.  Unable to find a way in.  You don't have to live in a bubble.  It's okay to feel grief and experience sadness.  In fact, it's necessary.  Feel all emotions fully when they hit, as they are only passing through.  It's when you deny or repress their existence that the storm clouds linger.  Funny, we are resigned to the fact that elation is a temporal state that comes and goes of its own choosing, but that sorrow is an unwanted guest that will never leave of its own accord. 

And that's one to grow on ;)

As for Active Rain, I have met too many exceptional personalities to count.

11:23am • #2
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Mara, I hope one day I will have mastery of the written word like you do.  I agree with all you have said here, but could never have expressed it so beautifully.

12:07pm • #3
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Mara, and YOU of course are a key contributor to all of US in reminding us to see the sunshine as well on top of the storm cloud. I in particular ALWAYS look forward to what you have to say and present to us each time you pop by and your comments and emails are absolutely some of the best here. So I would reverse the kudos and say Active Rain is darn lucky YOU are here Mara. xxoo

3:46pm • #4
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Hi Mara ~ This is a very nice description of what Active Rain means to you!

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Mara....golly gee wiz....enough to bring a tear to the eye! I'm happy to say I've met you and glad to call you one of my friends!

I've got the new car....we need to plan that get together soon!

8:32pm • #6
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Mary, thank you for your gentle words. I love our connection here. And I don't think many of us realize, too, that in our growing friendships on AR, we are also deepening each other's connections with  the land here in America...I enjoy, so much, all of the words & images you share about Red Feather Lakes, CO. I'll always associate you with this beautiful place, like a gardner in his garden. You cultivate the paths that let others rejoice in the soul-stirring beauty of that land, and find their ways home.

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Paul, I always love your rich carving of words, and appreciate your reminder that "It's okay to feel grief and experience sadness"... and I had to smile at your 'somewhat enjoying a gloomy day' :-) I love the rain...I'm happy to wake up sometimes & see the rainclouds & feel a celtic resonance (stories, I'm sure, lingering in my bones from an Irish-Welch heritage) that conjures up a mood of Merlin and mystic landscapes. It's some of those days that I've made the best progress in cleaning out my closet of hanging-on items... garments of grief that are no longer wearable, but packed tightly away, just the same. It's those Merlin days (of subtle transformation) that form & reform what I've remembered not to wear, but still somehow, care, and can end up hauling some "unwanted guests" to the goodwill towards men. It seems that, in seeing the other side of our images, we begin to see through them. They are transformed from walls to windows.

 

 

6:49am • #8
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Ann, thank you for the compliment. You are unique in all the world, with your wonderful light and special gifts that are so appreciated. Thank you for always stopping by and also helping to keep the light growing bright in Alabama! :-)

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Gary, As you know, the color yellow represents friendship. You, my friend, so perfectly illustrate that 'the yellow rose of Texas' resides in the Dallas area of Flower Mound! You and your blog beacon do so much on a daily basis in offering a presence of light, gentle guidance and worthwhile reminders for all of us travelers. Thank you! xox

7:11am • #10
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Bill, well, you know it means this to me, but it means so much more. While I am always most moved by the heart of matters, I rely and lean on people like you who brilliantly grasp the external drives, the operational gears. I learned so much from you on AR about how to run a business, and how to provide the best of services to customers. I'm still learning, and love visiting your blogspace & reviewing the resources you share. I'll always be grateful for your help in getting me started with a few things, and your wonderful patience . I also have loved learning about all the areas you represent in Metrowest, Massachusetts...the remarkable beauty of the areas and the quality of homes. I've never been to Massachusetts, but my image now is that you are the king ;-) !  I very much appreciate your expertise and friendship here...

7:22am • #11
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Thom, I appreciate you! We had such fun at RETech---but that was like 4 months ago!  I have yet to get to the new aquarium...maybe we can get an AL/GA group together for a Saturday?? Let's GO!!! (in your new car ;-) 

7:30am • #12
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"For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known." I Corinthians 13:12

I am also a lover of stories.  I grew up listening to my Grandmother tell stories of our family's early days in Texas that had been passed down to her.  It is too bad that storytelling is a lost art in most families.  Maybe that is why I enjoy ActiveRain so much... reading everyone's stories.

Beautiful post.

9:03pm • #13
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Mara you are funny:) I am glad I have been able to help you along the way! Anytime....just ask:)

6:41am • #14
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Mara, such a beautifully written post and such a beautiful picture. This was just what I needed to help me relax from a hectic day. Thank you so much for the wonderful post.

7:33pm • #16
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Mara - what a wonderful post!  Written just beautifully and the presentation is great too.  The photo of the child looks very relaxing to me.  Nice job!!

8:46pm • #17
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Lovely Mara; just lovely!

Now featured on the Optimist Group.

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Mara

What a great post and so well spoken. Transparency is an element that one does not get distorted once they identify it in it's entirety. You have a wonderful way of letting people focus on the need for that. Thank you.

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Shirley - Thanks for the complete quote from Corinthians...it is truly a wonderful meditation for transparency.  From your grandmother's stories, you know how enriching and powerful they can be, and how essential these yarns are for knitting families and communities together. I really do love reading the stories shared here on AR, and I appreciate you!.

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Bill - thank you! ;-)

Toula - your "rose" always tells a little bit of yur story, your offering of gentleness and beauty in your work. Thanks for stopping by here---and for the beauty of the rose.

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Suesan - Thank you for your lovely comment, and I'm glad it brightened your day ;-)

April - watching children play always inspires me...this photo is of my grandson. Thank you for stopping by!

 

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Mirela - Oh boy! A favorite group! Thank you!

Tom - Thank you! I love how you say: "Transparency is an element that one does not get distorted once they identify it in it's entirety." It doesn't necessarily mean that all the answers will become evident, but it DOES mean that we can at least begin asking the right questions, as distorted perceptions transform into clearer understanding. Thanks for stopping by, and have a great weekend.

8:18am • #23
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Mara, as you are one of the bright spots here, I am ever thankful that our paths have crossed.  Some people laughed at Hillary Clinton when she wrote that it takes a village to raise a child, but it resonated with me.  It's so true of all of us though.  Active Rain is like a village and each time we reach out, our hands come back full of good wishes, advise, laughter and encouragement.  Your writing is poetic and beautiful.  xxoo

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Susan, thank you for your beautiful comment. And you are one of the best reasons for being here on ActiveRAIN! I love your image here of hands...full of good wishes, wisdom and goodheartedness...I appreciate you...xox

9:44pm • #25
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Haven't seenyou in a while -hope you're not avoiding me cause i accidentally erased your post :-((((

11:48pm • #26
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You have a brilliant way with words and it even carries into your comments.  Your comments are like mini posts!  I'm glad I found you, you are truly inspiring.

8:57am • #27
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I joined ActiveRain in April 2007, too! I did a couple of things here and there until July 2008 when I came back full time and have only regretted three minutes of my time back.

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Liz - well now you know my haitus was a lot of wedding planning...are we having fun yet? YES!

Sharon - Thank you for your kind words and for stopping by here. I'll be by to visit you soon!

Russell - LOL! Thanks for pulling this up to read. I really enjoyed sharing this!

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