There was an article in my local paper this morning about the plethora of "Town Hall" meetings being held across the country and how they are evolving!

More and more people are expressing concerns that these have become nothing but shout-fests and mantra chanting gatherings. There is no "Listening" going on.

I, personally am seeing them from two perspectives.....

I am a born and bred New Englander and these are like no Town Meeting I ever attended (and I have attended my share). I am accustomed to having the Moderator recognize the questioner who stands up and says his piece. There are always a few moans and groans....even shouts...but he is allowed to finish and whomever has a raised hand, is recognized and allowed to rebut (or agree). Each person is recognized and heard no matter what the opinion. If shouting ensues....the gavel is vigorously wielded until there is silence.

AS a Realtor I am involved in written and verbal negotiations in every transaction. My job is to do the best for my client and at the same time try to ensure a smooth transaction for all concerned.
If I allowed my negotiations to be reduced to shouting at the other Agent or to making lengthy demands of the other party.....my closings would fall apart.

I am constantly counseling my clients- Buyer or Seller- that respecting the other person and where they are coming from helps to create a plan that both can be happy with.

So I'm thinking....perhaps those protesters who have chosen to shout out  would be more effective if they learned how to communicate.

Where's Dale Carnegie when you need him?

Concord NH Area Realtor