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To be a good salesperson or marketer, you will need to master different sales negotiation skills. These skills serve as your weapons against other negotiators and difficult customers. You’ll need them to land today’s sales and ensure future ones as well.

As long as you have good sales negotiation skills, you’ll be able to meet your daily quota. Having such abilities can also come in handy in different situations as well. Here are some of those important skills and how you can develop them


picSales Negotiation Skills # 1: Building Rapport

This means getting your clients to trust you and feel more at ease with you. I cannot tell you the number of times customers often choose good sales negotiators over good prices.

A person of an unpleasant countenance with a good-priced product is no match for a person of nice manners with a slightly-more-expensive product. If the client can afford the slightly-more-pleasant product, they will buy that instead.

So how do you develop this skill? Copy the actions and words of your counterpart. If they use their hands when speaking, do the same. If they use the words “gorgeous” or “awesome” often, include those words when you’re talking to them. However, do this tactic subtly, where they won’t notice that you’re intentionally doing such actions.

This is very powerful because you’re subconsciously implying that you’re very much like them; and as you probably already know, people tend to trust and like those who are similar to them in some ways.

picSales Negotiation Skills # 2: Knowing How To Say “No”

Sometimes, you can say, “Let me ask my supervisor,” or “I’ll see what I can do” to give clients the impression that you’re doing your best to meet their demands. However, it’s also important to note that some instances require you to say “no” outright.

When you know that their request will be impossible to grant, don’t dilly dally any longer. Don’t waste your time and your client’s time if you’re absolutely certain that their request will not be allowed.

Quite surprisingly, many people find it difficult to say “no” to others. To strengthen your resolve, you’re going to have to think through all your decisions before saying “yes” to all of them. This way, the word won’t feel too alien on your tongue.

To avoid any hard feelings, make it look like saying “no” was a matter of circumstance, not of choice. They will then associate the rejection on the situation, and not on you or your product.

picSales Negotiation Skills # 3: Being a Good Listener.

Even if you think you’ve heard it a million times, listen like this is the first time you’re hearing it. Being a good listener shows that you respect your clients. It will also give you valuable hints on what your customer is looking for.

To develop your listening skills, I suggest clearing your mind of any other thoughts and maintaining eye contact so you can focus solely on the person talking.

Everyone can do better with these sales negotiation skills. So even if you’re not in the industry, I suggest you adopt these skills to help you overcome some of your weaknesses.
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137 Comments on 3 Crucial Sales Negotiation Skills That Could Explode Your Income

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Great advice.  We cannnot forget to listen!  God Bless you.

6:49am • #1
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Pat, Good advice.  Most of my initial contacts are by phone and I need to make people feel at ease speaking with me.  I am not one for keeping it too business like and find they relate much better as the conversation progresses.  And I'm not one to make promises... that's a really important point you made.

6:59am • #2
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Hi Marcia-Thank you and God Bless you. :-)

Hi Carole-Thank you and I agree about keeping it too business. We are just people like anyone. :-)

7:03am • #3
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Patty P!  What sound advice you've given here!  I think those who tend to forget about building rapport quickly find themselves with little or no business--it's all about building that and TRUST!  How many times have we heard that we need to be their 'trusted real estate advisor.'  Those words mean more than one can say!

Have a wonderful weekend...

Debe in Charlotte

7:43am • #4
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Good tips to remember.  Saying no can be the hardest part sometimes!

7:56am • #5
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Pat, first I must say that I like your background on your blog.  Yes, I agree we need to listen to our clients.  I hear it all the time, "you are the Realtor, and I trust, you".....IF they, the clients, are ready to trust...then by all means listen to what they have to say.

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Oh Pat, you just reminded me of my greatest weakness.  I have a very hard time saying no in business situations.  It's been a lifelong battle.  Someone makes a request and I say, "Sure!"  In my personal life, I've gotten past this (luckily).  But still need help in business life.

(Although, once a relo client asked if I would go to a Wal-Mart 1/2 hour away and get the school supply lists for each of her four children.  I was able to say no to that one.)

Happily, I think I've got #1 and #3 down.  So if I can get over myself in #2, I'll be sailing!

Thank you for your pinpoint post.

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Hi Pat:

You're right...

These are three key points in Negotiating!

And a lot of other things too, in fact...

7:58am • #8
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Hi Pat -- You are so right on the concept and steps -- I have studied Principled Negotiations quite a bit, read Getting to Yes and have practiced these concepts to great success.

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Hi Debe-Thank you so much. I hope you are doing well and have a great weekend yourself. :-)

Hi Bob-You just have to do that sometimes. Thanks for the comment. :-)

Hi Rebecca-Thank you. I am glad you like it. Have a wonderful weekend. :-)

Hi Kathryn-You just have to do that for your sanity. Thank you for the comment. :-)

Hi Toula-I couldn't agree more. Have a super weekend. :-)

8:14am • #10
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Hi Chris-Thank you for your comment. :-)

8:19am • #11

Hi Pat,

Good business makes good sense.  Thanks for the post.

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Hi Pat !

These are fabulous tips, and I have a subscribed to these for a long time and wish that others did too !

... so hopefully they are reading your blog :o)

Great job Pat !

Sheldon

8:30am • #13

Wow Pat, this was a pretty powerful post you wrote. The skill set you've laid out so nicely for us to read will come in handy in all situations of day to day life, thank you!

8:36am • #14
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I never try and say I will ask when its a dire question. I may need to think about it but I usually offer up a yes or no answer. No confusion in that!

8:42am • #15
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Hi PAT!! Great post and so glad it received a well deserved star I am especially fond of number 2! Have a great weekend!

OK...being a good listener is also important too and frankly this whole post is absolutely spot on!

8:42am • #16
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If you can't get the horse to drink after you lead him to water, it is an academic exercise. 

8:56am • #17
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Great post Pat! Useful information. Congrats on the featured post!

9:02am • #18
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Wonderful advice!  In today's market we must get back to the basics.

9:09am • #19
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Hi pat...I couldn't agree more with your wise post buddy...keep it up!

9:20am • #21
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Thank you Pat, you picked the top three in my book, especially being able to say NO and be ready to stand up for your reasons and why!

9:38am • #22
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Right on the money. Being a good listener can help build rapport. 

9:47am • #23
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Great points. If I could add to the list: be tenacious, but pleasant (never lose your cool).

9:53am • #24
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Really these are basic skills but we all need the reminder that they are needed to be mastered.

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Pat - this is a well deserved feature, given the importance these traits play in our working relationships, not just with clients, but others as well. The rapport beuilding seems so critical, and if you have that rapport saying NO will be so much easier, and folks will respect you for saying it even if they don't like the answer.

Jeff

10:27am • #26
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Hi Pat,

Thank you for posting this valuable information.  When meeting new people letting them talk and listening to them before responding is a great way to build rapport.

Sharon

10:58am • #27
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I agree. These are three big ones for negociating. I think that building rapport is the most important. If you have that it makes everything a lot easier

11:07am • #28
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Hi Pat - you picked 3 really important ones!  If only agents would use these 3 consistently  - WoW - their busienss would take off  fast. Listening to me, is a biggy for many agents.  Too many agents talk talk talk and they don't listen OR ask the right questions -- and then listen some more!

Congrats on the shiny gold star!

 

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I think number 3 should be number 1 on most peoples list. So many people just like to talk about themselves  or "sell" themselves they forget to listen to the client.

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Listen Listen Listen!  Thank you for the great post! 

12:04pm • #31

Great advice - Going along the same lines as saying no - Being honest with someone and saying "you may not be the right fit for us." For example - We help people purchase income property nationwide. We run into investors who are looking for property which we do not specialize in, or maybe it is not the best time financially for them to invest. This shows you are looking out for their best interest and does not give you a bad name if you put them into a situation they did not want.

Another good one - asking them questions. Such as "is this the one thing holding you back from investing today?" This isolates their concern in order for you to solve that problem and encourage them to take action right away!

12:19pm • #32

Pat,
I agree we have had to to think through a lot decisions before saying "yes" to maintain our quality of work. I don't believe saying "no" is ever easy;especially, being in the service business. I believe learning how to say "no" is an art.

1:09pm • #33

Thank you for sharing such good advice.  I practive all three advices because without it my business will not flourish.

1:14pm • #34
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Great advice for successful negotiating.  I love your blog wallpaper, as well.

1:23pm • #35
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Pat,

Listening, I have found is a lost art.....talking too much is what most do.

Ann

1:53pm • #36
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Pat, thank you for the tips, especially number 3.

1:56pm • #37

Great Advice. Thank You!

Jason David Maddox
2:00pm • #38

Excellent tips.  Instead of building rapport, in my book Create A Great Deal, the Art of Real Estate Negotiating,  I emphasze building trust, but it has many of the same features.  Listening is critical in most of negotiating, particularly in developing a collaborative relationship with your counter part (normally the other Realtor).  You for the post.

Tim Burrell
2:05pm • #39

Pat,

Super advice and absolutely what I have to always keep in mind. No is sometimes a hard statement! Thanks!!!

2:07pm • #40

Good blog with good info - all things there are important...

2:08pm • #41

Mam:

   I could not agree more we need to remember that we are in the people business and that we are here for the client and it is their needs that we need to meet. Be a good listen  and build rapport with the client and you will have a client for life. ......Great post

Ed Aquino
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It takes this and a lot of practice to be a good negotiator.  Nice post with helpful illustrations.

2:14pm • #43
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Great advice.  I love the one about saying No.  I've said it when people want a really low commission rate, and  generally they back away.  I

2:14pm • #44
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Good info.  I think the most valuable thing you said is "LISTEN".  So many people in sales think their "pitch" is the most important thing and then can't even tell you what the prospects said.  They're so busy talking they forget to listen.

2:15pm • #45
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Good tips, especiallly number 3.

2:18pm • #46

Pat,

Great post! Negotiating skills are so tied to psychology, and people love to trust someone they can connect with, ie, themselves! lol

Another queue you can use is if the person is looking to their right, they are making up an answer. If they are looking to the left, they are trying to recollect something that actually happened. If your client is looking to the right, they may not be comfortable with you or want to share the whole story with you. You'll know you have to change your strategy or earn more trust before getting the whole answer.

Thanks for the great reminders!

Shelly
www.MorSystems.com

 

2:23pm • #47

I really like this... We all know... we just all need to hear it over and over again... Thanks for bring it to our attention...

Jerry Biesboer
2:26pm • #48

Fantastic advice, it would do us all a great service to our clients as well, if we treat each other the same way. Agent to agent we sometimes tend to see situations only from our client's side. It's just as important to let each side understand everyone's position - and end up with a win-win goal.

When dealing in a multiple offer situations, I believe when we treat the listing or buyer's agent with mutual respect, we can put more deals together. Listening and building rapport with everyone works wonders in all business relationships including the escrow officers, their assistants, transaction coordinators, title servicers, lenders, appraisers, etc. we should treat everyone with kind words. Why stop with just our clients?

Lisa Hayashi Century 21 Award, San Diego
2:33pm • #49
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Great Post, thanks for the tips.  Hope you have a sunny weekend.

 

David

2:34pm • #50

Great advice Pat, especially listen, listen and listen.  That's just another way to build rapor and trust.

2:42pm • #51
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Working with a pleasant person, who actively listens and tells you the way it is - with no sugar coating, and not afraid to say no.  It's really quite simple - thank you for bringing us back to basics.

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Those are good skills.  If you have to check with someone else too often the quit checking with you and you can become a door mat.

2:50pm • #53

Hey, that's me!  Now if I can find some buyers, I'm back in business again.  LOL

 

 

Eddie Palmer
2:53pm • #54

Solid advice all around.  As long as we convince the Seller that we are first a business.  I had a business savvy patriarch dig in on his List Price even though his two adult children were more aligned with me.  Rapport was there as was listening.  Finally the gentleman took my advice.  I came up 5% and he came down 20%.  His daughter, an attorney, chided him for being so hard nosed.  The father smiled and said "I just wanted to see what our Realtor was made of".  We sold and closed the property in 88 days at 96% of List Price.  Touchy-feeling may make every one feel good about themselves but its a contract that creates wealth - and referrals.

John Parce
3:02pm • #55
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This means getting your clients to trust you - This is the biggest reason people don't succeed in sales.  I have a friend who is new to sales and can't understand why no one is willing to listen to him.  He hasn't earned credibility with what he is trying to sell or TRUST.  Thank you for this post!

3:05pm • #56

No.  Did I say that at the right time?

As an agent I like to talk, but I find that by shutting up and listening I accomplish so much more.  Great job and thank you for the reminder and the motivation!

3:09pm • #57
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I have a problem saying no.  Your tips are really interesting.  I have taken several classes about the DISC personalities and what you are suggesting goes along with what they teach.

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With all of the communication vehicles out there (facebook, myspace, linkedin, texting, etc) these days, I truly believe that most people have forgotten how to LISTEN in conversations.  If we can master this we can truly stand above the competition and be successful.  Thanks for the reminder!

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I do agree with your #2&3 statements but I have to say that I think folks might think you somewhat disingenuous if you try to emulate their personality traits. I have a difficult time trying to step out of who I am. I think folks actually appreciate strong individualism and people just being themselves. Please don't take that as a criticism or a slam on you. I just think folks know when you're real and if you try to take on another persons personality I think they will see through that. I know when folks are trying to emulate me and it makes me feel a little uncomfortable. Just a thought.

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Hi Pat, Well friend, you are looking pretty sparkly yourself with that little gold star! While it is difficult to say "no", sometimes it is necessary, and I believe people do respect you for telling them the truth- even if they don't want to hear it at the time.  All three really good points - thanks Pat!

3:30pm • #62

I would like to add something to your 3rd advice on listening.

Listening is actually hearing and understanding what the client is saying. It is not just "shutting-up" and waiting for our turn to speak.

3:39pm • #63

Love this blog.  Another view: Alot of us Realtors get into trouble always saying "yes",  to the client that wants somthing out of your field of competence, some of us in a smaller community say "yes" to every buyer, no matter what they are purchasing, investor, single family home, commerical, farm and ranch, etc.  You''re not a specialized professional in all of these fields, so stay with the ones  that you are competent in or get a competent person to assist you.  You can always refer them to someone else. We sometimes want the whole pie. It's so hard this "no" word. But so good for us in so many ways. Great background.

Peggy Connally
3:55pm • #64
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Good reminders for most of us that need it.  Thanks a lot.

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Hi Everyone-I appreciate so much everyone's comments. They are appreciated and the different ways of looking at it. Have a wonderful weekend. :-)

4:59pm • #66
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Hi Pat, Yes these are wise negotiating tools. thank you for sharing. It is hard to say no sometimes. I am still working on this. 

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5:19pm • #67

Good post, I agree and try to use these steps especially during the first meeting.  I find that when I use these steps, and have a well pulled together presentation, then I tend win over the client.

5:37pm • #68
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These are good points for any salesperson, regardless of the industry they are in.

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Ginger,Gloria and Bev/Bob. Thank you for your comments. :-)

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Hi Pat, Negotiating skills are often the difference between being successful and not.  I've found that I learn a lot more while listening than talking !

6:16pm • #71

Pat,

Good advice.  The best thing you can do is make your customers feel like people not just a sale.  You can be a great negotiator but if you treat your customers like just another sale, you will not get far in this business.

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Hi Bill and Nicholas.-I totally agree. Thank you for the comment. :-)

6:30pm • #73

Great blog Pat!  I need to read this regularly to stay on focus to your points. Thanks!

Tony

6:51pm • #74
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Pat - What a well deserved feature!  This is a post that new agents and even us seasoned ones should read.  These are skills that can't be learned overnight and must be developed through our day to day interaction not only with our clients but with our peers, friends and family.

6:56pm • #75
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thank you Tony and Donna-Have a great weekend. :-)

7:13pm • #76

Being a good listener is important it is about the client, not about the agent. What they want, what they need, what they expect. They can go to anyone and only want their needs taken care of. Saying 'no' is easy if proper and in the right contaxt.

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Being able to relate to your clients is incredibly important.  They need to know that you are a real person too.

8:28pm • #78
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Good post today.  Listening is "key"   If you don't listen you don't know what the buyer wants!

Patricia Aulson/portsmouth nh

8:58pm • #79
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Pat,

Knowing and understanding your client's bargaining position, is important at the outset. That sets the tone for appreciating the other side's position.

Brian

9:28pm • #80
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Pat: Such good advice for all of us as agents. The words think and listen are so powerful and it does not cost you one dime to listen or think through the situation ~ and the rewards can be priceless.

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Great advice and I love your wallpaper!  Check out my website: www.buywilliamsburghomes.com!

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Three very good tips that can be applicable not just in sales and business but in life as well.

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Some times it is best to know how to say NO... very good information

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Hi Pat -- great sound advice and how important to follow in this business.  I can tend to over talk when I should be listening!!  My husband constantly reminds me of this flaw!  When working with clients/customers I also think it's so important to under promise and than over perform.

Sue of Robin and Sue

1:06am • #85
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I really like your blog.  Those are great skills to work on.

2:19am • #86
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I really like your blog.  Those are great skills to work on.

2:19am • #87
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I really like your blog.  Those are great skills to work on.

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Pat, great tips! I will need to pass these on to my real estate friends. Congrats on the feature...

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5:37am • #89
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Thank you so much everybody-This response to this post is amazing. I so much appreciate all your opinions :-)and views. It is so simple yet so true. Have a fantastic weekend. ;-)

5:54am • #90
Teriffic advice! Runs parallel to the Certified Negotiation Expert Designation, course which I completed yesterday! There are always ways to improve ourselves. Great Blog.
Sher Wenowitz
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Hi again Pat, I'm thinking it looks as tho I should add ePro to my designation! I see that I didn't mention where I'm a Realtor. LOL Sher Wenowitz, 340-518-1791 ABR, CSP, ASP Stager, SRES, CNE Www.SoldBySher.com Realty Home Pride Canfield, OH (Near Youngstown)
Sher Wenowitz
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What a great reminder to many, Pat, and new points for some! Congrats on your gold star.

8:47am • #93
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I particularly like #3.  It's always been my approach to taylor my service to what the customer wants, and that can only be achieved by listening to them.  A very bright and colorful post.  Thank you.

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Hi Pat, Great post and a well deserved gold star to you!  You go girl! Listening is truly a gift, that not everyone has. And, it's so important to "hear" what the other person is saying. Negotiating skills in our profession are crucial to our success!  CONGRATS again and have a wonderful weekend!

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Great advice!  You are so right about this, particularly number 1.  There's alot to be said for bonding with clients AND other agents to get the job done easier.

10:29am • #96
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Hello Ladies-Thank you for the comments-It is amazing how something so easy can sometimes be so profound when put all together. Thank you for your support. Have a wonderful weekend. :-)

10:45am • #97

Thank you so much for your advice. I have a problem saying no, but find the problem only magnifies if I fail to do so. I have learnt that if a client can't understand any parts of the word NO then they will not understand many other things that I tell them. There has to be good communication between myself and my clients otherwise I can not be of service to them.

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Tom-You are most welcome. :-)

1:00pm • #99
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Very good advice! Being able to say NO is something not all agents know how to do.

2:52pm • #100

Great information.

3:03pm • #101

Great blog on being able to identify the top three keys.  Excellent article.

3:41pm • #102
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Thank you Erica and Mike :-)

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I love your wallpaper on your blog! Loud and proud for the Lord! Great tips too.  The mirroring is usually a great one, though I had a client last week who was hungover....

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Great blog Pat, you said,

"When you know that their request will be impossible to grant, don’t dilly dally any longer. Don’t waste your time and your client’s time if you’re absolutely certain that their request will not be allowed."

Too many agents will allude that they can do something for a client when in fact they know they cannot.  Unfortunately when an agent says "maybe" to a client the client hears "YES".  It is much better to be very clear with a client.  Clients appreciate direct honest answers.  Thanks again.

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Hi Amy-That wallpaper is one of my fav pics. Glad you like it. You find all types of clients. :-)

5:50pm • #106
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Hi Damon I am glad you liked it. Thank you for your comment. :-)

5:52pm • #107
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Pat..... simple yet powerful tips that we all should take note of.

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Great advice!  Thanks for sharing and congrats on the feature!

7:03pm • #109
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Hi Brad and Emily-Thank you I am glad you enjoyed them. :-)

7:11pm • #110
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Pat,  Really great advice.  Thanks you so much for your post.  Sometimes we need a reminder.

8:08pm • #111
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Hi Yvette & Dennis-You are welcome. Thank you for the comment. :-)

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Simple rules, effective and powerful.  Thanks for the reminder!

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Being able to say NO is the toughest for some women I've noticed. And why getting told no from a women is different from a man?  Women come across as being pushy while men do not.  Go figure.

11:44am • #114

Great post, Pat.  I can't get enough information regarding negotiation skills!

Take care,

DeeDee Riley

5:25pm • #115
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Pat,

As a new Realtor I appreciate all the help I can get. These ideas will help me better service my customers.

Thanks, Dave

7:33pm • #116
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Slyvia, Lyn, Dee Dee and Dave-I am glad you liked this. It is so simple yet so true. Thank you for your comments. :-)

9:16pm • #117
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Lack of any of the three negotiation skills you discussed in your post can be detrimental to one's business...not just real estate of course.  Great advice, I really like #1.

11:38pm • #118
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Thank you Patricia. I appreciate you stopping by. :-)

11:43pm • #119
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Hi Pat, great post.  These are trued and tried and well worth repeating!  Thank you for the reminder.
Trish Giassa, www.OwnCB.com

 

12:08am • #120
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You are welcome Trish :-)

12:29am • #121
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To me, listening is the most important skill. Only when we completely understand the other party can we appropriately respond and move forward.

12:30am • #122
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John-I agree totally. Thank you for visiting. :-)

6:12am • #123

Thanks for the tips

7:28am • #124

Wow Pat!!  what an overwhelming response you've rec'd!  simple, yet sound advice, thx!

TJ
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Love your wallpaper on your blog.  Good rapport is so important.  I find being assessible along with good rapport to be key for me.  I am told frequently when writing an offer that, "My previous agent would not return my calls," or, "The listing agent never got back to me." 

10:15am • #126

Listening well should save a lot of time :) and help build that much needed trust. Thats the same type of expectation I have from my doctor, so that she can do the right thing for me.

10:24am • #127

I agree with you 100%.  Great post and great reminder to we troopers in the customer service field.  After all, that's what real estate is!

1:47pm • #128

I have to say no all the time.... I would love to say yes...

Jesse
6:14pm • #129

Great summation of what our industry encompassess!  -D

6:17pm • #130
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Hi Everybody-I am amazed and overwhelmed at the response this post has received. Thank you all so much. I appreciate it a LOT. Have a wonderful week. :-)

12:38am • #131
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Thank you Pat for the great reminder!

Often times we get so caught up in our business we do forget to listen! How can our clients trust us when we do not hear what they are saying?In order for us to provide our clients with the best service, we must say no! Especially if we are listening to their needs and wants, no sometimes is the honest answer! In turn "no" helps builds the trust that keeps them as loyal clients.  

Awesome post! ; )

12:45am • #132
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Stephanie-Thank you so much for the comment and compliment. :-)

12:51am • #133
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Great advice!!  I believe listening is the most important!!  If we truely listen to someone's needs it will make them feel important and in turn help build their trust with you.

Thank You!

8:55am • #134
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Hi Megan-Thank you and I agree that is true. You are welcome.

7:22pm • #135
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Pat,

Thank you so much for your advice.

Teodolinda
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Very nice post, Pat.  It is so important to quiet our minds and really focus on what someone is telling  us.

9:47am • #137
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Great advice. I agree 100%

12:25pm • #138

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