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I heard someone say recently that they were entitled to speak their mind because "that's what America is all about".  This person was describing an ugly closing where both agents were shouting at each other and disparaging one another's competence.  You would think that someone who had earned a PhD in Business would have shown more maturity and self-control, but obviously, even well-educated people may lash out at others and place blame, instead of focusing their efforts on finding solutions.  

In America, we appreciate our freedoms and guard them carefully. We sometimes forget that along with freedom comes the need to act maturely and responsibly and not impinge on others' freedoms.  No one wants to hear an angry dispute that degrades into name-calling, especially in a professional setting.  And who wants work with someone who loses self-control under stress?

Comments (7)

Chris Hill
Century 21 New Millennium - California, MD
Your Southern Maryland Real Estate Professional

You do have the right to speak your mind, and it may affect others, but sometimes the time and setting are important.. In my humble opinion both agents were not living up to their fudiciary responsibilities to their clients. Thanks for you post.

Aug 27, 2009 11:32 PM
C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

I am so re-blogging you. :-)

Aug 27, 2009 11:35 PM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Colleen, you are so right.  I try very hard to keep my mouth shut when I have negative things to say and always complement others when possible.  I try not to be confrontational as it just doesn't normally accomplish anything.

Aug 27, 2009 11:44 PM
Steve Loynd
Alpine Lakes Real Estate Inc., - Lincoln, NH
800-926-5653, White Mountains NH

Colleen... If I recall one of the simplest lessons in business school, was Praise in Public and criticize in private. These displays of poor professionalism are one of the things we all get labeled with as Realtor, when a few agents can't hold their temper for a better place and time.

Aug 27, 2009 11:47 PM
Harry F. D'Elia III
WEDO Real Estate and Beyond, LLC - Phoenix, AZ
Investor , Mentor, GRI, Radio, CIPS, REOs, ABR

Keep your negative thoughts to yourself. Furthermore, do not argue with a fool. Grandpa told me this a long time ago.

Aug 27, 2009 11:59 PM
Michael Setunsky
Woodbridge, VA
Your Commercial Real Estate Link to Northern VA

Colleen, I wonder what the clients were thinking when this was going on. Not very professional at all.

Aug 28, 2009 12:27 AM
Joe Manausa - Tallahassee, FL
Joe Manausa Real Estate - Tallahassee, FL
Tallahassee Real Estate

Have you ever noticed that the first person who claims "I have the right to ..." is typically somebody who has not done anything to earn it other than be born in the USA?

Sep 03, 2009 12:47 PM