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You do Remember Why We do This Right?

By
Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker 69190

The Sun also Rises I hear and read a lot these days about how difficult the business of real estate has become. How hard it is to remain motivated in the face of eternal detriment as the hand of today's economy. How short sales, foreclosures, and frightened public perception of the distorted American Dream has drained the life from what we once considered fun.

 But did you forget so quickly that beyond the trappings of business you are also the guide to a brand new life? The sometimes you are beyond blessed by your ability to ingrain your occupation into the lives of real life people, known as clients, who beyond the obstacles of the modern day forge a brand new life that you have a hand in creating. It shouldn't be so hard to remember that you have one of the greatest opportunities in the world and you spend all your time referring to it as a job or just another career in the midst of volitile complacency that has engulfed our existence.

 

Remember Happiness Remember that frightened excitement of the last family that relocated to your area?Remember that the nervous energy was a power that you could feel in the air and it was almost electric? Everything had a life of it's own from the first phone call, to the hunt for the perfect new home, to the gut wrenching moments we wrote the contract, to the uncontrollable smiles as they received the key at closing. You were there every step of the way and there was nowhere you would rather be in the world.

 Remember those first time home buyers that could even decide why they called much less where to go from here. They just knew that had hopes, dreams, and the overwhelming desire to carve out their own spot in this world and they needed you to protect them in the process. And after all the headache, heartache, and sleepless nights they found the place that they just knew was right for them and there it was, one more welcome mat and Weber sold a new grill. Because this time, there would be no hanging out at the apartment or our house, but everyone would grill out in the backyard of their home. And you could see the smile involuntarily curling up from the edge of their lips every time they uttered the word.

 And you still think this is a hard thing to do? Well, in some ways of course it is, I'll take nothing away from the hard times of the world we face today. But can you remember the times that make it worth it? I sure can! And I consider myself far more blessed than cursed!

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Charles Perkins
Charles G. Perkins, CPA - Burien, WA

Well said,  it is always good to look back at why we do what we do.  If it was all about the money, then it will be hard at times.  If it was about helping people and doing something you love doing, then it pays to remind yourself so that you can refocus and continue to be happy with what you do. 

As a CPA, I enjoy helping businesses cut costs and save on taxes.

 

Aug 31, 2009 04:50 AM
Gene Riemenschneider
Home Point Real Estate - Brentwood, CA
Turning Houses into Homes

There is a real reward in helping people find that right home.

Aug 31, 2009 05:00 AM
Jirius Isaac
Isaac Real Estate &TriStar Mortgage - Kenmore, WA
Real Estate & loans in Kenmore, WA

Thank you so much for the touching reminder of why we really do so this job we do.  This was a great way to start a Monday morning.

Aug 31, 2009 05:12 AM
Anonymous
Colleen Kilfoil

Beautiful.  I loved it.  I love this job and you are so right that we are very blessed in the way we are able to assist people.  Thanks for writing

Aug 31, 2009 05:28 AM
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John Cannata
214-728-0449 http://TexasLoanGuy.com - Frisco, TX
Texas Home Mortgage - Purchase or Refinance

I think if people really sit back and think about the first time they bought a house or even a car... how they felt at that moment. The fact that you can help get that feeling to others is great. Good thoughts this afternoon JL.

Aug 31, 2009 06:41 AM
Beverly of Bev & Bob Meaux
Keller Williams Suburban Realty - West Orange, NJ
Where Buying & Selling Works

You said it sooooo well. We are a lynchpin in life. That's why I think people are so emotional about their opinions on dealing with a real estate agent.

Aug 31, 2009 06:59 AM
France and Mark Clausen
Realty Austin - Dripping Springs, TX

We deal with what for many people is the largest investment of their life. They put their trust in us to protect them, in many cases from themselves. It is up to us as proffesionals to maintain a level of expertise and knowledge as well as a positive attitude.

Aug 31, 2009 09:27 AM
Mike Henderson
Your complete source for buying HUD homes - Littleton, CO
HUD Home Hub - 303-949-5848

Great blog.  Nice to see that we are not just in it for the money and that peoples lives are at stake.

Aug 31, 2009 10:53 AM
Ginger Moore
Wilkinson & Associates Realty - Gastonia, NC

Yes I do need this reminder quite often. thanks for sharing!

Aug 31, 2009 12:21 PM
Claude Cross
Homes By Cross, Inc. - Charlotte, NC
Charlotte NC Homes For Sale

JL - truly there is a purpose that has a base other than a buck. There is a smile that I gain, with first time home buyers, that supersedes any dollar. Thanks for letting folks know we mostly are from the same cut

Aug 31, 2009 12:34 PM
Mark Velasco
West Shores Realty - Whittier, CA
Top Producing Broker Associate

I remember the fear of buying my first home over 10 years ago. I have never forgotten the courage that it takes to make the plunge. Nor have I forgotten the great feeling of ownership WITH equity!

Aug 31, 2009 05:36 PM
Christine Donovan
Donovan Blatt Realty - Costa Mesa, CA
Broker/Attorney 714-319-9751 DRE01267479 - Costa M

Though I may wail and do much nashing of teeth some days as I go through the process of getting my sellers' short sale homes sold or attempt to find out what's going on for one of my buyers, I truly enjoy what I do and feel great reward from it.

Aug 31, 2009 06:12 PM
Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
Real Estate Broker Retired

Very well said, you are wise beyond your years.  I will have to remember your 1st paragraphs.  Great post.

Sep 01, 2009 07:56 AM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate

Bill- It's great when it all comes together.

Sharon- They are often over looked when times are tough.

Florida- We are lucky to be in the business that we are. We get to see the good and the bad and help people through it all.

Marcia- Not a bad way at all.

Mike- Forgetting the bad would serve us all well.

Sep 03, 2009 06:21 AM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate

Mike- That can be a challenge itself my friend.

Cynthia- I was hoping that this one would touch someone.

Karen- You are very welcome.

Liz- Mine become my friends as well, and I like making friends.

Chris Ann- My work never bothers me. We are lucky and I see others complain all the time as well.

Sep 03, 2009 06:25 AM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate

Inez- We all need solutions to our issues, but once we get them we are good to go.

Tiffany- It has been tough, but in the end it will be worth it.

Marte- There's a lot of bad out there, but there's a lot of good too if you look for it.

Charles- This was a good reminder for me.

Gene- Yes there is.

Jirius- Glad I could help.

Sep 03, 2009 06:30 AM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate

Colleen- Yes we are.

John- I well remember my first home and how proud I was that it was mine.

Bev and Bob- These things will make people emotional for sure.

France and Mark- We need to be trusted by our clients and offer them expertise to lean on.

Mike- We shouldn't be, we should remember this is a people business.

Ginger- Well there you have it.

Sep 03, 2009 06:39 AM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate

Claude- I know that smile my friend, and you are right.

Mark- It is a feeling like no other.

Christine- I know what you mean.

Lyn- Thank you very much.

Sep 03, 2009 06:42 AM
Joan Snodgrass
Midamerica Referral Network - Kimberling City, MO

I just closed one of those perfect sales as this couple moved into the next phase of their life - lake life and retirement.  Joy unspeakable.

Sep 04, 2009 07:01 AM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate

Joan- I am looking forward to moving into that stage of my life someday.

Sep 04, 2009 07:19 AM