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Nothing is Further then your Own Backyard

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Home Stager with Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island #888

Every once in a while when I'm home, I catch a show I really like.  It's on the Discovery Channel and it's called "I Shouldn't be Alive."  It is done partly in reenactments and includes the people who have actually had some horrible experience where, statistically at least, they should not have been able to live through it.  Yet they did.  Some call it miraculous intervention, some call it very strong willpower and others call it sheer energy.  It's so intangible to some and so evident to others. 

If you watch until the end of the show you will discover most have gone on to write books about their experience or become a motivational speakers.  And there is a common thread among ALL of them.  They are always asked about how the experience has changed their lives and it has to every single one of them.  They are SO grateful and blessed to just get up in the morning and be ALIVE.  They view everything differently now.  And are thankful for every single minute.

I wonder, sometimes, why we have to go through such a traumatic experience or similar situation to appreciate life.  It was taught to us years ago that the more we count our blessings, the more we will get.  Even the blessings that come from a dark cloud----which I remember my Grandmother always telling me had a silver lining.  Too bad it took so many years for my Grandmother's advice and sayings to finally sink in.  It's sad as well that it will often take an accident, a tragedy or a serious illness to make us become grateful for all that we have and love. For everything we have been given to treasure that we see every day and somehow manage to look beyond until we don't see all the WONDERS anymore.  The wonderful thing is, you don't have to look for the good or happiness....didn't Dorothy say it's never further then your own backyard?

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Laura Cerrano is a second-generation Certified New York City Feng Shui Consultant Expert. As a full-time Feng Shui consultant, Laura provides bicoastal consultations and workshops for residential, commercial, real estate developments, Fortune 500 companies and healing faculties. In addition, Laura is a resident teacher at the Metropolitan Institute of Design in Syosset, NY. She has been featured in highly respected publications and TV networks such as Bravo's "Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen," PBS, CBC Television, BBC Radio and The New York Times. 

 

Comments(9)

Phyllis Pafumi
ReStyled to Sell Home Staging New Jersey - Old Bridge, NJ
ReStyled to Sell Staging Homes NJ

Hey Carole this is so true, we take so much for granted. We are all toooo busy to stop and smell the roses.

I too struggle with this and I wish for a simpler time. My grandson is acting up lately because he does not have my full attention because even when I am watching him, I am working. It is funny because I originally quit my job when he was born so I could spend time with him and look how it is turning out. It is hard to do it all but we should be living life as if it was our last day every day. To appreciate and love one another is key

Phyllis Pafumi 

Jun 13, 2007 04:10 PM
Jo-Anne Smith
Oakville, ON

Carole, I loved this post. I thoroughly ping with how you think, girl .

I've never seen the show since I don't watch television however it does sound interesting.  I have been very close to death 7 times in my life and on my way there numerous others. The 7 times that I was most close, I feel I was spared by some miraculous twist of fate. Some of the stories are absolutely unfathomable, as in a supernatural force intervening. When I look back at all of the things that have happened, I realize they have embedded in stone my belief that we are merely spiritual sparks of the greater energy, temporarily having a physcial experience. For this reason, I have great faith. I exist in the moment at all times. No matter the day, the hour, the moment, I know I am doing the exact thing I am meant to do and am in the exact place I am meant to be in.  Your last lines  drive  this whole concept completely home :

"It's sad as well that it will often take an accident, a tragedy or a serious illness to make us become grateful for all that we have and love. For everything we have been given to treasure that we see every day and somehow manage to look beyond until we don't see all the WONDERS anymore.  The wonderful thing is, you don't have to look for the good or happiness....didn't Dorothy say it's never further then your own backyard? "

Beautifully said and beautifully written. Thank you .

Jo 

Jun 14, 2007 12:05 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Phyllis, I too am looking back lately and wishing things were so easy again!  When you write I can think that you can take the Girl out of New York, but you can't take New York out of the Girl!  But how wonderful that you are enjoying your grandson....if I have any grandchildren in the future, they are a long way off :)

Jo, SEVEN times?  I hate to ask.....You surely have an angel watching over you!  I felt that only happened to me once, many years ago and I knew I was going to die.  And didn't of course.  It makes minutes more precious.

Jun 14, 2007 10:33 AM
Joan Mirantz
Homequest Real Estate - Concord, NH
Realtor, GRI, CBR, SRES - Concord New Hampshire

 

 Facing your own mortality puts a tangible value on life. Before then it's only observed. I believe it is a gift!

Jun 14, 2007 01:51 PM
Tom Braatz Waukesha County Real Estate 262-377-1459
Coldwell Banker - Oconomowoc, WI
Waukesha County Realtor Real Estate agent. SOLD!

Carole,

I enjoyed this post, and i do believe you are right that we have a gift to start with and it should be cherished. I suppose people get caught up with the rat race and it takes something intense to wake them up. Life is short, very short. We need to be happy for every day, every minute, everyone, and everything we have the chance to encounter.

Thank you

Tom Braatz

Jun 18, 2007 10:33 AM
Sheron Cardin
California Moods Inc - Selma, CA
ARTIST - A Home Stager/Sellers Best Friend!
Hey Carole - we live in a Universe of duality. Without experiencing opposites, we would never know how good  balance feels :)
Sep 14, 2007 02:55 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher
I know, Sheron, but I sure do love those balanced times when they're here!  HARMONY, a wonderful word.
Sep 14, 2007 04:59 PM
Rosario Lewis
DDR Realty - Newburgh, NY
GRI, SRES - DDR Realty - Orange County, NY
Little children seem to get it. They wonder at everything they see and do. With age a lot of us get jaded. That is when we need a wakeup call to bring us back to what we knew from the beginning.
Sep 15, 2007 12:07 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher
Rosario, You are absolutely right, it is so wonderful to be around children---they never miss the magic all around!  There is so much beauty all around every day and I don't want to miss any of it anymore.  Thank you for the comment.
Sep 15, 2007 02:46 PM