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You Want To Be A Real Estate Agent? You're Kidding Me!

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Real Estate Agent with Hal Sheeler, REALTOR with Better Homes & Gardens Real Estate - The Masiello Group NH 054714 VT 0820007102

After many years as a music educator, I "jumped into" the real estate field eight years ago.  My wife, son, and daughter all said "WHAAAAAAAAT? You'll hate it.  You're not a salesman." Well, eight years later they say "Who would'a thought."

My family was right that as soon as a "salesman" started a heavy duty sales "pitch" I would head in the other direction.  I had loved teaching and had learned a great deal from my students and colleagues.  One very basic thing that I had learned was that we respond best when someone is genuinely interested in us as a person, who listens, and works WITH us to reach beneficial goals and who is good humored. That has been my approach to real estate and I do enjoy it (most days - not too keen on septic inspections). I try to make it fun, to use a "light touch."

As a REALTOR in the Dartmouth College, Sunapee, Upper Valley area of New Hampshire and Vermont I have had the opportunity to meet, work with, become friends with fine people from all over the world. I have been fortunate to work with many clients with amazing senses of humor, who like to laugh and have fun during the process of buying or selling real estate. I have tried to avoid the kind of high pressure sales pitches that I dislike and to not take myself too seriously. That doesn't mean that I don't work work hard for my clients or have days when everything "blows up" and think "what am I doing here?"  But the good days far outweigh the bad on the balance scales. 

Still involved with music, I direct the choral group, Bel Canto Chamber Singers and have worked on productions of the North Country Community Theatre and Opera North. 

But I like being a REALTOR.  No kidding!

Hal Sheeler
Century 21 Energy Shield Realty
Hanover, New Hampshire

http://www.HalSheeler.com
http://www.Homes-In-Hanover-NH.com
http://www.BelCantoSingers.com

 

Michael Bergin
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - ABR - SRES - Alexandria, VA
Northern Virginia Real Estate

Hal -

How nice to hear a postiive upbeat story.  Selling comes in many shapes and sizes and I dare say that as an educator you did your own fair share of selling  - you just may not have known it - but now you do!

Sep 12, 2009 08:48 AM
Michael Bergin
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - ABR - SRES - Alexandria, VA
Northern Virginia Real Estate

Hal -

How nice to hear a postiive upbeat story.  Selling comes in many shapes and sizes and I dare say that as an educator you did your own fair share of selling  - you just may not have known it - but now you do!

Sep 12, 2009 08:50 AM
Michael Bergin
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - ABR - SRES - Alexandria, VA
Northern Virginia Real Estate

Hal -

How nice to hear a postiive upbeat story.  Selling comes in many shapes and sizes and I dare say that as an educator you did your own fair share of selling  - you just may not have known it - but now you do!

Sep 12, 2009 08:51 AM
Michael Bergin
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - ABR - SRES - Alexandria, VA
Northern Virginia Real Estate

Sorry Hal, not sure what happened here.

Sep 12, 2009 08:51 AM
Bryan Fagan
Law Office of Bryan Fagan - Houston, TX

Great story thanks for sharing, Congratulations a lot of us come from different walks in life.

Sep 12, 2009 08:59 AM
Patricia Aulson
BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOME SERVICES Verani Realty NH Real Estate - Exeter, NH
Realtor - Portsmouth NH Homes-Hampton NH Homes

I agree we Realtors are there to help buyers and sellers through the process. Your particular background will probably help you guide people along the road to a closing. 

Patricia Aulson/portsmouth nh homes

Sep 12, 2009 09:42 AM
Barb Fischer
Big Block Realty - La Mesa, CA
San Diego and La Mesa Real Estate

Sales skills are always helpful/useful, but passion always rules!

Sep 12, 2009 09:57 AM
Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

Hal, I am so glad I read this post...I like being a Realtor and helping people buy and sale their property.

Sep 12, 2009 10:03 AM
Steve Lauver
Nebraska Realty - - Papillion, NE
Omaha Realty -- 402-689-7550

Very true.  I don't consider myself a salesperson, but a real estate advisor.

Sep 12, 2009 10:16 AM
David A. Wheeling
RETIRED as of June 15, 2013 - Morganton, NC
After 30 yrs in real estate, I am now Retired

I have enjoyed practicing real estate for 26 years now. I don't know any other thing thing I would enjoy as much. I don't think of it as a job, it's my career. I don't sell real estate, I advise buyers and the property sells itself.

Sep 12, 2009 10:36 AM
David O'Doherty
Clayton, NC
Clayton NC Homes, Raleigh, NC

Hal That's funny I always shied away from any sales type positions... I don't sell houses though I facilitate the transaction that moves one family out and another in.

Sep 12, 2009 12:46 PM
Therese VanderMeer
Midwest Properties of MI - Grand Rapids - Jenison, MI
Realtor-Greater Grand Rapids, MI area communities

My friends and family had the same reaction when I changed careers 3 yrs ago.  It was the best thing I ever did! 

Your statement..."One very basic thing that I had learned was that we respond best when someone is genuinely interested in us as a person, who listens, and works WITH us to reach beneficial goals and who is good humored."  

That's what it's all about!  Great Post.

Sep 12, 2009 01:25 PM
Wanda Bond
Weichert, Realtors® - Brockwell & Portwood - Chester, VA
1st Choice for Selling Chesterfield & Central VA

I'm still waiting to see if becoming a Realtor was the best thing I ever did, but I "think" it's the best I've ever done.  The article was inspiration to me which is what I hope to get more of on Active Rain -- inspired commentary from colleagues who "can do!" 

Sep 12, 2009 02:51 PM
Cassi @ Knightyme Video Tours
Knightyme Video Tours - Lawrenceville, GA

Listening is an art. Great post.

Sep 12, 2009 04:35 PM
William James Walton Sr.
WEICHERT, REALTORS® - Briotti Group - Waterbury, CT
Greater Waterbury Real Estate

Although I haven't left teaching, I'm glad I'm a realtor, too, Hal. Wise decision you made there. And having your family's support (in spite of their skepticism) helps alot as well.

Sep 12, 2009 04:43 PM
Allison Stewart
St.Cloud Homes - Saint Cloud, FL
St. Cloud Fl Realtor, Osceola County Real Estate 407-616-9904

HAL- What a lovely story!  You bring a special skill set to this profession.  Many educators eventually find thei rway into selling Real Estate and it is a good fit.  People skills are essential to both professions, no wonder you enjoy it so much as do I.   Conversational salesmanship is much more effective than a hard sell any day! 

Sep 12, 2009 10:07 PM
Monica Bourgeau
Portland, OR
Business Coaching

We love being in real estate also and take a "teacher' or "consultative" approach and not a hard sales approach. If you really care about the people and not the commission, it shows and your clients know it, which only helps your business.

Sep 13, 2009 04:56 AM
Ann Cordes
Century 21 Randall Morris and Associates, Waco - Waco, TX
Home Ownership is Not a Distant Dream

Hal, that's the attitude to have. As my broker says " Come from contribution". 

Sep 13, 2009 08:19 AM
Anonymous
Rekon

It's interesting how many Realtors jumped in from other careers. I was in Public Affairs and Community Relations, so networking comes pretty naturally to me. Real Estate Channel

Sep 13, 2009 07:15 PM
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Sharon Parisi
United Real Estate Dallas - Dallas, TX
Dallas Homes

As a former educator, I like your approach to real estate.  It works!  Welcome to AR!

Sep 14, 2009 08:57 AM