Crimes Against Paint - Faux Finishing Edition

Hello, Julia!   What you say is, sadly, true in many situations.  My wife and I have been applying beautiful faux finishes for over twelve years together, and we have seen many examples of really bad taste in decorative painting efforts.  However, I encourage everyone NOT to "throw the baby out with the bath-water".  We always focus on offering toned-down colors and faux textures in our samples that, once applied, will prove to be of timeless, pleasing effect.  Unfortunately, mature taste is not born in most of us, and time and experience is required to really achieve finesse.  Fortunately, there are a few professional in the Decorative Painting industry, and also the Interior Design profession that DO have this developed exquisite taste, and are able to impart it to beginners like me.  I have been fortunate to see many high-end homes, and work with many excellent designers in three states.  By being around their work, and seeing the way they make decisions, I have witnessed multiple examples of what I would call Traditional Southern Style, and have learned to appreciate the very best---as well as the whole spectrum of taste that's out there.  We try to intuit our client's personal style--no matter what it may be--and give them a tasteful response that they will love.  In my opinion, the old LESS IS MORE idea is central.  Also, colors are easier to live with long-tern if they are toned-down---not so IN YOUR FACE, (such as the tried and true Historic Colors from Benjamin Moore).  Another way to tone-down is to use semi-transparent glazes that age and temper bright colors.  We have been able to alter a too-strong color (even reds) by applying a raw umber, or even black glaze with an antique leather look.  In this way, the impact of the color is enjoyed for it's boldness, while lowering the volume to a livable level.  A well-done faux finish is one that compliments everything in the room--without taking center-stage.  I want to encourage all who are interested in applying these finishes to keep on practicing and learning....we all get better with time--if we try.  Jim