Rules???  We don't need no 'stinkin' rules!

The more I write and publish to my blog here on ActiveRain and on SOUNDBITEBLOG, the more I realize there are no hard & fast rules for blogging, but simply opinions, preferences, and common sense social netiquette.

So let's start with Proper Netiquette, or, "Playing Fair in the Blogging Sandbox."

According to Wikipedia, "Netiquette is a catch-all term for the conventions of politeness and respect recognized on Usenet, in mailing lists, in live chat systems, and on other electronic forums such as Internet message boards. These conventions address the relationship between personal behavior and group phenomena, and outline a dynamic set of guidelines for conduct that is conducive to pleasant, efficient and agreeable interaction."

 

 

In her book, "The Core Rules of Netiquette," Virginia Shea suggests the following basic tenets:

  • Rule 1: Remember the Human: Basically, follow the Golden Rule and treat others as you would have them treat you.
  • Rule 2: Adhere to the same standards of behavior online that you follow in real life: A reminder to be ethical and to avoid any illegal behavior, such as copyright infringement or plagiarism (clip & paste).
  • Rule 3: Know where you are in cyberspace: There may be differences of behavior from one platform or forum to the next. Take time to observe how other members interact before taking the plunge.
  • Rule 4: Respect other people's time and bandwidth: I take this to mean writing good quality content, both in your posts and in your comments. Don't waste other people's time with meaningless banter. Don't clutter the platform with redundant self-promotion. Have respect for the founders/creators of the network, and abide by their guidelines.
  • Rule 5: Make yourself look good online: Yes, Virginia, good spelling and proper grammar ARE important. When you take a position of authority on a given point, be prepared to know what you're talking about and support your views. Don't post 'Flame Bait (a tactic used by those who want to draw attention to themselves by creating undue controversy or confrontation).
  • Rule 6: Share expert knowledge: Share freely from your pool of knowledge and experience. The ones who 'get' the most, are the very ones who 'give' the most.
  • Rule 7: Help keep flame wars under control: Notice she doesn't suggest that we refrain from flaming. The act of flaming has long been a tradition on social forums. They can actually be rather entertaining at times. And let's face it, some people deserve to be 'flamed!' But when they burn out of control, becoming intensely personal and damaging, it's wrong. 
  • Rule 8: Respect other people's privacy:  I think this probably relates more to e-mail privacy, but it could apply to gossip as well. And let's not forget unsolicited SPAM! (Has anyone ever 'solicited' SPAM?) 
  • Rule 9: Don't abuse your power: Just because you may know more than the next person or may have been doing something a little while longer than the rest doesn't make you any better, or necessarily establish you as the resident expert.
  • Rule 10: Be forgiving of other people's mistakes: Everyone has been a network Newbie at one time or another. Many of us have had the good fortune of meeting some polite, kind, and patient mentors along the way. We should follow their example by helping other new members.

On the HomePage of ActiveRain, the Founders have provided us with a wealth of Community Resources. Many of the articles contained on this resource page will give you a better understanding of what behavior is encouraged and discouraged here in the Rain.

Next time, we'll explore together whether or not any blogging 'rules' truly exist.

 
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136 Comments on Playing Fair in the Blogbox: "The Core Rules of Netiquette"

Great post, Rich!

One rule I can think of is that if you're commenting on people's blogs, it's ok to give your opinion if it differs, but you should not attack the person who wrote it just because their opinion is different.

06/15/2007 03:55 PM by Donna Harris, ASP (Re/Max HiNet)


I think there can never be any set in stone rules for real estate blogging, because each market is different.  The articles that I write are for MY target market.  My target market doesn't live in New York, Seattle, or California.  For that matter, another agent in my market might be writing to engage a segment of the population I don't serve.  If every book was written the same way, life sure would be boring!  I think we should celebrate our differences and not argue about what is better.  Sherry

06/15/2007 03:55 PM by Sherry Spengel | Wheaton IL (Prudential Spengel Realty)


Donna - one of the most vital aspects of this platform is the lively exchange of opinions and debate. What better way to solidify our convictions that to defend our position with others of differing viewpoints? We can civilly agree to disagree.

06/15/2007 04:03 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Sherry - it will be interesting, in the next post, to see what rules, if any, our collective membership feels apply....

06/15/2007 04:05 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Rich, yes, the average person can civillar agree to disagree, but there are others who feel attacking the person is better, and that's just wrong.

06/15/2007 04:05 PM by Donna Harris, ASP (Re/Max HiNet)


Donna - unfortunately, there are some really unhappy people who have nothing positive or constructive to say about anyone or anything.

06/15/2007 04:13 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Rich, nicely done =)  I didn't realize there's still a whole lingo I need to learn...flame bait..hmmm.  I like your desperado.

06/15/2007 04:24 PM by Palmetto Bay | Redland Real Estate | Maggie Dokic (EWM Realtors)


Maggie - The lingo varies between the varying layers. Hackers have a whole different vocabulary. Maybe we should start an ActiveRain glossary?

06/15/2007 04:26 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Darrel - especially the Community Resource post. Lots of really great stuff in there, from the Rain gods and fellow Rainers!

06/15/2007 04:31 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


It is bound to happen Rich - those "unwritten rules" are the ones that remain vague and some are even developed without our knowledge.  That's why it is important to stay on top of it....but we cannot be everywhere and know it all.  I think the best rule I've learned, and you are the perfect example of it is to be respectful at all times - it's in our nature and I know you will always be that way.

06/15/2007 05:07 PM by Rick & Ines - Miami Shores Real Estate (Majestic Properties)


Hi, Rich:

It surprises me that a list of rules has to be presented or created for people to behave towards each other here.  Aren't we all supposed to be professionals?  The members' blogs and comments, from giving SEO tutorials and teaching each other to navigate this site, reveal how people truly are in 'real' life--be it caring, giving, or just self-serving.  It is to be hoped though, that with repeated reminders just like yours, common courtesy and sense will prevail.  Thank you for keeping the discussion civilized.

P. S.  I think I just observed a 'flame bait' discussion not too long ago, but I could be wrong.  It's not the first time that happened.  LOL

06/15/2007 05:11 PM by Yolanda Hoversten - Metro East IL Real Estate (Prudential One Realty Centre)


Ines - you have always been among some of the finest examples to our membership of how to play fair in the Rain. You have opinions and convictions, but you always extend grace to everyone! I have especially appreciated how you have conducted yourself throughout the process of Project Blogger.

06/15/2007 05:12 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Yolanda - Whenever you throw 35,000 people into a social network, there's bound to be a few ruffled feathers. We are a very passionate group. We tend to have very strong opinions and convictions. We don't always handle our differences very well. Thus, some basic sandbox guidelines are a good way to remind us to play fair!

06/15/2007 05:17 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Darn.  I love a little meaningless banter.  It's such a nice break from the day.

06/15/2007 05:22 PM by Sarah Cooper (Real Estate Shows)


Sarah - okay, so we'll make an exception in your case! Perhaps we could start a new Group? "Meaningless Banter?"....have an awesome weekend!

06/15/2007 05:25 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Rich - it's been tough and I even wonder why I ever got involved. One thing for sure, I've developed a great friendship with my coach who happens to be a great guy and a great blogger and I've learned a lot.  Thanks for that, I needed the pat on the back.

06/15/2007 05:27 PM by Rick & Ines - Miami Shores Real Estate (Majestic Properties)


Sorry to take this off topic Rich, but you started it..... Ines, the only good thing I have gotten from the little I followed Project Blogger were the posts you wrote.  You shared everything you were learning and I appreciated that, as I am sure others did.  Rich is right.  You are one class act.  Rich, you can have your post back now =)

06/15/2007 05:32 PM by Palmetto Bay | Redland Real Estate | Maggie Dokic (EWM Realtors)


Wait, wait!  Ines?  Me, too!!  OK, Rich, now you can have it back.  :o)  (Like the Meaningless Banter Group idea!)

06/15/2007 05:34 PM by Sarah Cooper (Real Estate Shows)


Rich, great post.  Yolanda is right, it is a shame that we need to be presented a list of common curtesies that every professional should understand inherently.  Thank you for bring what should be understood front and center.

 

Ines, you have a giant GOLD STAR over your head!  You go girl!

 

Janie 

06/15/2007 05:41 PM by Janie Coffey, GRI - Equestrian Real Estate (Janie Coffey and Papillon Real Estate, LLC)


AAAAaaaaahh!  You guys are going to make me cry <snif, snif>   OK..... 

((((((((((GROUP HUG)))))))))))

06/15/2007 05:45 PM by Rick & Ines - Miami Shores Real Estate (Majestic Properties)


No rules. Just go ole' common sense and politeness is all that's required.

06/15/2007 05:54 PM by Bryant Tutas-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc


As always Good Advice Rich. He I know the movie that pic came from! It was in the movie "THE TREASURE OF THE SIERRA MADRE (1948)" starring Humphrey Bogart. Great line!

06/15/2007 06:22 PM by Danny Smith (DISCOVER TEXAS HOMES)


Love your set of rules Rich...and Ines a big hug is being sent your way from NH.

06/15/2007 07:02 PM by Monika McGillicuddy~REALTOR®~ N.H. Real Estate Broker & Trainer (Prudential Verani Realty/Hampstead)


Rich, even though I agree that there are no hard and rules to blogging, it is good to at least have a guide to take a peek at every once and a while.

What you have put together are all good concept to follow, and I think that most of the people on here do that, unfortunately there will always be a few that like to show everyone what a fool they can be.

 

06/15/2007 08:20 PM by George Souto (McCue Mortgage Co.)


Hi Rich-

As always, solid suggestions for conduct. This should be on the required reading list. Thanks : )

06/15/2007 11:00 PM by Bend Oregon REALTOR ® Kelli Fronabarger (Bend River Realty Inc.)


Rich - thank you for a great post.  I, personally, was shocked to receive a not-so-nice comment on a blog I wrote.  I think the person could have said the same thing with a different "tone" and it would have been much easier to hear.  In all reality it was only one person, one comment and I've had far more positive and encouraging words than not.  Your blog is a great reminder of how to "behave" toward others, whether we agree with them or not.

06/15/2007 11:34 PM by Joddie Roberts - Your Spokane Realtor - Spokane, WA (Tomlinson South Real Estate)


To me flamebait was always so hard to define and it is getting worse. I have always thought Wikipedia's definition leaves a lot to be desired: "Flamebait is a message posted to a public Internet discussion group, such as a forum, newsgroup or mailing list, with the intent of provoking an angry response (a "flame") or argument over a topic the troll often has no real interest in."

That would suppose that you have identified the troll and you are baiting them. I can see it in a closed environment but with the WWW and web 2.0 there is such a huge potential audience reading and responding. Where does provocative end and flamebait start?    

grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrreat post Rich.

06/16/2007 03:33 AM by Maureen McCabe - Central Ohio real estate (Real Living HER)


Rich, Great Post!  Even as a no rules kinda girl I agree we all need to abide by at least the basics.

06/16/2007 03:35 AM by Downtown Long Beach Condos Long Beach Real Estate, Laurie Manny (Prudential California Realty)


Hi Rich,

It is always a good idea that just when you think you know what you should, you read someone else's post and I am sure if it is read carefully, you can learn something new. A very good post and I wish I could encourage a few others to read it. But they won't and in the end, they lose because they never gained the respect they could have had. In my world, respect comes before credibility. An excellent post! Worthy of the distinction of being featured. Well Done!

William

 

06/16/2007 03:44 AM by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


Well, now I have a better idea of what flame means.  It must be nice to have so much time to waste causing trouble. 

Thank you for this information, Rich. 

06/16/2007 04:09 AM by Phoenix Arizona Real Estate ~ Doreen McPherson (Keller Williams Arizona Realty ~ Scottsdale ~ Tempe)


Rules for blogging aren't that different from rules to live your life by - or even say the Code of Ethics for Realtors. Be the best person possible and respect other people.

06/16/2007 04:28 AM by Sandra Williams (Rancon Real Estate)


There was an idea for a bloggers code of conduct floating around the internet when things got out of control in the tech blogging world earlier this year. These entries about a bloggers code of conduct are on Bill O'Reilly's blog. 

Call for a Blogger's Code of Conduct

Draft Blogger's Code of Conduct

Code of Conduct: Lessons Learned So Far 

I think it is in the draft that there is a star badge for blogs that expect civility or are civil, will uphold civility in the blogosphere or  something like that. In the comments there's something about "we don't need no stinkin badges."  

Of course most people don't need a code of conduct, they are going to behave.  They follow the golden rule.  Those who don't aren't going to stop being jerks because of a new code.  As Sandra said for those of us that are REALTORS® there is a code of ethics. There is not any clause in the code of ethics that says if it's on the internet you don't have to abide by the code, but some people act as if there is.   Just a small number though.

I don't believe a code of conduct would work.  I think in a community like AR Guidelines are important.     

 

06/16/2007 05:01 AM by Maureen McCabe - Central Ohio real estate (Real Living HER)


Interesting perspective, and good GUIDELINES - but not rules.  Something about "blogging" and "rules" seems inconsistent.  lol.  I've actually witnessed no abuses on ActiveRain, and I assume that's because we're a community of professionals.

06/16/2007 05:26 AM by Margaret Woda, Maryland REALTOR (RE/MAX VISION)


No rules??  Geez.  I seem to learn of a rule every day.  Or, are they simply guidelines??? 

Other "guidelines" I would add are" 

If you comment on someone's post, respect their territory and don't use someone else's blog as link bait to your own blog.  Lots of that going around.

If you blog, please give us SOME content before the more and more popular "READ MORE" link.  If Active Rain is merely the place to link to other blogs, at least give us something.  Otherwise, Active Rain is merely a directory for other blogs or web sites. 

The concept of "live and let live" is wonderful, but if the Active Rain guidelines are not respected, bloggers will increasingly be living "alone". 

GREAT POST. 

06/16/2007 05:30 AM by Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Real Estate


Part of the reason we are real estate agents is because we don't like rules.  Rules that say 9-5 or M-F.  Rules that dictate what we wear and how we act.

But just like real life, cyberspace teaches us that there are standards that must be adhered to or the consequences will have to be faced.  Being rude online eventually brings to cyberspace what being rude in real life brings.  And the opposite is true, too.

06/16/2007 06:04 AM by Chris Lengquist, RIPS (Keller Williams Realty)


Rich, Great post.... Can't we all just get along?

06/16/2007 06:08 AM by My Favorite Mortgage.net - Matthew J Blum


Some good rules to blog by Rich.  God knows I'm not a huge fan of rules, but I admire respect and accountability.  Nice post.

06/16/2007 06:09 AM by Jason Sardi, Pennsylvania Mortgage Broker (First Choice Equity Group Inc.)


Well Good---I don't think I've ever seen the rules posted so succinctly.  Thanks for sharing.

06/16/2007 06:18 AM by Diane Bell, Hilton Head Real Estate, Bluffton (Charter 1 Real Estate, Hilton Head, Bluffton, SC)


Very good set of guidelines.  Sometimes we forget all those simple, common sense things.

06/16/2007 06:32 AM by Tim Maitski (HomeAtlanta.com)


Great blog.  It's nice to be reminded of these common sense rules from time to time.  So far my experience as a newbie has been very good and I've had several really nice folks help me out.  I actually avoided this website for months because I was so intimidated and then I decided to jump on in.  After all, everyone has to start somewhere at some time.  Your message is a good one to read from time to time.  Thanks for making it fun with the graphics.

 

06/16/2007 06:34 AM by


Rich,

Maybe Activerain need to repost this once a week so everyone can abide:)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

06/16/2007 06:38 AM by Neal Bloom-Realtor ® Assoc.-CRS-Weston FL (RE/MAX Premier Associates)


Hi Rich - great list of guidelines and I'd say, from your fingers to the eyes and ears of those who can't seem to get these simple easy-to-live by rules you wrote.  I've seen so much whining and pettiness of late here that it just makes you wonder what those people must be like in person.  We are all judged by how we appear here on AR, and unfortunately for some, they're not coming across very nicely in the words that are being written.

There are posts and comments belittling others, bemoaning and whining about things, posts pitting one person against another - just really childish petty behavior.  When I come upon things like that I find myself wondering if those who write that kind of stuff have any clue how they really come across to those reading it.

I love Lenn's additions to your list!

And to Ines - you are one shining example as Rich and others have stated.   You are THE gold star in that competiton - never whining, accepting constructive criticism with beautiful grace, and always sharing with us what you're learning and doing.  Rich and Maggie said it perfectly.   I'm joining in with Monika on the hug from New Hampshire!!   ;-)

Ann

06/16/2007 06:52 AM by Portsmouth NH Real Estate ~ Ann Cummings (RE/MAX Coast to Coast - Portsmouth New Hampshire)


Rich~

Thanks for taking the time to assemble this matrix of the flow  that reminds me of the new summer rose blooming today in my garden. It opens and makes the world more beautiful as it unfolds, just as this vital community does. I am not sure about removing the thorns, but , as you point out, there are ways to present them within a structure that makes sense.

06/16/2007 07:20 AM by Asheville's GREEN Land & Homes ECO-Steward Realty


Rich, I'm so glad to see this Featured! I'm also glad you found all this valuable information and posted it.

I agree with each and every one.  

I also think Rule 8 means don't give out personal HOME information of others. I've seen that happen elsewhere online. That's dangerous territory.

Thank you again!

06/16/2007 07:34 AM by Lysa Napolitano, Call Coordinator ~ Century 21 Sundance (Century 21 Sundance)


Rich-

Excellent post- Somehow we'll get the message across.

It's quite frustrating, so much of this is common sense.........

06/16/2007 07:38 AM by Palm Beach Real Estate and Loans - Marc Blasi (Leibowitz Realty / Knightlines Mortgage)


Rich, good basic guidelines everyone should follow. Our collective blog posts say a lot about us as individuals ... and I'm sure the public uses that info to decide whether they want to work with us or not.

06/16/2007 07:58 AM by Elaine Reese, REALTOR® in central Ohio (Real Living HER, Worthington Ohio)


Great post!!!  I am new to blogging and these are some terrific tips!!  Much appreciated.

Your mortgage partner for life,

Rey "Steak Dinner" Gallegos
Senior Loan Officer
mailto:rey@Steak-Dinner.com
www.steak-dinner.com/
Five Star Mortgage
Your complete community mortgage broker!
Thank you for your referrals!

06/16/2007 08:56 AM by Rey Gallegos Home Loan Consultant Las Vegas, NV (A Mortgage Bank)


Great post, Rich. Looks like a good book to read, so have added it to my list. Rules, as guidelines, are important. Not sure there are rules that are absolutes. And given how blogging is evolving, and the real estate market is always changing, "rules" will likely evolve as well. Looking forward to the next post.

Jeff

06/16/2007 09:19 AM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


You walk like you talk. Thanks for continually taking the high road... and adding conscience to AR.

If commenting for AR points, which certainly sets the stage for meaningless banter, the least we can do is be polite and stay within the general guidelines, whatever they are, of the community.

Good stuff, and you know we already appreciate your help with us. 

06/16/2007 09:22 AM by Gary Bolen (CRS) Lake Tahoe Real Estate Information (Dickson Realty - South Lake Tahoe)


Rich... good stuff. In blogging, the "rules" are evolving, but there are rules. We can call them guidelines, since no one will come lock us up if we don't follow them, but you WILL be punished if you break them. Readers will punish you, either with their comments or with their behavior, by leaving your blog. That's a fact. 

06/16/2007 09:34 AM by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows)


Rich - Enjoyed this post and like Maggie - didn't realize there was a whole "lingo" that existed around blogging. Thanks for pulling together a great resource for "netiquette" 

06/16/2007 09:43 AM by Clearwater Real Estate Clearwater Beach Condos & Homes for Sale- Cyndee Haydon (Belloise Realty)


Good post, Rich.   Blogging is no different than other social encounters - common sense and manners are necessary.  Sometimes a polite reminder is needed.

06/16/2007 09:58 AM by Brian Schulman - Your Lancaster County, PA Real Estate Professional (Coldwell Banker Select Professionals)


Rich, what a nciely written post!  Rules are good in everything... keeps the society civil.  A lot of it is just common sense.  Great guidelines!  THANKS!

06/16/2007 10:07 AM by Pasadena CA Real Estate - Irina Netchaev (Keller Williams International Realty)


This may sound kind of "dumb" but I love rules/guidelines. It makes a community a great place to "live". Why?  People love to run amuck and do things "their way". If us (as humans) all did thing our way there would be more blatant abuse than you can imagine. Thanks for the reminders and of course...bookmarked.

P.S. I went back to look at the picture...I must be old...the three amigo's or something like that?

06/16/2007 10:56 AM by Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman (RA), e-PRO HAWAII Real Estate & HAWAII Relocation (Century 21 Liberty Homes -Mililani, Hawaii)


Sally - The "Treasure of Sierra Madre" with Humphrey Bogart...

06/16/2007 12:14 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Mott the Hoople - excellent points. All the more reason to play fairly in the WW sandbox!

06/16/2007 02:54 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Irina - always nice to see your sweet face on my posts. Thanks for the kind comments!

06/16/2007 02:55 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Brian - kinda like Thanksgiving Dinner at Grandmas. Mind your p's and q's!

06/16/2007 02:56 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


LOL....I didn't know there were rules. Not one seems to do place settings at the table the way they should. Everything has become so informal!

06/16/2007 03:40 PM by Christy Powers - Pooler, Savannah Real Estate Agent (Keller Williams Coastal Area Partners)


Well...

I had a comment and then I read Hubba's (Jeff Turner) comment.

So for my comment see his because I would rather not just re word what he has to say :)

TLW...ROAR!

06/16/2007 05:46 PM by "The Lovely Wife"...Broker Bryant's Wife... (Co-Owner Tutas Towne Realty, Inc.)


Hi Rich -

Another great post!  The importance of playing nice . . .  Thanks!

06/16/2007 06:17 PM by Cynthia Sloop (Community Property Manager)


TLW - I would take time to respond specifically to your comment, but since your thoughts simply mirror 'Hubba,' then I just refer to his when I get there.... :)~

06/16/2007 06:33 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Christy - Nothing wrong with informal. It's nice to have a place where you can sit down and kick your heels up! Here in the rain, they're not really 'rules,' they more whatcha might call 'guidlines!'

06/16/2007 06:37 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Cyndee - we could spend several posts on just the lingo itself, let along the basic rules of Netiquette!

06/16/2007 06:38 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Jeff (and TLW) - I especially agree with what you state about readers. That's really the true test, the readers. Act unfair or unethical, whine and complain, sling mud or attack, and reader's will drop you like a lead balloon.

06/16/2007 06:42 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Gary - your thoughts and input are greatly appreciated. Next time I'm in your area, let's hook-up, okay?

06/16/2007 06:43 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Jeff D. - that will probably be my premise, that no rules necessary apply, unless it's some kind of company or corporate list, and there are many of those...

06/16/2007 06:45 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Rey "Steak Dinner" - thanks for stopping by and leaving your comments. If no one has mentioned it to you yet, you might want to consider dropping the redundant contact info, i.e. e-mail link, website link, etc., within the comments section. Many consider this practice a form of SPAM. Your tag at the bottom of your comment already gives us the means of contacting you, if desired. Just a thought.....

06/16/2007 06:48 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Elaine - you're absolutely right, and that is the beauty of blogging - conveying our individual and unique personalities and perspectives to potential clients. All the more reason to behave yourself!

06/16/2007 06:49 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Marc - you would think so, just plain common sense for the most part. Unfortunately, there are those who obviously don't have much common sense!

06/16/2007 06:50 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Lysa - yes, that a HUGE one, not giving out personal info. YIKES! Thanks for adding that point!

06/16/2007 06:52 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


janeAnne - a very appropriate illustration. Even in the Garden of Life, we need a little manure spread around to make things grow!

06/16/2007 06:53 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Ann - yes, it does get rather tiresome. I wonder how many new members jump ship because they come across that kind of petty AOL chatroom behavior?

Yes, we need to have an Ines LoveFest!!!

06/16/2007 06:56 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Neal - I appreciate what the AR gods have done to make these kinds of resources more obvious and available, especially to new members. But we do need to offer consistent reminders along the way...

06/16/2007 06:59 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Tim - Hey, thanks man! Your input is always appreciated!

06/16/2007 07:00 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Diane - succinctly...nice to see an expanded vocabulary around here! Thanks!

06/16/2007 07:02 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Jason - I'm not a big fan of rules either. But there's obviously things that are appropriate and inappropriate in public forums like this, hence common sense guidelines!

06/16/2007 07:04 PM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)