Good morning! I was given a great new book "The Go-Giver" by a fellow Rainer after he mentioned it in his blog. Thanks for sending it to me.

What's remarkable about the "Go-Giver" is the paradoxical idea that a person should give first and keep on giving with no expectation of getting anything back. I'm the first to admit I've always liked "win-win" deals. According to the "Go-Giver", even this isn't right as there is an expectation of getting something back.

I know I'm on the right track as I build my business. In fact, I enter into any relationship these days with no expectation. If I can help my fellow man/woman I do so without any expectation of return. In the "Go-Giver", a young man meets an older mentor who proceeds to teach him how to give. This was something the young man hadn't learned yet.

If you haven't picked up the "Go-Giver" yet, I strongly encourage you to do so. I think I'm going to order several copies and dispense them to people in my sphere. This idea of giving first is not new. And it's been bandied about by several people including Ivan Misner of BNI, etc, etc. The interesting thing is how often I (and perhaps you) forget the golden rule. I'll repeat that here if you've forgotten it; "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you".

I strongly encourage you to give. Report to me how you are becoming a "Go-Giver". Thanks for reading!