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Press On... Keep Breathing...Persevere

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Missy Caulk TEAM

“Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful people with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent. The slogan ‘press on’ has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race.” Calvin Coolidge.

Everyone experiences hurt and disappointment, that is part of living. Therefore,it is not what happens to us that changes our destiny but how we respond to what happens to us that determines our destiny. To grow we must be able to move on from our hurts and disappointments.

When we experience hurts, the tendancy is to give up, withdraw, quit being vulnerable and shut ourselves off from others. We quit trusting.

In other words,"we keep breathing but stop living."

What if the people in the video below had given up? (1.6 min)

They all experienced tremendous set backs and hurts.The key is not to shut yourself off, hide in your cave, but to acknowledge your hurt, anger or disappointment and then move on.

 

  • If you have never failed, you have never lived. 
  • If you have never been hurt, you have never lived.
  • If you have never been disappointed, you have never lived. 

 

My pain is not your pain, and your pain is not my pain. But, ALL of us have hurtful things happen to us along our life's journey.  The difference is in how we respond to it. 

Press On......

Hey guys, I'm preaching to myself here. 

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Our TEAM of 6 buyer associates are available to help you relocate to Ann Arbor, Saline, Dexter, Chelsea, Milan, Ypsilanti Township, Clinton, Manchester, Whitmore Lake, or throughout Washtenaw County, MI.

Inspired by my Pastor, Brad Powell, Northridge Church in Saline. 

 

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Comments(38)

Chad McBain
RE/MAX R.E. CENTRE - Guelph, ON

Thanks for the video, I am a huge believer in focus and positivity and although I am aware of most of the stories in the video It is a great refresher.

Sep 22, 2009 12:57 PM
Alexsandra Stewart
Remax equity group - Portland, OR
Broker - Portland Oregon Real Estate

It is about persisitence, and not giving up - and at times when on the verge - of having good support systems for a quick kick, or soft shoulder, so that the moment passes and we can move on. A little help from my friends is always welcome too.  Have to see if I can find the video on you tube - -it wouldn't load for me on my computer.

Sep 22, 2009 01:07 PM
William J. Archambault, Jr.
The Real Estate Investment Institute - Houston, TX

Missy,

I love the video!

Bill

Sep 22, 2009 01:19 PM
Fernando Herboso - Associate Broker MD, & VA
Maxus Realty Group of Samson Properties - Clarksburg, MD
301-246-0001 Serving Maryland, DC and Northern VA

Missy, back a couple years ago when I was still drinking the kool-aid, I was at the KW family Reunion and I never forgotten what Dave Jenks said to me. . 

No matter how talented you are. . . untalented people with action will BEAT YOUR A$$  every time!

Sep 22, 2009 01:23 PM
Sharon Alters
Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty - 904-673-2308 - Fleming Island, FL
Realtor - Homes for Sale Fleming Island FL

Missy, I knew about Abe Lincoln but not the others! I'm going to make my kids watch this too! My friend's husband was told he wouldn't be a good lawyer - he's even been a judge and has been a very successful lawyer. Determination and perseverance outdo 'talent' any day of the week!

Sep 22, 2009 01:55 PM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Missy, this is a gorgous post.  We try to each our children to succeed.  But we can't really succeed unless we've had at least one crash and burn failure. 

Sep 22, 2009 02:17 PM
Jennifer Fivelsdal
JFIVE Home Realty LLC | 845-758-6842|162 Deer Run Rd Red Hook NY 12571 - Rhinebeck, NY
Mid Hudson Valley real estate connection

Missy this is so true, the responds to disappointments makes all the difference.

Sep 22, 2009 03:26 PM
Bob & Bonnie Horning
Mount Joy, PA

You preach it sister! And I thought his nickname was silent Cal! I guess he did have something to say. My fave... A man seated next to him at some State dinner and telling the then ex-president that a friend bet him that he wouldn't get more than 2 words out of him... Calvin's response was "You lose."

I agree with most all of the comments and especially Patricia... we must let our children fail and not bail them out every time as I've seen many in my generation doing. They will learn much more that way.

Thanks for the incredible, inspiring post. Blessings....

Sep 23, 2009 01:32 AM
Renée Donohue~Home Photography
Savvy Home Pix - Allegan, MI
Western Michigan Real Estate Photographer
Thanks Missy! By my post last night I obviously needed it! I could write negative posts all day long about my market and I am pretty sick of wash, rinse, repeat. I think per your advice I will just mix up the process and figure out new and innovative ways to get things done rather than feeling helpless ;)
Sep 23, 2009 03:30 AM
Debby Dutilh
Art and Soul Home Staging - Los Angeles International Ai, CA

Missy - Thanks for sharing the inspirational reminder. It's so easy to accept the pity party invitations and then get really stuck. So like the words of the song, "I just pick myself up, dust myself off, and start all over again..."

Sep 23, 2009 03:51 AM
Jirius Isaac
Isaac Real Estate &TriStar Mortgage - Kenmore, WA
Real Estate & loans in Kenmore, WA
I have seen this video before and loved seeing it again. Thanks.
Sep 23, 2009 04:11 AM
Barbara Singleterry
S Squared Group - Keller Williams Realty - Roseville, CA
Honesty - Integrity- Loyalty

Thanks for the video Missy, I posted it on my facebook.

Sep 23, 2009 10:06 AM
Don Anthony
Don Anthony Realty ~ www.DonAnthonyRealty.com - Charlotte, NC
Charlotte & Triangle NC Discount Realtor

Love it!  Love it!  Love it! 

You've gotta take risks and not be afraid of failure.  Don't be afraid to ACT! 

Thanks for sharing!

Don Anthony Realty Signature - www.DonAnthonyRealty.com

Sep 23, 2009 04:17 PM
Todd Clark - Retired
eXp Realty LLC - Tigard, OR
Principle Broker Oregon

My parents said they never understood really what made me tick, but they have always loved my never give up attitude and will ride something in to the ground before I stop and because of that I've had 3 successful businesses in my life and one that introduced to my wife. (Who I also was not going to accept no as an answer, just kept asking... I think the 2nd time she figured out she better say yes to that first date)

Todd Clark - www.LivingBeaverton.com

Sep 23, 2009 07:54 PM
Jim & Cathy Wood Greater Nashville Area Real Estate
Crye-Leike Realtors, Inc. - Mount Juliet, TN
I Hear that!
Sep 24, 2009 04:13 AM
Debbie Aldrich
The Watts Group Real Estate - Cottonwood Heights, UT
Salt Lake City Realtor - Salt Lake County, Cottonwood Heights

Missy

I have a friend from Wisconsin that insists on persistence and consistency will always be a deciding factor. He blogs and is always focused on making his numbers. I like the Calvin Coolidge quote.

Sep 24, 2009 10:48 AM
Missy Caulk
Missy Caulk TEAM - Ann Arbor, MI
Savvy Realtor - Ann Arbor Real Estate

Opps sorry I have been dealing with banks for two days. Thank you for all your comments, they are much appreciated.

Keep on perserving.

Sep 24, 2009 12:59 PM
Martha Brown
Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc., Annapolis MD 21403 - Annapolis, MD
Your Homes Around Annapolis Agent

Life is too short to let the setbacks keep you down. After all each minute, each hour, each day brings something new to press on for :)

Sep 24, 2009 02:00 PM
John Novak
Keller Williams Realty The Marketplace - Las Vegas, NV
Henderson, Las Vegas and Summerlin Real Estate
I've always liked that quote from Coolidge. And it's definitely timely for today's challenging market. Thanks, Missy!
Sep 24, 2009 02:06 PM
Diane Rice
Rice Prprty Mgmnt & Rlty, LLC, South Holland, IL - Lansing, IL
SFR, SRES, CNC

A perfect scripture that attests to this is: 

Pro 24:16  For a just man falleth seven times, and riseth up again....

Sep 27, 2009 08:01 AM