Just had to write a blog about this subject because it's very worthy of it.

As a male who has been on the planet for more than 40 years, I can truly say that women are such a blessing.  I really think that if women were not around all of us males would not be around because we would have killed ourselves by now by letting our testosterone get out of control and blowing ourselves up!! 

And I really thank God that women have come into society into whatever they choose to be, as males have had that right much longer than they have.

Sorry guys, but I have found that more often than not (but not always) that women politicians tend to be better diplomats and advocates for democracy than some men, and I'm glad to see their numbers increasing in both domestic and international goverment affairs.

Of course, we have all come across women who are, well, let's just say, not so pleasant.  But then on the flip side we've all had our share of men who are complete jackasses.  So rudeness, self-centeredness and manipulation are evils that know no gender borders.

And let's finalize with my Mom.  I can't even put into words the type of person that my mother is.  Every day of my life I try to be more and more like her in the sense that she is such a loving, insightful person.  She has a quality about her that makes people flock to her and just want to be around her.  Always positive, always supportive, never negative.

Wow, if I can get some of that in a pill form my sales would probably increase ten-fold!!!

Here's a shout out to all of you women out there:   I love all of you so much.  God bless you and God bless the warmth that all of you bring to this world, as it is much needed in present times.

God speed to your goals in life whatever they be, and I'm sending some light out to you all who may need it right now.

Women, it does not EVEN matter what race, religion, sexual orientation, height, weight, you may be.

You are all such beautiful beings. 

You rock, and blow me away with the qualities you have that us males will probably never have.

I truly appreciate you and thank you for being here.

 
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OCT
13
2009
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Ralph - What a wonderful post and a great tribute to your Mom! Thanks for the compliment. We appreciate it. You made my day.
12:19am • #196
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Ralph, as poster #197, everything I've wanted to say has been said over and over and over again...but in the spirit of being repetitious, that was a very sweet post and kudos to your mom for being such an awesome mom...to have a son like you! :)

Leilani

1:53am • #197
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Roland, that would be mad cool. I am doing a social media wild card discussion. Wonder how wild I can get... I keep having this argument with the cartoons in my head. The right side of my brain is going "behave" while the left side keeps asking "why?" I have been laughing for two days while working on a DVD for this because people count on my mild quirky habit of periodically misbehaving. I'm going to love presenting this puppy (LOL).

Jessica Steele, what a lovely sentiment. I'm a Daddy's girl, although I drive both my parents crazy (LOL). :-)

 

4:21am • #198

I reread this again today and I stand by my original assessment.  It's just a weird post.  If this were put on ant other blog site and I wouldn't be alone in thinking it.  But, hey, whatever makes you feel better.  Hope someday you find your magic pill!

6:44am • #199
I appreciate the post...however, the skeptic in me wonders if you just chose this subject to create lots of comments verses being truly genuine in your thinking. Either way, thank you for the kind words to us women. It's rare to hear such bold statements from a man. Hope you have a great day!
Melanie Gurley
8:07am • #200
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I am still scratching my head and wondering, "what in the world made him write and post that?" 

Thanks though, kind of a nice way to start my morning, that and my cup of coffee will do me just fine this morning!

9:23am • #201

Graet words Ralph coulnt agree more.

10:25am • #202
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"I am still scratching my head and wondering, "what in the world made him write and post that?""

I'm with Tiffany!  However, I will totally take it.  Where I sell, it's tough to be a woman and command respect.  I have to beat down the door of the good ole boy network but I always win.  Shy smile and then I've got them.  Men, too easy!  LOL

10:30am • #203
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Lovely Post!  I hope that my two little boys grow up to be as Respectful and appreciative of women as you seem to be :)!  I think they are well on their way, they have me as their mommy, a great extended family & in my neck of the desert, they have the blessing of many sets of adopted grandparents. (I sell to a lot of retirees who get to know my little guys through the transaction & beyond:)!!

Thanks again and it isn't even Mothers Day!  Sweet gesture!

10:43am • #204

Shark feeding frenzy.

2:05pm • #206

Wow! Don't think I have ever seen a post with so much passion nor one that garnered so many responses! Ralph, you are unique and a blessing, but credit must be given from us ladies to you guys too.  There would be no human civilization if there were only one sex so both sexes should be worshiped for what we are and appreciate the other.  Each gender brings something different to a relationship whether it is parent/child, man/woman, etc. and we need to thank eachother.  I am glad I was born a woman - it is what I know, but I would not be on this earth without a father and I had the best of the best - a true man, a gentle loving soul.  Thank you again Ralph. You have made my day, and I have had a good cry as your post has really made me miss my mother (passed away 7 years ago at age 84) and my dad (18 years ago at age 81). If you haven't hugged your mom (wife, daughter, niece, grandchild, husband, dad, son etc.) today, do it before it is too late. I need to go home and make my Ralph an apple pie!

2:29pm • #207
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Ralph,

I am on my way back from San Diego in the Phoenix airport and they are getting ready to take off to Flagstaff. Your tribute to women made me feel the same way I did the first time I read a chicken soup for the soul book...... Except I didn't cry. Thanks for the shout!

Your friend in the Cosmic Cow Pie.

5:23pm • #208
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Come on, ladies! Seriously? You believe this nonsense? This dude is trolling for dates. A pure player. Come on -- GET REAL!

6:49pm • #209

I too think the OP is looking for dates. I'm sure if he had a wife or a girlfriend, they may not appreciate his affection for his mom.  Come on, at some point, a man has to grow up.  It's one thing to appreciate women, it's another to worship them.  I don't think all of the women that appreciated this post would want a husband like that.  Come on, now, ladies.  If your husband said that his mom is the best in the world and they don't ever want to upset their mommy.... would you think that you have a great husband?

Btw, OP, do you still live with your mom?

Private - Male
7:47pm • #210

Thank you for such a beautiful and kind post. Maybe thier is a reason we carry children around in our bodies for 10 months. Yes ten not nice!

Monique Hailer
9:17pm • #211
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"Private - Male",

It would be so easy for me to hit the "delete" link on your post.

But I'm not going to do that.

I'm going to leave it there.   On purpose.

That should be recourse enough.

It's like you've never gotten out of high school in your head.

Geez, a few of you dudes just don't get it.  I have no problem with my self confidence to be able to make a public statement about how he empathizes and appreciates the opposite sex for what they are, what they go through, what they aspire to be. 

The post was not intended to be some slobbering worship to women.  Just a simple "I hear you", "I appreciate you", "I understand what you go through", and "I love you"

Hey, men need that sometimes too.  We all do.  Hell, maybe I should write another post for men, would that help?!!

I have no problem making a public statement to women saying "you're part of the reason I am the man that I am today".

Just give up some propers to them, dude.  It's not asking very much.  You're not any less of a man for doing so.  You're more of one for doing so.

And for God's sake, if you're going to make a statement, don't make yourself out to be a sniveling coward by hiding behind an anonymous alias name like "Private Male".

I honestly don't know why I've wasted my time even acknowledging your comment.  I guess it's because I don't want you stealing any of the women's rightful enjoyment of my recognition to them.  You're probably a 12-year old kid or something, right?

I'm not looking for dates, I'm not looking for google juice, I'm not looking to score points with a wife or girlfriend, I'm not looking for anything.

Some of the women on here commented on how my post made them cry.  That's great.  Why?  Because that tells me someone hit their heart of hearts and told them "I get it", "I understand what you do and why you do it, how you've given your love to me unconditionally, and I thank you and love you for that".

Ladies, if you're reading this, please just take my post for what is was intended for:  A gracious thank you.

Don't let any of these Bozos take that away from you.

 

10:47pm • #212
OCT
14
2009
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Wow! What an intersting list of comments! Personally....I think it was wonderful! Cheers!
3:54pm • #213
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Lol at Sherry & Susan. Worth coming back to read those comments. And Greg, you keep telling yourself that, hun. We all believe you. (wink,wink)
7:00pm • #214
OCT
15
2009
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To C, TLW, & Andrea-You Girls Rock!  You did not disappoint!  You brought a post the recognition it deserved and we now have a new group too!  LMAO  After sending the initial emails I couldn't get back here for a few days and look what I missed !  LOL

8:20pm • #215
OCT
17
2009
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Ralph, happy for you to get featured. As I was reading the comments, I think it was very amusing what some guys said. It takes guts to write this post to acknowledge all the ladies out there by a guy. You really don't need to pay attention what they say, I know you don't...just want to say thanks for saying all the nice things about us. Have a good one!
3:06pm • #216

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