Today I showed a buyer a house. This buyer has seen about 100 houses. This buyer hasn't liked any of the past 100 houses. He has tried and tried. He has talked himself into trade offs. Okay I don't mind the cemetary next door or the highway in the back isn't really that noisy I can live with it. He has really tried.
Today he saw a house that he loved. This is what we real estate agents hope for, that a buyer will fall in love with a house. When a buyer falls in love with a house they don't nit pick and can accept imperfections.
Today this buyer got scared and nervous because he loved the house and felt his judgment might be compromised. I wanted my buyer comfortable and he said this is house is perfect and I am going to look for imperfections. So he and I went through the house and found all of the little things that are wrong with the house. A broken window, no central air, and dated recessed lighting. My buyer now could deal with the feelings he had for this house - it wasn't perfect after all. It made it just a little easier to deal with. It gave him some space. He could take a breath.
He will bid and buy this house and be happy and now for him it makes sense and he understands why he saw all of those houses.
I just happened to read your blog and loved it. I feel like helping a buyer find their house is like being a matchmaker. But, another thing that I noticed about your blog is that you're from Westchester County! My hometown is New Rochelle, and I haven't lived in Westchester for a very long time. The last time was in Dobbs Ferry about 20 years ago with my family. When I saw Westchester I became nostalgic.
Carol McCarthy Exit 1st Choice Realty www.househunterforyou.com