Today I showed a buyer a house.  This buyer has seen about 100 houses.  This buyer hasn't liked any of the past 100 houses.  He has tried and tried.  He has talked himself into trade offs.  Okay I don't mind the cemetary next door or the highway in the back isn't really that noisy I can live with it.  He has really tried.

Today he saw a house that he loved.  This is what we real estate agents hope for, that a buyer will fall in love with a house.   When a buyer falls in love with a house they don't nit pick and can accept imperfections.

Today this buyer got scared and nervous because he loved the house and felt his judgment might be compromised. I wanted my buyer comfortable and he said this is house is perfect and I am going to look for imperfections.  So he and I went through the house and found all of the little things that are wrong with the house.  A broken window, no central air, and dated recessed lighting.  My buyer now could deal with the feelings he had for this house - it wasn't perfect after all.  It made it just a little easier to deal with.  It gave him some space.  He could take a breath.

He will bid and buy this house and be happy and now for him it makes sense and he understands why he saw all of those houses.

 

                                   

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6 Comments on Oh Oh, I Like It!

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Outside Blog

I just happened to read your blog and loved it. I feel like helping a buyer find their house is like being a matchmaker. But, another thing that I noticed about your blog is that you're from Westchester County! My hometown is New Rochelle, and I haven't lived in Westchester for a very long time. The last time was in Dobbs Ferry about 20 years ago with my family. When I saw Westchester I became nostalgic.

Carol McCarthy Exit 1st Choice Realty www.househunterforyou.com

 

5:59pm • #1
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It does take a little knowledge of people to help them through the decision making stage of the purchase.

6:04pm • #2
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Your client will remember all you've done to help them.  Being a relentless buyers agent pays off in the long run.  I want my buyers to "love" the home they buy also.   Great job!

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Carol, I was in New Rochelle today and live about five minutes from Dobbs Ferry.

Elite home Sales, yes it does.

Christine, thank you.

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That's funny.  The fact that the Buyer is second guessing his emotions tells me he's a very careful buyer.  He was probably just as careful in selecting his realtor, and the fact he chose you speaks volumes.  Congratulations!

6:12pm • #5
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Miriam, you zeroed in on "the worst fear is fear itself" and basically invited him to go stare it straight in the face. And it wasn't enough to scare him away. I must remember this. Thanks

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