Hate to Make Cold Calls? 5 Tips to Make It Easier

By Maya Bailey, Ph.D.

RISMEDIA, October 12, 2009-Have you often avoided making those "dreaded cold calls?" Do you dream of how much better your business could be but just can't bring yourself to pick up the phone?
You're not alone. In the 12+ years that I have specialized in coaching real estate agents, I have noticed the same avoidant patterns in each of my clients. This article gives you 5 tips to make the process of cold calling easier.

Tip 1: Change the name
I'm not kidding. Do the words "cold calls" send a chill up your spine? It's no wonder- whoever created that term didn't know what they were doing. So, change the term, because it's inaccurate. First of all, many of the people you'll be calling are leads. Second, why would you think cold? Are you cold? Is the receiver of the call cold? Not likely if you're living in a human body.

So maybe I'm exaggerating a bit, but the point is, call it something different, call it what it is, "direct response calls." My clients do much better when they realize they are making direct response calls.

Tip 2: Be in the right mindset
Think about the fact that you have something to offer. You know much more about real estate than Ms. Jane Doe. So if you call to let her know what properties have sold in her area, that is valuable information. Likewise, if you want to offer her a Free Comparative Market Analysis- that's a gift of your time, energy and expertise. You should be proud to offer that. Guess what? If you are proud to offer that, she'll most likely feel appreciative of the offer. Our energy and mindset is transferred to our prospective clients.

Tip 3: Use a permission based approach
For example, when I do direct response calls, the conversation goes something like this, "My name is Maya Bailey and I work with real estate agents who want to double their income. If you'd like to take 30 seconds, I'll be happy to tell you what I do." Notice that I didn't barrel my way through. I said as little as possible until I got their permission to continue.

Tip 4: Get excited about the relationships you'll make
If you approach this in a permission based way, people will be much more open and friendly to you. Instead of focusing on the occasional rude person at the other end of the line, focus instead on what you want.

Most likely what you want is to make some connections with a person, in which you can follow up, convert them into prospective clients and then convert them into transactions. Let yourself feel how good it's going to feel to close those deals. Pat yourself on the back because it all started with the courage it took to make direct response calls.

Tip 5: Remember to reframe a "no" into a "yes"
First of all a "no" does not mean that you are being rejected. Neither does it mean that your service is being rejected. What it means is "No, not now."

Secondly, do you realize that every "no" brings you one step closer to your "yes?" It's a numbers game and you need a certain number of "no's" to get a "yes." Just remember to have thick skin and not take it personally.

Dr. Maya Bailey, author of, Law of Attraction for Real Estate Professionals, integrates 20 years of experience as a psychologist and 12 years as a business coach with her expertise in the Law of Attraction. Her powerful work creates a success formula for real estate professionals ready to double and triple their incomes. Get Dr. Maya's free report, 7 Simple Strategies For More Clients in 90 Days, by visiting www.90DaystoMoreClients.com. Also, check out her new Success Program, designed to help you get focused, motivated, stay on track and create a Positive Mindset, no matter what.

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