One of my best friends is having a mid-life career crisis. She is a journalist, and her employer (for the past 28 years) is going through a little bit of a shake up.
So today we were talking about it. She's got a great job that she does incredibly well in a highly competitive field. She's not real excited about the thought of making a career move and, of course, was imagining the worst (which I just know will not happen).
And as she was painting a picture of unemployment, starvation, foreclosure - you know, all the evils - I interrupted her.
"You know," I said, "there's always real estate!"
And that (and a bunch of wine we'd just consumed) seemed to make it alright.
Then I started to think about how, with all of the uncertainties in this business, we do have a certain amount of control that people working for big corporations lack. As an independent contractor working for a brokerage firm, the broker works for us. If, for whatever reason, the relationship stops working, we can move to another firm. It's usually up to us, not someone in an office halfway across the country.
So, at the end of the day, my friend understood that the worse thing that could happen to her was that she'd have to get a real estate license, and it didn't seem like such a terrible thing!
Hey! Real estate resolved my mid-life career crisis!
Hey Pat,
Funny, but many peope in real estate want something else to "fall-back on" at time. I think "and a bunch of wine we'd just consumed..." sort of says it all, right?
Just kidding, in reality while talking with a friend not long ago I mentioned that I wasn't much of a risk taker myself, he looked at me and said something to the effect "Are you kidding, you get up everyday and go to work not knowing if/when you're ever going to be paid again, no sick pay, no vacation, etc...doesn't sound to me like someone who doesn't take risks." After more though, I guess he was right.
Good luck to your friend.