This has been one of those weeks.

A simple run to the local pizza joint for pick up (and a slight delay on the order) turned into a missing Garmin from an unlocked car- small towns are not immune from crime. The car was in view of the front door- not used to locking, or looking.

Closings that were already late, but surely couldn't exceed yet another week...DID.

The annoyances seemed unrelenting.

I don't know if over-reaction has more to do with a seemingly unending assault on us, the public, from arms length entities- be they credit card companies ("Yes, we have the right to raise your interest rate to 29%, irrespective of timely payments") to a missing Garmin (HEY- I'M GETTING RIPPED OFF ENOUGH) to the delays inherent in ANY bank transaction, or buyer...or seller...or dentist with no other patients while I wait for an hour...

But enough already- not with the current environment, but with how it's managed. By me.

Recollections of selling an entire building of condominiums a few years back that were delayed, delayed, delayed (to the tune of nine months) should have prepared me well for current events. I missed other things as I worried- should have learned something.

To panic then was OK- to panic or over react now is just compromising life.

Time spent to criticize government programs (OK- fish in a barrel) or time indulged in lamenting our extraordinary transformation from a civil real estate environment (at least, sometimes) to a brutal challenge, or time spent making an effort to galvanize an assortment of causes (how can one not) is FINE.

But this environment is also an open invitation to experience life being anything BUT such endeavors. And frankly, my dog still needs me to toss his ball (rather than heave it), and my mother needs to hear more than, "I'll call you back" (regardless of how tempting). I miss talking with my sister.

My sister has an adorable teen aged son, and we ROARED over his experimented-got-caught-love-him-but-how-could-he-be-so-stupid* teenaged exploits. On Monday, I'd have been too immersed to get this much needed laugh. On Saturday, it was my salvation.

Hope you find yours this week!

*except, who leaves a car open with a Garmin on the dash?

 
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OCT
17
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Thanks Laurie! It's important to stop sometimes and realize that all the challenges are just "stuff". What really matters is family, health and lifestyle. Thanks for making me stop a moment to consider how lucky I really am!

6:05pm • #1
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Always important, after the immediate reaction, to be thankful, and to share that laugh.   Nice post!

6:15pm • #2
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Vickie, if you're concentrating on pre-foreclosures, you deserve every laugh that life offers- I hope that it comes EARLY this week for you, too!

Li, there was no better way to end the week than that conversation with my sister regarding my nephew...what a gem.

6:18pm • #3
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There's always something that will give us another side of our world. Something that will keep us grounded. Hello Auntie!!! :)

6:39pm • #4
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Sally Jo, you've maintained a healthy grip on another side- for those of us that well...haven't done so quite enough...thank goodness for YOU'S...AND TEENAGERS! I soooo enjoyed revisiting that mind set today...

6:55pm • #5
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Laurie, Who does that?  Leaves something in plain sight in an unlocked car?  Unfortunately, Laura did and her cell phone vanished in an instant.  Another lesson learned (and we USED to be able to leave our houses unlocked!).  I'm SO glad you had a better ending to the week. 

7:16pm • #6
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Carole, thanks- after delayed closings, other annoyances, THEFT seemed...out of the question (you've been here)- but when it's all said and DONE, what's left but a sister with a great kid? Thank goodness for them!

7:24pm • #7
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Hi Laurie, and so it goes... life (s.it) happens while you are making other plans.  At least you have a sense of humor :)

8:05pm • #8
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Melinda, the only sense of humor that I have is that it's possible to relate to my beloved YOUNG nephew making mistakes- enough for me, for today!

8:22pm • #9
OCT
18
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Laurie,

This stuff is sent to try us; it's how you handle it is what counts. Better week next week.

12:12am • #10
OCT
19
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You're right, Laurie, it's easy to get caught up in the rat race and forget that this life is the only chance we get to talk to a sister or throw a ball to the dog - or your child.  Good post...

6:18pm • #11
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Kate, I'd love it if my child were still young enough to throw a ball to! Thanks....

6:26pm • #12
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Hang in there Kate... at least the worst is behind you.....for now ;-)

10:42pm • #13
OCT
20
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Dan, all was behind me until the picture tube blew on the TV...when it rains, it pours! :)

11:17am • #14
NOV
04
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Terry, happy to report that improvement has occurred- thank you!

2:40pm • #15

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