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Before ActiveRain and now, a journey of discovery.

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Real Estate Agent with Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties Licensed in Connecticut

Before ActiveRain and now, a journey of discovery. My life before AR, or BAR was empty. I often felt left out, knowing there was more out there to experience, more knowledge, more business, more creativity, just more. Little did I know what was really around the corner after joining AR, or AAR.

AlienLife as a Realtor® was becoming more and more difficult. I understood enough about the Internet to know that I was an alien from some obscure planet as far as my web page was concerned. I had yearnings and desires I didn't quite understand. There just had to be another way of doing business, but how to get out there and get noticed by people, short of running out in the middle of the road wearing only a placard that said "hey, I am a Realtor®, use me"?  I had no idea what to do. The world was cold and bleak, and I was tired, lonely and hungry.

One day the word "ActiveRain" was used by someone trying to promote their business to me. They promised me the sun, moon and stars if I would spend a paltry $400 a month, which by the way was half price for me because I am, after all, so special. Mentioning ActiveRain was their biggest mistake. After I hung the phone up I immediately went on the web and found ActiveRain. Wow, what a place!

February 15, 2009 is a date that will live in infamy! Before I knew it I had signed up, I didn't even know what I was getting myself into. I was brave enough to write a really boring post, people came and welcomed me and the rest, shall we say, is history. It was crazy how fast I became addicted, how fast I made friends, how fast I realized that I was learning things here that were leading edge, new ways of doing business, tips and tricks for technology. I can tell you the first 2 articles I read by Broker Bryant got me juiced and excited about doing my job. I could hardly wait to sink my teeth into a CMA and follow his instructions. This was too cool for words. (When the opportunity presented itself I followed his directions and nailed the listing.)

The friendships are many that I have formed here, the bonds are strong. My friends on ActiveRain have seen me through both good times and bad. The prayers that went up for my farmer friend when he had surgery were awesome! Sharing my frustrations when real estate goes awry are just what the doctor ordered. Being able to finally write to an audience (yes, I am a frustrated author) is fulfilling in itself. And did I mention photography? I learned tips and tricks from some very talented photographers here.

Oh, yes, a side note, the reason I landed on ActiveRain in the first place. I am now on some front pages of Google searches. I got a call yesterday from a small real estate office here in town, they were checking out my website, can I please come and talk to them? They were blown away by the website and my blog. Clients follow me on ActiveRain, potential clients have found me through the web. I have closed deals as a result of my new found web presence. I am more confident than ever about my knowledge of the new and ever changing real estate market. I have a place to go when I need an answer, when I am looking for a friend to talk to about things, when I want to clear my head.

ActiveRain is so much more to me than I ever expected or the founders ever intended. To my friends, you know who you are, all of you have become so special to me. To my teachers, thank you from the bottom of my heart for infusing new life into my business. To the staff and founders of ActiveRain, you really rock the house! I may still be an alien from some obscure planet, but I have found a place I can fit in, grow, learn and have fun in! (Naming all of you would mean my post would have been the longest post in the history of AR, so excuse me for not.)

Alien Cowboy

(Photography is the property of and is used by permission of Robert Swetz and may not be reproduced. Thank you Vegas Bob, it was perfect for this post!)

Posted by

Andrea Swiedler, Realtor, Southern Litchfield County Real Estate

2017 President, Greater New Milford Board of Realtors

2017 Connecticut Magazine 5 Star Realtor

 

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© Andrea Swiedler 2009 - 2017

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Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Craig, no talking and telling on my part, LOL. :D

Paula, I think you were one of the first people I left a comment for! Thank you for that. I have tried to tell the agents in my office but they don't get the whole internet thing. Thank you so much!

Al & Peggy, you guys are just the best. And you also make a difference, a big difference, for me and for all your readers! Thank you!

Oct 21, 2009 12:11 PM
Elizabeth Bolton
RE/MAX Destiny Real Estate Cambridge, MA - Cambridge, MA
Cambridge MA Realtor

Hi Andrea ~ There really is a Before and After isn't there? You sure took to this like a fish to water - it's always a pleasure to see you here in the Rain.  This is a wonderful summary of what this site is all about.

Liz

Oct 21, 2009 12:23 PM
William Johnson
Retired - La Jolla, CA
Retired

Hello Andrea,

I very much enjoyed reading your story. I also have a too good imagination and I laughed out loud when I read this section. "running out in the middle of the road wearing only a placard that said "hey, I am a Realtor®, use me".

I hate those calls , I get them all too often myself but in this case, that caller caused you to discover  something that obviously changed your life forever. Personally I am glad he called you, you add a wonderful dimension to the Rain and it would not be the same without you!

Oct 21, 2009 02:39 PM
Robert Vegas Bob Swetz
Las Vegas, NV

Andrea - What a wonderful post and you are and will always be a great asset to the Activerain Network, and you have some serious (google milk) going on around here!

VB ;o)

PS - The pics are great for the post!

Oct 21, 2009 03:21 PM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Hello Liz, and I so enjoy reading your posts, I relish every word. Thank you dear friend!

William, thank you! And yes, although I hate "those" calls, that one paid off in ways they never imagined! I have never looked back since joining AR, and so love my time here! Thank you.

VB, first, thank you so much for letting me use the photos. They were PERFECT for this post! And thank you for the compliments, you are awesome! Now go get some rest will you please??? :D

Oct 21, 2009 03:26 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

ndrea,

So, you are here on AR only since February of this year? Then you are doing exceptionally well. Good luck in the future

Oct 21, 2009 05:01 PM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Jon, well thank you! Yes, only since February, and it has been one very very interesting journey to be sure. Spacibo!

Oct 21, 2009 10:26 PM
Robert Vegas Bob Swetz
Las Vegas, NV

I am trying!

Oct 22, 2009 03:10 PM
Sheldon Neal
Bergen County, NJ - RE/MAX Real Estate Limited - Maywood, NJ
That British Agent Bergen County NJ

Yippeee Andrea ! A great post and a mention among the best entries for the contest :o)

This was a great recap of your AR journey, and I'm so glad you took that plunge in February !!!!

Cheers !

Sheldon

Oct 23, 2009 10:26 AM
Cheryl Ritchie
RE/MAX Leading Edge www.GoldenResults.com - Huntingtown, MD
Southern Maryland 301-980-7566
Thanks for sharing our input on the AR benefits for the contest!
Oct 23, 2009 11:14 AM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Hi Shel, thank you so much. I am more than glad I took the plunge, I so remember the first time I "met" you, you put up a video that made me laugh so hard, LOL. I will just never forget that. Or being right there for the birth of your son, LOL. Your wife was VERY understanding. 

Cheryl, you are very welcome! And honestly, I meant every word of it. AR has changed my life drastically, in so many ways!

Oct 23, 2009 12:00 PM
Martha Brown
Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc., Annapolis MD 21403 - Annapolis, MD
Your Homes Around Annapolis Agent

Andrea- I feel like I have been following you around AR tonight as I go to leave a comment and lo and behold you are right ahead of me. LOL. But I must say what an honor to be doing so. Congrats on your well deserved PAWS contest recognition. It was wonderful. 

Oct 23, 2009 12:32 PM
Elizabeth Bolton
RE/MAX Destiny Real Estate Cambridge, MA - Cambridge, MA
Cambridge MA Realtor

Hi Andrea ~ Back to say Congratulations!! I think ActiveRain should feature all these posts for a week at least - there can't be a better advertisement for how powerful and meaningful this site is.

Liz

Oct 23, 2009 12:45 PM
William James Walton Sr.
WEICHERT, REALTORS® - Briotti Group - Waterbury, CT
Greater Waterbury Real Estate

Andrea - this is nothing short of a testament to the power that ActiveRain has. I'm glad that you won - Congratulations - and I'll have to come and pick your brain some more (of course, if and when I can ever find the time...).

Oct 23, 2009 04:06 PM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Martha, LOL, I love following someone around, pretty funny. Thank you so much, and same to you!

Liz, thank you, I appreciate you coming back! AR is both a powerful tool and so meaningful, you are right about that!

Hi William, and by the way I love the new photo! Any time. Thank you very much. Looks like I am following you now. :D

Oct 24, 2009 12:17 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

You are so right that Robert's photo was perfect for this post.  And I saw it and knew it was his. :)  The magic here, the friends here, the knowledge here, the prayers here... the list goes on and on...

Congrats!

Oct 24, 2009 04:39 AM
Debbie Walsh
SHAHAR Management - Middletown, NY
Hudson Valley NY Real Estate 845.283-3036

Andrea-what a touching and heartfelt post this is.  I wish you much more success and I know you will have it!  Congrats on being contacted by that other Real Estate office.  You are moving on up lady!

  

Oct 25, 2009 08:55 AM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Tammy, isn't it wonderful? I just love it!

Debra, why thank you. It is a fun, amazing journey this ActiveRain one! And look, you have a kitty because of it! And I have a new friend! How perfect is THAT!

Oct 25, 2009 12:35 PM
Jim Frimmer
HomeSmart Realty West - San Diego, CA
Realtor & CDPE, Mission Valley specialist

I had to be convinced to join ActiveRain, and I will admit that it took a lot to convince me.

Oct 27, 2009 03:34 PM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Jim, that phone call was all I needed. I signed up so fast when I got here, LOL, made my head spin! And it has not stopped spinning yet!

Oct 27, 2009 10:42 PM