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Give Yourself Permission For A Pause That Refreshes

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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Realty 0575737

Need Refresh GuyIf you can start relating to looking like this worn out caricature maybe in your Real Estate life you need to

Give Yourself Permission For A Pause That Refreshes.

I have been seeing the contrast between the work burnout victims dragging big time and those coming back from for example a road trip to the mountains all invigorated. Rest and relaxation is needed by all of us.

Look ahead and put something on the calendar. Thanksgiving week, something around Christmas. Don't think scheduling time with extended family necessarily qualifies as rest. Sometimes that is MORE stress.

But periodic letting your mind and your body wander in different directions definitely recharges your batteries. It is more than all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. It is about thriving and not existing. Your inside needs the recharge for the outside to perform its best!!

Sheldon Neal
Bergen County, NJ - RE/MAX Real Estate Limited - Maywood, NJ
That British Agent Bergen County NJ

....lol @Susan ... you're in my 2010 Business Plan already !!

Oct 22, 2009 10:11 AM
Vicki Pedersen
Pedersen Real Estate - Riverside, CA
Providing Exceptional Real Estate Service

Gary,  I totally agree with you about the need to recharge our batteries.  I've found that even if I can't take even a couple of days off to get some R&R, that even one full day here and there to do something fun - go someplace new - is so worthwhile for my mental and physical health. 

Oct 22, 2009 10:36 AM
Robert L. Brown
www.mrbrownsellsgr.com - Grand Rapids, MI
Grand Rapids Real Estate Bellabay Realty, West Mic

Timely. It's called vacation. I need one of those so bad right now.

Oct 22, 2009 11:02 AM
Rich Rogala
Consistent Clients - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Marketing Coach

Great reminder. We forget how slow and dragging we become when we're burned out. It run's through our head that we can't afford the time off, but in reality, we're more efficient when we come back!

Oct 22, 2009 12:01 PM
Cindy Jones
Integrity Real Estate Group - Woodbridge, VA
Pentagon, Fort Belvoir & Quantico Real Estate News

I'm gearing up for a trip to a wedding in FL in a few weeks.  I get to see family, friends and enjoy walks on the beach.  The first real vacation of the year.  Can I leave now?

Oct 22, 2009 12:49 PM
Lee & Carol Barbour, REALTORS
Murphy and Hayesville, NC; Hiawassee, Blairsville, Blue Ridge GA - Murphy, NC
Mountain Living Team in Murphy NC and North GA

We're so blessed to be so busy right now, but we are really looking forward to some time off after CHRISTmas to relax and do something special. Everyday we get a little closer to that reward :)

Oct 22, 2009 01:14 PM
Irene Tron
Valparaiso, IN

Sometimes just getting away for a couple of days works wonders for me.  I am so looking forward to the holidays!

Oct 22, 2009 01:37 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Gary, It's funny, when I get back I always realize I could have used just a few MORE days :)  Although if I stayed away too long, I'd be missing my work..it's a fine line for me.

Oct 22, 2009 03:39 PM
Janna Scharf
Keller Williams Realty Coeur d'Alene - Coeur d'Alene, ID
Coeur d'Alene Idaho Real Estate Expert

I recognize myself in that burn out character!  Early next week I am going to complete two closings, then climb in my car and drive 15 hours to spend a few days laying on the floor while my grandbabies crawl all over me! 

Oct 22, 2009 04:27 PM
Carol Culkin
Diamond Partners Inc - Overland Park, KS
Overland Park Residential Real Estate

Gary, I was recently told that we should schedule 4 vacations a year, especially in a bad market like this - to avoid burn-out.  I always try to have a trip on the upcoming calender to give myself something to look forward to when I am working hard and starting to drag.

Oct 22, 2009 04:59 PM
Terry Chenier
Homelife Glenayre Realty - Mission, BC

Gary,

Me? I've nooked 3 weeks in February in Cabo San Lucas. Cam't wait. Did you get a new picture too? Everyone seems to have taken a different picture. Lenn's got one as well.

Oct 22, 2009 05:12 PM
Susie Blackmon
Ocala, FL
Ocala, Horses, Western Wear, Horse Farms, Marketing

I'd love to book the NFR in Vegas but .... won't make it this year. Guess it wouldn't be too restful anyway. 10-4 re time with family doesn't always relieve stress.

Oct 22, 2009 10:03 PM
John Cannata
214-728-0449 http://TexasLoanGuy.com - Frisco, TX
Texas Home Mortgage - Purchase or Refinance

Sometimes you do need something to look forward to. Nothing is on my calendar right now, with the exception of the standard holidays. Although we do have a lot of events going on (football, cheerleading, horseshows, etc). Those kids sure are busy.

Oct 23, 2009 03:54 PM
June Tassillo
Owner/Broker RE/MAX Elite Realty - Franklin, NC
Let me help you with the next phase of your life!

Gary ~ It always does wonders for me.  I just took 4 days to go surprise my husband that is working in Hollywood, Fl.  You can imagine the look on his face at 4:30am when I arrived from driving all night. 

ps  I like your new photo!

Oct 24, 2009 12:57 AM
Donna Yates
BHGRE - Metro Brokers - Blue Ridge, GA
Blue Ridge Mountains

Gary:  I think this is a proven fact, I know it holds true for me.  I even try to take one day or at least one-half day during the 7 day week for some sort of break.  It's so easy to get caught up working virtually 24/7.  I missed church one too many times and finally decided that work on Sunday must start at 2pm (unless a client has made a previous appointment).  It, at least almost assures me some time out to spend with God and family.

Oct 24, 2009 01:32 AM
Diane Rice
Rice Prprty Mgmnt & Rlty, LLC, South Holland, IL - Lansing, IL
SFR, SRES, CNC

Great!  Just convince my husbo!

Oct 24, 2009 06:09 AM
Loreena and Michael Yeo
3:16 team REALTY ~ Locally-owned Prosper TX Real Estate Co. - Prosper, TX
Real Estate Agents

That's why I find myself crawling into bed by 9pm some days of the week. A good sleep is always healthy for the soul. Just as my phone batteries need re-charging, my body and mind does too.

Oct 24, 2009 05:24 PM
Trey Thurmond
BCR Realtors - College Station, TX
College Station , Texas Homes

Worked on this exact thing today Gary. I like to duck hunt so my son-n-law and I went out to check on our duck ponds . I am ready to work now.

Oct 25, 2009 12:51 PM
Lori Churchill Cofer
Beasley Realty - Pullman, WA
Realtor - 509-330-0086 - Pullman, WA

Gary,

Absolutely LOVE the picture....I have felt like that....and you are right...setting aside time to recharge is vital...

Oct 26, 2009 03:27 PM
Colleen Fischesser Northwest Property Shop
NextHome Experience - Chelan, WA
A Tradition of Trust in the Pacific NW since 1990!

Ok. Guilty. This could have been a snapshot of me last week. Took a few days this weekend and regrouped. We all need to "step away" now and again!

Oct 27, 2009 02:30 PM