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I Met "My Husbo" 16 Years Ago.... Today

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Rice Prprty Mgmnt & Rlty, LLC, South Holland, IL 481.010183

This is a sentimental mushy post, so for those who have had enough of me raving about "My Husbo"... don't read another word....

Exactly 16 years ago today, a very shy, tall skinny man came into the book store where i worked, and just stood there looking awkward.

What's HIS problem, i thought? Of course, i did not know him from Adam, for at the time, the suffering i endured caused me to look really really bad.... had lost my car, job, my house.... Everyone...  had forsook me.... it was awful!!

In the spirit realm though, i was FULL of the JOY of the Lord, for HE and i were having a continual feast, and nothing else mattered at the time.

Now, unbeknown  to me... this man, Anthony, had been told that he would "know his wife when he'd first lay eyes upon her"....  

Oblivious to that, my only concern was to make sure the customers were buying the right Bibles, books, and tapes! (It was a Christian Book Store)

Back to the story...  The reason this day is so significant is because God sent Tony to rescue me.... he was my Moses.  His obedience is priceless, for had he looked on me from the outward, he would have run away!  He CHOSE instead to see what the Lord's will was.

After we were introduced by his nephew, we got on the topic of marriage.  He asked, "Do you believe the Lord will bless ME with a wife?"

Thinking to myself, "what's HIS problem", my answer was... "if you would delight yourself in the Lord, HE will grant you the desires of your heart!"  I had NO inclination that this man would be MY husband, because, NO MAN wanted me... i was NOT pretty, and was called a "space cadet"!  Abhorred and talked about, i placed myself in a secret hiding spot, a refuge, where i'd get acceptance...  hidden in the LORD.  Daily HE was my delight!  I could run to HIM, for HE alone understood, and gave me comfort from the humiliation i faced.

"MY Husbo" was sent by whom my heart trusted in, and caused me to forget the reason i was crying." He saw me through the eyes of GOD and loved me from the inside out!  We were married 6 months later. 

(picture courtesy of Bing)

Today,  Tony and i took a little time this morning over shared coffee to reminisce with heartfelt gratitude about the immeasurable kindness and goodness shown toward us by a GOD who in His infinite wisdom placed us with one another.  My soul does magnify you today my Lord!  Receive Glory, Praises & Honor!

 

Comments (31)

Diane Rice
Rice Prprty Mgmnt & Rlty, LLC, South Holland, IL - Lansing, IL
SFR, SRES, CNC

Stacey:  Thank you for the well wishes... we will not forget!

Mary:  We all look forward to reading "your love story"  Please don't keep us waiting long!

Carol:  yes, HIS ways ARE perfect!  Thanks for reading and enjoying our story!  

Nick:  Thank you!  YOU TOO are special - thanks for reading!

Oct 27, 2009 05:47 AM
Alexander Harb
Knights Investing - Mesquite, TX
Dallas, Texas Real Estate Investing

I REALLY have to meet this man of God who saw you in your pitiful
condition (so you thought) and saw what the LORD saw in you.....

A WOMAN OF GOD who loves the Lord with all her heart, soul,
mind and strength.... and loves others as she loves herself..

AMEN !!

\O/

Oct 27, 2009 06:06 AM
Diane Rice
Rice Prprty Mgmnt & Rlty, LLC, South Holland, IL - Lansing, IL
SFR, SRES, CNC

Irene:  I appreciate your blessings toward us...  we are both grateful for what the LORD has done in connecting us. If i didn't have great buddies in the Rain like YOU...  well... i dunno???

George:  Happy belated 35TH!!!  Now, WHERE is BLOG??? I KNEW YOU were blessed from the beginning!  Just for the record, it's the 16Th year of us meeting... our 16 year marriage anniversary is coming up in April. 

Carol:  It made me feel good to learn you enjoyed our story... thanks for taking the time to read.  I look forward to reading some of YOURS too!! 

Debbie:  my friend... I do know your sentiments are very real, for i feel them.  Thank you for caring enough to bless us even further!

 

Oct 27, 2009 06:07 AM
Diane Rice
Rice Prprty Mgmnt & Rlty, LLC, South Holland, IL - Lansing, IL
SFR, SRES, CNC

Alex:  Soon... very soon.  When you hear HIS side of it... he'll say HE was the one who was pitiful! 

Oct 27, 2009 06:18 AM
Bob Sloop, Consultant, Indianapolis, IN
RS Mortgage Consulting - Indianapolis, IN

WOW, what a nice story...thanks for sharing this with us all.  I hope your next 16 are as sweet as these were for you both.

Oct 27, 2009 11:42 AM
1~Judi Barrett
Integrity Real Estate Services 116 SE AVE N, Idabel, OK 74745 - Idabel, OK
BS Ed, Integrity Real Estate Services -IDABEL OK

Diane, It is obvious that you love your husband very much.  Be blessed!

Oct 27, 2009 12:26 PM
Jennifer Fivelsdal
JFIVE Home Realty LLC | 845-758-6842|162 Deer Run Rd Red Hook NY 12571 - Rhinebeck, NY
Mid Hudson Valley real estate connection

Diane happy anniversary, it is always great to see a true love and a long lasting marriage.

Oct 28, 2009 12:23 AM
Diane Rice
Rice Prprty Mgmnt & Rlty, LLC, South Holland, IL - Lansing, IL
SFR, SRES, CNC

Bob:  Thank you!  I happen to KNOW that You and your Cyndi ALSO have an awesome love-story!  Wishes accepted!

Judi: IS IT THAT OBVIOUS?????  When you know that GOD specifically sent someone, your adoration for them is exceptional...  hmmm guess my gratitude shows???

Jennifer:  Thank you... we don't have the years that YOU and your husbo have.... but we are working on it!

Oct 28, 2009 02:45 AM
Rebecca Gaujot, RealtorĀ®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

Diane, a beautiful story indeed...thanks for sharing and may God continue to bless you and Tony. 

Oct 28, 2009 04:31 AM
Alice Linahan
Voices Empower - Argyle, TX

Diane,

The Good Lord works in wonderful and mysterious ways. What a blessing you are for each other and what a blessing you are for us who get to know your story!!

Hey I just watched this amazing short film. I think you will understand why I loved it if you have a chance to watch it. A film about Hope and Love and how we are all wonderfully and beautifully made by God. The Butterfly Circus....

 

Morning Glory-Evening Grace,

Alice

Oct 28, 2009 06:08 AM
Diane Rice
Rice Prprty Mgmnt & Rlty, LLC, South Holland, IL - Lansing, IL
SFR, SRES, CNC

Rebecca:  Thank you!  I wish the same toward you also!

Alice:  Thank you for your thoughts and for the clip

Oct 28, 2009 10:39 AM
Jeff&Grace Safrin
F.C.Tucker 1st Team Real Estate - Valparaiso, IN
SpousesSellingHousesTM

May God continue to bless both of you with a long joyous marriage and Diane- you are very pretty - inside and out :)

Sincerely,

Grace

Oct 29, 2009 10:29 AM
Lanre-"THE REAL ESTATE FARMER" Folayan
Samson Properties - Bowie, MD
I don't make promises.I deliver results.SOLD HOMES

Our God is awesome isn't he? Wow! Congratulations on your 16th wedding anniversary. See what you almost missed out on Diane. But God being soo good he brought the two of you together and may God keep the two of you together-FOREVER. This is very beautiful. Really love this blog and I love how you talking about your boo to everyone,I know that's right-LOL. One day I hope to find my boo too-LOL. You wouldn't happen to know or be related to Sanaa Lathan  by any chance? Great post.

Oct 29, 2009 12:29 PM
Diane Rice
Rice Prprty Mgmnt & Rlty, LLC, South Holland, IL - Lansing, IL
SFR, SRES, CNC

Hi Lanre: Thank you for thinking the way you've said. No relation to Ms. Lathan, however i can say that GOD desires to escort YOUR bride to you.  It begins when we take our focus OFF of the mate and onto HIM.... HE desires to be the ONE & ONLY .... then, because HE made you, HE knows when, who, and will get the glory!  Be encouraged!

Oct 29, 2009 05:15 PM
Mike Frazier
Carousel Realty of Dyer County - Dyersburg, TN
Northwest Tennessee Realtor

Diane,

I married my wife 27 years ago and love her more now than then!

Oct 31, 2009 03:25 AM
Diane Rice
Rice Prprty Mgmnt & Rlty, LLC, South Holland, IL - Lansing, IL
SFR, SRES, CNC

Awwww Mike!  Marriage is wonderful isn't it.....  and it DOES get better later!  I KNOW she appreciates YOU!  Thanks for sharing about her.  I wish you continued blessings and wedded bliss!

Oct 31, 2009 03:52 AM
Lina Robertson
AMAX Real Estate - Springfield, MO
REALTORĀ® Serving Springfield, Nixa and Ozark, MO

Diane - what a beautiful story!  I love hearing stories of how couples met.  Yours is particularly touching.  May God bless you with many, many more years together.

Nov 02, 2009 10:59 AM
Diane Rice
Rice Prprty Mgmnt & Rlty, LLC, South Holland, IL - Lansing, IL
SFR, SRES, CNC

Hi Lina! Thank you for the blessings.... that was so kind of you, and we appreciate it!  I too enjoy reading stories about how couples met, and their engagements, proposals, etc.  I guess it's that sentimental side of us women.  

Nov 02, 2009 11:51 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Diane, WOW! Your post gave me chills and I teared up while reading it. The best to you both as you continue your journey together!

Nov 03, 2009 02:48 AM
Diane Rice
Rice Prprty Mgmnt & Rlty, LLC, South Holland, IL - Lansing, IL
SFR, SRES, CNC

Hi Wanda!  You know, we owe it all to the Lord.  Glad to hear it blessed you, and thanks for your well wishes toward us... we wish you the best too!

Nov 03, 2009 03:47 AM